The Seattle Star Newspaper, August 12, 1920, Page 11

“FORMER MARRIAGES OF SBAND BRING ILLUSIONMENT BY CYNTHIA GREY Dear Miss Grey: I am going to tell you a few of my feel- ings and perhaps I will feel better. I know you hear so many troubles perhaps mine will seem trifling in comparison. The main trouble is my husband; I guess perhaps they are More or less a main trouble. 1 dearly loved him up until a few months ago, when I began to mistrust him. He has al- ‘ways been very good to me and I feel I have done my share, as it was never an effort to do things to please him; it just No. 158—The Star's si dressed women THE SEATTLE STAR Seattle Style napshots of attractively- on Seattle streets seemed to come natural. T cannot talk quietly with him, as he goes into the most dis- gusting tempers. Personally I think it is because he does not wish to explain his actions. I do not ask him for an account- ing where he goes and what he does in the day time, but can-} | didly, Miss Grey, I think he owes it to me not to stay out all night and then, when asked for an explanation, avoid giving | one. There is only one conclusion to come to, and that is:) He was some place he had no right, as a married man, to be, ©end was too much of a coward to come out and tell me. How) ‘h is a woman supposed to stand just because she may be} i ? My love for my husband was as good and true, and he was my ideal in all respects. He has fallen from where I held him! estimation, and, try as I will, I cannot get it out of my that he is not being true to me. His actions where | Women are concerned are really disgusting. If he sees a girl, | \ no matter how big or how small, getting aboard a car he| ! would not miss looking at the limb she displays, no matter how little of it he can see. He can see a woman about as far @way as any human eye could possibly see. Now, under-) stand, Miss Grey, I am not jealous; no, just disgusted. When} - Imarried him, after we were married I unfortunately discov- | ered he had been married twice before, never saying one ord to me about his past. I trusted him to such an extent I ver dreamed of such a thing. When I asked him if it were true he said, “Yes; what of it?” I am becoming more bitter _ every day. Sometimes I cannot trust myself to look at him, | as I hate him at timés with a good, healthy hate, and often | wish I could make him suffer as he has made me. But what could I do? Cheapen myself by flirting? NO! Stay out all| night like he does? NO! Then what is left, Miss Grey?) ' There are always two sides to a story, but in this case there | is only his vide, as he often admits what an excellent wife and| mpanion lam. I have no absolute proof, but if his actions} prove anything he is plain woman crazy! here is a heavy feeling in my heart, Miss Grey, because 1 Was serenely happy not so long ago, and I have known both happiness and sorrow in my life. I thought it was going to, be my fortune to have a good husband, true to me as 1) was to him. What do you think, Miss Grey? Thank you. JUST A WOMAN. _ Did your husband take to| | staying out all night, I won HAT do YOU A { —Photo by Cress-Dale. Navy blue georgette crepe is accordion pleated and banded der, befors you began to mis- trust him? | The most successful busi men go about facing the) think? Write thia Grey, care of Seattle Star. ! with cream satin, in today’s fashion picture. A navy blue @ || wool cape is satin-lined and has a blue and silver metal cloth} ‘collar. The hat is blue straw and satin and the veil is blue} with silk spots. White kid gloves and bow-tied low shoes are world with a serio 88, rts, and.in their moments if relaxation, they are just i grown-up boys; at least ‘that is the conclusion we must draw if we are to compare -gome of their antics with ’ those of their small sons. | Looking at it in one way, - your husband should have told _ you of his former marriages; and then, looking at it from another angle, he probably eared so much about you that didn't want to run one lit-| tle risk of losing you. And} j » too, he may be one of | these advanced thinkers who ieves that a man’s past be- 5 to himself and his God, likewise a woman's, and| if he did not question you as to yours, you in turn had no to inquire as to his, as long “ it did not concern you afterward. When you began to mis- And after all is done and frust and suspect him, he|8id, I want you to know