The Seattle Star Newspaper, July 6, 1920, Page 9

i U TUESDAY, ITTY 6, 1970. | ¥ x iil GOOD OLD FASHI 2 TM aN ONED COURTING, im. RATHER THAN FADDIST | 4 Dear Miss Grey: interest, and espec all twisted. The letter signed be the most amusing article of fhe whole paper. dreadful to have such a conception of love. | aman and his wife should live apart the greater part of the time to atain true happiness. time to attain true happiness. couples the way of salvation. have to live apart to foster it? a MARRIAGES WILL DLIMINATE DIVORCE Y have read your columns of late with ially those articles dealing with the subject, “How to be happy, tho married.” It seems to me as tho some people have the laws of nature ems to me to It must be He thinks that “Uncle Tom” He had best study the natural He had best study the natural Where is true love, if people} What does he call love? Love, to my idea, is a blending of two natures, or two) ple being in perfect harmony ; therefore, two people being) in harmony, must, with close BP in this mad 20th century rush, the Sh @rage couple dom not know whether or not they are really con genial until after marriage, Court Jing as is everything elf is done on [ithe wing. Proper courting cannot be @one at dances and at shows, ete. In the olden days it was differ- ent. A prospective bride and groom knew each other much more theroly Before marriage, decause circum stances permitted them to learn each other's whims, ideas, etc, to a great er extent. Why doe: this man, “Uncle Tom,” P Bother to marry? Doesn't he want a “helpmate to keep his home clean and foxy, to cook for him, and help him te share his burdens? A. J.P. eee Courtship Only | @ Period of Life? Dear Miss Grey: 1 have had much | Smusement from “Uncle Tom's” pro test, and his rapid-fire conclusions | He thinks I'm a minister. Oh, Tom, I could no more fill a pulpit than | @oukd the Pacific. The paper in Which his letter was printed was the » ene I happened to miss. So not hav | ing read it, I could not misquote. | My defense of the unbroken unity of tain women who claimed that sepa. | oe was necessary so that man/ Wife could pursue an individual | unhampered. If “Uncle Tom" | takes a square look at this situation he will see that the only reason for the fisrriage license is to put a face @n their visits. I hold, with many More, that mating for any other pur- Pose than extablishing’a family is legalized prostitution. Now I admire “Uncle Tom's” aim. But cannot endorse his methods. One @f your correspondents tersely and full wrote “Marriage is a | gr and must be played according the rules.” Our professor has for: that the relationship of sweet ends at the altar and an en. fy new status is established, gov- by altogether different rules. @ifference being between court ‘and parenthood. And wise ts couple who know the rules. | man or wife begins to be Bored with the other, it is evident gome phase of their temperaments Reeds strangling ‘Temperamental people are usually selfishly abnormal or subnormal| D) Level-headed people secure harmony By unselfishness and tact. “Uncle in his protest. | It will be noticed that he has not | ence taken Into account the girl's wishes in the matter. Suppose the of his choice objected to his ar-| nts? What then? Suppose pelied her to live in separa- | she refused to be a mother such circumstances? I think assurance of the sanctity of wife ° ite but if he is a working ma his bubble would be punc- | : 5 i In his protest “Uncle Tom™ got! reckless in his statements. He “the vast majority of homes are | ve.” They are, and that's why they are the strength of the na-| Also he says “the great ma ty of married people face the di court.” This needs no com-| ment as it is untrue. Wrecks there | fare and he presumably condemns the | established order of marriage on that ground. Would he denounce navi gation because of the wrecks that| fie on the bottom? The majority of | wrecks, maritime or matrimon can be traced to approximately t same cause. The greatest secret li fn good seamanship, vigilance and observance of the rules. | It would be interesting to know} jhow many of “Uncle Tom's” gi friends would accept him on the| ms of his ideal. I'll venture not! Le ons, unless she just wanted a meal ticket, then any old terms would do ‘Any compromise is a makeshift, and | Jacks permanency and equity. Some | claim that irresponsible celitmcy is! fdeal; others, that the gtabilizing | moral influence of a unit® family | the longer they live together. [have association, become more as} | HAT do YOU think? Write Cyn- thia Grey, care of The Seattle S | Uving one's life as before? i In not courtship just a pertod of looking forward to a future together? It is. Modernists may recommend separate lives but that ls the most absurd sort of nonsense and could| never solve the problem because it} does not apply. What of thé children that come of all natural unions? If people aren't | human enough to want children, | then of course one does not me, such @ marriage to endur Life was surely never intended to ely of dinners, thea a continuous he ded kisses (popularly speak elr ing love during court rfect int y that can only strengthen it, and make it more sweet. & mother I knew 4, that I could back to the time when a theatre party or dinner down town would be really an event. We have looked forward together to the time when our boy would walk! and talk. As we this little | life of ours grow in atiful child. hood we know that this is fulfill. | ment | Could we live separate lives again? God's divine law has gether. Love that can stand @ little delay in meals is ours, and we shall | endeavor to give our children the ad. vantage of a home where Dan Cupid | is ever visibly pleased. MRS. G. eee She Thinks Divorce Inevitable My Dear Miss Grey: “Still Faith ful” and “Happy Though Wed” and “F. EB. A.” and other “well-balanced” people who have never known what real domestic trouble is, are far from being competent judges of what others should, or should pot do. The unfortunate people who are forced to obtain divorces are to be sympathized with, as a rule, and are just as intelligent as ‘any of their critica. Few ver rush blindly to the divorce courts without ponder. ing and weighing well the outcome sometimes for months and years When “Still Faithful” has sher Jove and faith in happy marriage blasted, if such a sorrowful calamity ever does overtake her. lk many other women, will enter thei rt room with her heart almost! bleeding and her pride wounded for her broken idol of love | There are few divorced women who at one time in their lives were not contented and happy, falthfud in their home ambitious for the welfare of husband and home and true to their marriage vow.| At one time in my life I had a] cruel, heart-breaking exp nee that came upon me.like a thur | out of a clear sky, from which I never fully recovered my faith In mankind, though I do try to believe and know that there good men In the world wh pot either married . or | | | } bea bound us to. duties, storm some are dead. A AT 60 FATHER OF 35 3. ANCISCO, July 6 Frank years old, a native of Mex became the father of his 35th child’ the other day. His second wife whom he married in 1900, gave birth | to her 17th child, Sixteen of Valle's| children are living. | ico. |MRS. FISKE HERE IN “MIS’ NELLY OF N’ ORLEANS” “Mis’ Nelly of N° Orleans” ar rived in Seattle Monday evening for a week's visit. iske’s vehicle, while slight, under one home roof is ideal. But) _ Tom's creed would establish a situ tion that is neither the one or the other; an arrangement that would automatically kill the best possibili- ties of both ideals. Home is where father and mother are. Where would yours be, “Uncle Tom?" Study the matrimonial chart. There are many rocks to be avoided, one of qwhich you are headed for. Ask the girl what she thinks of it, and my word for it she will set you right. For a girl who is sound in heart, mind, and limb is the grandest little eye-opener in captivity. I hope you A get one like that, “Uncle Tom.” G. B. Me. eee Wouldn’t Solve Problem, Thinks a Mother Dear Miss Grey: I think “Uncle Tom” will look a long time before “he finds a sensible woman to share hits foolishness. ‘The real solution to this problem, J would say, 1s to be ever unfailing. Jn one way or another one or both must fall the other. Most people of today before marriage argue within es that if the bargain is not ly satisfactory, then society permit them to cancel it. There, I believe, is the root of the evil. When a divorce is granted, I be- that the true reason for It . 