The Seattle Star Newspaper, December 22, 1920, Page 13

) Wepnespar DECEMRER *, 1920. IMPROPER TRAINING OF OUR BOYS AND GIRLS UNDERLYING AUSE OF ALL DIVORCE? Dear Miss Grey: ters on divorces and must say that some good truths are in . But I do not wholly agree with some of them. eve that the parents are more to blame than those direct- involved. \Girlish Frock Expresses the ‘Holiday Spirit I have been reading with interest the} I firmly} “ne of the greatest reasons in the world for divorces, to my | is the marriage of young girls. Girls who are not old to know their own minds are marrying on the impulse a. moment. They are satisfied for a short time and then ‘mother notion strikes them and to the divorce courts they go rhaps they become mothers. The strain on their young, Sil andeveloped bodies is hard and too many times the first is } followed closely by the second and sometimes more. No matter how good a girt is or mothers are not looking after this| dow hard she bh. r of life. & place of ONE WHO WANTS A HAPPY stant child-mising ts gol HOME. her and no mother tn i! a Be at her best in her own reat Anywhere else. She mus With her little brood and with poor | too old, but I have been wa Health she loses her interest to the | write you on this divo @ktent that the home jown. She Tam 80 years old my next t Beernes dissatisfied ay and I should like tc her early marriage belief as to what is the iMRen the husband fails to see the|vorve, I think “Married 37 Years” feal physical condition of t not the proper idea, If women p tad nags about the home » | would only live more from the Bible nce and because she has not re n from the mov tures the ed her beauty, I pity such wom: | world would be much with all my heart, for it is not} I think the main ca ety their fanit. trouble is the fact bother serious fault I blame to| mothers and fathers le mothers who are not teaching | dren run them instead of & ff girls the rules and art of home-| children do as they wish the px. No man can honestly re| I raised six. My hus! et his wife if she proves to be a/ taken from me when my eldest be ly housekeeper, and yet how/was 12 and baby 2 I she know exactly what to do if | knew where my boys taught at home? Mothers who| They are all married anc making a family drudge of them-|dren of their own and letting their daughters go | chil ree are not only wearing them-| say a out, but are placing their| they t thters in a poor position. How| In ' h better for the world if every | to pict Sil were taught how to practically | common thing rd economically manage a Wome. and girls say when they talk More thing, Miss Grey, and) some one getting married, “Oh, well is the moral training of the boys! if they don’t get along they can get land. 1 believe that too little | a divorce.” n is paid to it. Sometimes I| Another caume ts our tax divorce from appearance that our girls |lawa A man should be made to sup. being sadly neglected, too, but} port his children no matter w his help but feel that more girls | cause may be and adultery should be } staying by the good old moral) the only cause for divorce. If a man Ing than ee Fathers andland woman knew this they would te | © ing to my Tam ow Q ( “Keep Your Cash for Christmas Cheer— Bay That Sait and Pay Next Year”— & Men’s and Youths’ A Suits and Top Coats Py hotid@ays call for something new, and this store will supply ir needs and allow you to pay for them in Easy Weekly Terms, beginning next year. Beit READY TAILORE: LOTHES WOMEN. ‘S—FURS Rialto O14 Frederick & Nelson Building Second Ave. Between Madison and Spring, Over Pig’n Whistle a, IPR) 4 ] - ee v is SD and girls were. | BY CORA MOORE (New York's Fash nv Authority. Dorothy t loves” fri she says she never has hb uxh of them. this dress tn which she o as many frills as she wante Christmas dance. Ien't it attractive, and doesn't it sult her? So she designed |, id have 4, for a THE SEATTLE STAR ho wontal can afar to miss THE BOOK OF MARTHA — |DADDY HAD A RICH STORE OF BASED ON ACTUAL EXPERIENCE “Don't look #0 worried, Janem ee one, In his time. This from Daddy Lorimer as he emerged from my husband's room. | ¢XPerience in all the emotions which | has fallen asleep without} move human beings dyne for the first time,” | The problems of married “What oo) news!" Martha, with a sympathetic clasp of| once distressed his own wife my fingers. it was his fault. continued, “There may be a big 1 erted. ure it would be for the bet Will he know me ever again, I “If I could » to us confused women. | “My deart My dear! Put that fear awayl Daddy commanded, “ we'd better talk about something | | wife, But tn epite of his determination, T could see that it took a supreme ef our talk At length, wettled by ailence on my pa divan, daddy fren van Sgr Bh | “You're nice kiddies! Good gtria, | Pertenece. |you two, But, Marte, you're much jteo thin! Whatever Pwart has been | Paused, studied us thoughtfully, nod Nittle giria! You t have the easy rows to hoe in this life Bat a man has to still? old before he finds that out And ‘ws Ewart, now. What can a/ that in a wife finer than) And And what i the fool doing? how I'd like to tell him a few about