that | probably said to himself light-|1 do not excuse your husband 4 true male fashion, “Oh,,one iota for his condyct, well, I may as well have the| Whether or not you nafged game as the name.” It’s de- him about his former mar- 'plorable, of course; but the|"ges. He_ should think ‘@verage man has just those|enough of himself not to go wort of theories, and we can| ff on a tangent just because either take them and make | you disappointed him. the best of a bad bargain, or! leave them. So it is now with | prea st" Suppitee “tna | you; you've gotten off on the Nv» wrong track and have a bad |\1920. to) bargain on your hands. You, }ix5"..0! may take it and with extreme shapes. | ml patience and a gredt deal of | Vara." tusg and . mask of deadly : but within their |up to you. I can’t advise you which to do. If you wish to play the \game fo a game finish, quit |questiqning your husband jabout his actions. Force your- self to be pleasant and live your part of the bargain \faithfully. If he ever really) jeared about you, and has any} jmanliness or self-respect, this| will bring him to a full reali-| zation of his folly. Then, aft- er several months of inward humiliation, which appears as outward indifference, if you are scout enough to let by- gones be by-gones, and pat} him affectionately upon the head while he eats humble pie, you may face about to- or and live happily, at) least quite happily, ever | ound, Wash. Apply counts! BA L, manter General of the > bers, or leave it. It's strictly —- to —manyNpave beey helped through the careful apglication of O. G.£.—and you too can be relieved of your G&tre if you giyé O.G.C. a fair trial. don’t suffer the discomfort, and embgftassments of a Goitre any longer — and by all meansY¥on't pg¥ hundreds of dollars for a Betiangerous surgical operatign fogthe removal of your Goitre, when O. G. C. can be obtal for such a small expenditure. One of our patients, after ugg O. G. C., wrote us as follows: Dear Sirs : 1 was troubled for sgveral gars with Gottre, was unable to breathe freely and coulffnot slecpwphen lying on my back, Iheard of this cure and decfled to try Afler following directions, my Goitre was redgfed nearly onwhalf inch in fifteen days. I used two and a lif bottles of the Qure and can truthfully say my Goitreis CYNE. J cannot spe too well of this wonderful eure. URS.W.S. McINTYRE Address given upon request. LT herfy make statement of the Jact that O. G.C. Goitre Remedy faved the cost of an ¢ spentti speration and procured We desfhed results in the case of my WIA WD MeINTYRE Write for full particulars—leaflet, etc. Dept CC 0. G, CHEMICAL CO., Seattle, Washington worn with this unusual street If the lady pictured here will call receive two tickets to “Linger Longer Letty” at the Metropolitan theatre next week, Monday's fashion picture war of Mise Lacille Berg, 709 9th ave. dress, at The Star's editorial rooms she will SECOND GRADE JELLY After making the first and choice jelly from the juice which has only dripped with no assistance from the jelly bag there is always too much Juice left in the fruit to be discarded. This julce should be squeezed out of the fruit and made into jelly to be used in cooking or sandwiches. The Jelly will pot be as clear and transparent as that made from the dripped juice, but that will be the only difference. Several kinds of fruit could be combined and made into a “three fruit” Jelly “Loco,” as applied to unbalanced humans, comes from the fact that cattle, eating the loco weed of the south, become crazy. The most GREEN PEPPERS STUFFED WITH CORN 2 ears of sweet corn 1 tomato 4 tablenpoona, butter % teaspoon salt ‘4 tenapoon paprika Cut the top from the kernels of corn and with the blunt edge of the | knife, scrape out the rest. Mix corn, |tomato, butter, salt and paprika, A tte sugar may be nm the corn is not from ~"y garden.” Cut the stem en, peppers, remove the » fibre, Fill with in a moderate oF Olive oll may b butter, In this more salt will) | stick cinnamon broken | pleces. lo Woutant can afford to iiss ORF OF BO ODN Es SINT OODN ORIN Mr NR en wee rer et) OF SNA Fr Qe Questions of health, sanitation, hygiene will be angwered if sent to Information Department, U, 8, Pub- le Mealth Kervice, Washington, D, C. ICE-WATER “loe-water, the musical tinkling of which in the corridors is the most characteristic sound of the Ameri: | jean caravanserni,” has long had the attention of sanitarians, to whom the idea naturally occurred that if the lee added to the water was im |pure, serious consequences would result, In spite of the fact that tce may {at times contain very considerable | numbers of bacteria, only a surpris lingly small number of epidemics |have been charged to infected ice; land @ careful examination of the re- | ports leaves upon the student the jimpression that the dangers of pol |luted ice have probably been exag erated. Briefly stated, the more important | tacts regarding ice as a vehicle of | |infectious disease appear to be as follows: While it is true that some jindividual bacteria survive exposure to freezing, and even very low tem peratures, such conditions are highly lunfavorable to teria in general, jeven of the mme kind, especially if |the exposure be prolonged, Out of a number of individual bac- teria of any kind subjected to frees ing, a large propprtion usually, per ish, ewpectially if they continue to be exponed to the low temperature for | two or three weeks, but a small pro portion survive. ‘There is a good reason to believe that the virulence of the survivors ta weakened by this exposure to low temperatures, Ice for table use should always be handied in cleanly fashion. It is well to rinse off the cake of ice be | fore putting it into the refrigerator, jand, of course, it should always be | | rinsed before being used in drinking | water. Still better than introducing fee directly into the drinking water | [im the use of water which has been | | cooled by ice kept in a separate con- tainer. As a cooling drink in summer, it) tm well to drink iced water in «mall sips, and not overload the system with enormous quantities of water taken in large draughts WATERMELON RIND PICKLES Watermelon rinds make deliciour nweet pickles. So altho melons may | be quite expensive to buy, they will) produce a by-product in the form of Pickles that reduces their cost in the long run. If the melon f# served as @ cock- tail and cut in balls, the rind is intact. If the fruit is to be used as dessert, a mice way to serve it ts to cut triangularshaped pieces and remove the rind, leaving only the red heart of the melon. Both of these ways of serving watermelon preserve the rind for use in pick- ling To make watermelon pickles, pare off carefully the green part of the rind. Trim off also any of the red part. Cut in lengths about an inch thick and two inches long. To 16 cups of melon rinds ure 3 teaspoons | of salt. Put rinds and salt in a kettle with water to nearly cover and boil until tender. Pour Into a colander and drain. Dry between towels. Make @ syrup, using 2 cups of vinegar to 2 cups of sugar. Add 1 tablespoon whole cloves, 1 table- spoon allspice and 1-3 cupful of! into small Cook rinds in syrup until THE BOOK OF ANN WHAT ONE CLASS BUILDS, THE CLASS TEARS DOWN ‘The Lorimer grounds were aston-| ems, such as emeralds and rubies. ishingly well suited for the rally,|The value of all the rings ran up ‘The crowd was admitted at the front | into tens of thousands of dollars, 1 OTHER |: entrance; it spread over the park | and around the lake, it invaded the | sacred blue garden, spoohed under the pergola, and the early arrivals| took the choice places on the brink | of the green swarded. bowl, from | which to get a perfect view of the ballot-ballet. Back of the meadow, In a corner of the park, stood Ann's house and | mine, They made the most conven jent dressing rooms for all who were to appear in the pageant. The Boy | Scouts, who were helping us, used my hotike, and the girls strung thelr dainty garments from end to end of Ann's second floor, After we were costumed, and fil) eted and rouged and powdered, each of us was carefully inspected by the director of the dance. Even the rose wreaths on our cropped heads had to be tilted at an exact angle, and we girls were vastly relieved when at last the director was ready to view us “ensemble.” And then, to our vast astonishnient, he called thru his meg: aphone: “Take ladies” There were several engagement rings in the lot, rings of this year's harvest, and, of course, the proud Ponsessorn were exceedingly loath to lowe a chance to display them, But the director was obdurate. “My mistake, I admit,” he said. “Ought to have warned you to leave the things at home. Ought not to have taken it for granted that you'd do so. Sorry, But off