it? to touch upon the our minds on a subject which | Lorimer on that point rou about 99 per woman I became alert, for I knew double standard. hat daddy was in a wonderful po-| man ever tells any woman. ‘o help Martha and me—it he PHILOSOPHY wure to Interest children of all ages He bad « rich Jazziand Five will set @ speedy pace store of philosophy based on a vaat|!" their offering, aptly termed “a ito | ment in Selina’s Cireus exclatmed| which dixtressed Martha and me had | And And tf we could m going to stay here” Daddy| get it out of him, his opinion—a| man's opinion—of the great game A in him, the nurses say, when|and shame—of the double moral| man standard, would be of incalculable rhaps, if we knew all, we might With our opportunities, girla surmise of what a man thought of his flairs, and the T gUue#s | deceits they cnused, and the conse quent hurt to @ trusting and devoted ‘The big difficutty with Marthaand| wr). me was that we were forever going | feature Pb around in @ labyrinth of confusion. | All my troubles with Bob had to be 1 ve | He AM BAKED solved to ask Martha about her own| [MN C7DER Did Hwart take it for granted that everything was always all right be up to, don’t take It so seriously." He| (Ween them, no matter what he had “ n been doing, if only she wouldn't talk And did Pwart mile ff she kept| we tf she dared to show! and sprinkle with epicea Pour over new about his romances? | cider. ‘ow almost violence if she | slow oven for two houra Tee | ewes back upon them from the serenity of | | ing It would simply be a waste of time old age. rtainty daddy had succeeded tn to try to get anything out of Daddy I knew well cent of the that even at his age he would never al activity of the average hand us girls some facts about the Certain truths no puny strength to mve big, strong PALACE HIP HAS LIVE. ey x ad AS SHOW Hier in preparations for the Christ | mas season, the management of | |Loew's Pulace Hip has taken a Place at the head of the line by se | curing in the new show, opening to: | morrow, a bill replete with features Miss Nellico De Onsonne and her #tndy in #yncopation.” Yourfooted animals will provide por monkeys clege education,’ dogs in “with @ and well trained | the troups Jhnmy Lyons t# charactertetically billed as “the Hebrew Soldier Statew A versatile duo, who are scheduled | |to bring a gay comedy skit, are | | Glick and Bright, @ young man and| pretty girl | Wray's Mannikin and Marionette Hippodrome t# hers @ unique and spect ed as being | lar novelty. | Comedy, melodrama and tragedy are | blended in the acta offered by the | tiny figures. Jack Knife Man” wil be the topiay. 1 slice bam cut 3 tnches thick 1 teas ground cloves 3 teaspoons cinnamon % teaspoon pepper cider to cover or more than half cover Trim off superftnoun fat. |} minutes and drain. Bol) 30 Put in roaster Cover tightly and bake In a “When I see little wornen like you, trugsling in. net,” daddy liked the phras much that he repeated it, strugeling in @ net, and using your men from themselves, sometimes But from daddy’s attitude townrd | without a 60-60 chance of doing it, would. Martha and me, and his remark | I'd like to make the chaps swallow To know afl ts to forgive afl, they | about certain fool young hu jay. Daddy was an old man who! we could sum up the residuum | had had his Ming, and a pretty com- experiences, perhaps, as he It in of @ particular quality of} mousseline de sole which has a bit of stiffness in it, necessary to give the desired crispness to the row jupon row of puffy ruchings that, |aave for the smashing pink rose, make up the entire decorative schema | Incidentalty, each of the ruchings) |i threaded thru ft» center with a | Diack velvet ribbon and there is an| lunderskirt of the mousseline that| drops about two inches below the overdreas just to give it the effect of a tunic. | LPL ALAA think twice before they would go into a hasty marriage. | ‘The way it js now, ® man meets al pretty girl and gts it Into his head | he would like to have her and they} |r et married, if he cannot get her jany other way, and soon there is a} divorce, EE EIS I, GRANDMA. eee } Dear Mis» Grey: I wish to reply} to the letter written by “Married | |Man* tm Wednesday's paper, tn} |which he states that most women, after marriage, lapse into fat, care | |ieas and unattractive women. | I am «peaking from my own ¢& | | perience, and for over three. years. lwhenever I had to ask my htsband| for money for new clothes or shoes, so 1 could look neat and nice, was jatware told to get out and earn them, as he had no money to throw away So I have earned every thing I have |had #0 far to keep me looking neat land girlish, | Now I ask myself, should T keep! lthie up and go on living with a man that I know wilnot buy me) the necemary things I need to keep| me looking “personally fit"? | I think tp most cases, when the! wife gets to looking as “Married| Man” has described her, it fe nearly | always the fault of the man himself | who never stops to think if he in| doing hie hare to keep the girl be) married looking Uke ahe should and) ought to look. 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