they'll have to| come, girls! “Don't argue the point at the last minute,” whispered Deborah Burns to her sister of the superb new soli- taire. That settled the trouble, for what the Burns girls do all the others | do willingly, and #0, in about two minutes, Ann had collected gems worth a small fortune in her gold mesh bag. With superb carelessness, splendid | pearls were dumped in the bag to rub against hard sapphires and di off your rings, young powdered delato; this on the y about two m clear, Pack in sterilized jars with! Well Begun — mportant step to- ward better Baking is securiglg reliable flour. e rest i —merely follow thadiréctions of a good recipe. CUA uite is reliable flour —wloeves has used it says sof and y have used it dAring the pas thirty Pancake Flour. Campfire pancakes have a delicious tang. Of course, youll include CODus Wheat Hearts, too. OL Y years, ofr grocer has it in 10, ff and 494 pound sacks. N t 2 syrup to cover, Seal while boiling ell Done thought, as I observed how care leswly Ann was handling them. ‘There are two classes of persons in this world, I thought, as Ann shook the bag of rings above her head and ran upstairs with it. One construct the other tructive. There are no neutrals. If one does not build up, one tears down what others build Ann is essentially destructive. Not! always intentionally, but often merely because whe is so lazy. In stead of taking pains to hide these rings, instead of informing Morrison about them—and certainly the de- tective had a right to know, since was indirectly responsible for them instead of doing anything sensible with them, Ann simply dr a her bag into the first handy place, “Help yourselves when you want them, girls,” she said as she took her place in the ballet. “They're in the top drawer of my dresser.” I started to say that I hoped no jone but an owner would help him- self to the treasure. Suspense con cerning, what might happen to them made me awfully uneasy. For Mr. Best wouldn't be the only univited and unwelcome guest on the grounds | that night I wanted to get Bob on the phone, but it was too late for me to leave my place in the row of dancers. When I considered the amount of sentiment attached to some of those rings, I realized how terrible it would be to have to account for them to the girls, Money value had little to do with the love their owners had for | them. There were birthday, engage- ment and wedding rings in the lot. And Willy Van Eyck’s sapphire was given to her by her brother who went west in France. She would never stop mourning if it were to disap- pear, (To Be Continued) Nt muwe sULy 2o, pete with cheap, PASI Sa ee All Its Own THE WATER LILY, The significance of the watertiy lin the language of flowers is elo« of heart. waterlily antidote quence and purity al countries, the red powerful ainst a love potion, The Victoria Regia is the largest and most wonderful variety of waterlily. The blossoms are of enormous size, and the leaves often re nine feet across and are ng enough to support a man. 16 ts. The firte ft is white ~ » odor; the #eo= In |is conml a ms only a few ni; ening when it and has an opp ond night it is pin in Germany it is believed that the | Undines or water nymphs make their home in the water lillies. In” |the evening the petals shut them im and the flowers sink beneath the wae” ter. : | The Indians tell a myth about the water-lily, The chief of the Carunsem: 7 had returned with all his tribe from victorious war. All were happy h, meaning the sweet > was to be his bride. Ue y one, she had made ® vow to the Great Spirit. She with |drew from the festivities and pade ~ died away in her canoe | followed. Finally she climbed to the] top of a mountain, and called te the chief to return. When he |not, she jumped from the cliff into ~ the lake below. The chief searched the lake in vain for her. The next morning the lake was covered with | water-lillies. A man in flowing white | robes appeared and told the Indiana | that because Oseetah had been true” |to her vow, the Great Spirit had give en her a new form. Since then the” pond lily to the Indian is the eme | blem of good faith, ee of every Hat in the downstairs department —values:to $15 many that were intended September selling, are included Table afte and Friday exceptional ¢ of ull be the exquisite creations. Mle to select from. Tomorrow last two days of this Her lover. ,- Py