4 be made public and if one so sinned as to cause the other & divorce, then let him or jteast. oul ary if one would continue * Ladies! Keep Fit This Hot Weather Stomach is quick to wpset—Dr. Caldwell’s Syrup Pepsin will bring prompt relief and comfort HE depressing heat makes many women careless of their health. The housework becomes extra tiresome and the hot kitchen adds to their discomfort. They eat cold foods andiced deinks with the result that the stomach in soon upset, and constipation fotiows indigestion. Itis well to know that there is a rem- edy that brings quick relief. It is called Dr. Caldwell’s Syrup a can find it in any drug store. It combination of sim ple laxative herbs with pepsin that acts on the digestive organs and soon ride the bowels of its accuma- lation. Take a spoonful of $ at night and the congestion, headache and feveranness will be gone in the morning You will then stand the heat with comfort. ‘There are thoumands of women in thie country who do not use anything else in these emergencies but Dz Caldwell’s Syrup Pepsin. Mis Bart, of 1045 W: kine St, Grand Rapide, Mich., relics entirely on Syrup Pepsin, and abe per- FREE Fe aanor chronic constipation. A BAS fap tegote by Be weal eo re bas choos mls beta on™ THE SEATTLE STAR = pom page saene matrert OU ar Iv Seattlle Stylle snapshots of attractively- dressed women on Seattle streets No. 121—The Star’: Delightfully charming is the outfit worn by the lady pic-| With a white silk skirt and lacy blouse she is | wearing a pretty coral shade coat sweater which, tho belted, | has the fringed scarf effect (quite original). also prominently featured in the hat, which is a com- tured here. shade is | bination of fancy straw and ribbon. the thone charmingly conceived, and developed with nius that is title role flarhes of we always this rare actress. s a thing of rone-colored The setting ia New Or Nelly, past forty, still mmventional, and with arm of the Southern gentleworman, dominates the little comedy, and with her sharp wit and rich humanness brings to gether the young lovers who have ht her assistance, plot is slight, but serves to the warm humanity and humor of Mrs. Fiske’s act wliant brilliant and mag develops the role of the jous Mis’ ly with those strokes of character delinea. she is famous of N’ Orleans" study of a rapidly type, sketched with the of light comedy. In Mrs. Fiske ia in Th roman leans. Mis’ beautiful, all the vivac subtle tion for wh “Mis Ni easentially vanishing sharp brush such a role, vineible. The charm is enhanced Is a of Mra. Finke's acting and the atmosphere of the little play is sustained by artistically conceived stage settings and carefully chosen incidental music \ sonsfly knows many-others who do. The medic ines she formerty took for const» pation made her sick to the stomach, but Syrup Pepsinisso mildand actseo gently and without gripimg that sbe finds te Syrup Peprin can be given toinfants with enLre safety. It ie & truly wonderful household medicine, and # bottle should be in every home. of all ages suffer from occasional or Let them send name and address 8 million bottles were bought at drug stores last year, the largest sale WITH US I “There! ‘There Mra. Lorimert* There was @ queer gentleness in the big voice. “You're Just like my own | little girl, you know! So you do what I say. You ait right down| |there a minute, while I find out what the big guy ts up to,” he whin ; pered. Then he beckoned to the small man and together they con | sulted, in the most friendly fashion, | with the prosecuting attorney. When he came back to me Morrt son said “Maybe you'll talk to me tn a prt- vate room, Mra. Lorimer?” “1 must talk to you. And I want anywhere away from here,” I “1 only came to save daddy, to replied you know.” “Sure, we've got to look out for the old man,” he agreed. Morrison has worked for Daddy Lorimer very often and he always refers to him as “the old man.” “Don't worryt he's tn.” “I wish you knew the state I'm tn, Mr. Morrison. I never was so at sea. I don't know my own duty! ometimes I wonder if I know mine,” the detective said solemnly. “I've been working on this case ever since 1 was called, 20 minutes after | Iver was shot.” | Morrizon drew his chair close to mine. We were alone in « small office. H “And every worth while clue Ive found so far leads straight to my | best friends. The key-your auto number—and other thing»—involve | some member of ¢ Mortimer family Might as well lead to my own horas, | Mrs. Lorimer.” “You don't clues. 1 can suddenly “1 thoygsht I know the state need to count those do it myself,” I said so™ Morrison sighed deeply “Now I'm going to swap) confidences with you. This is a} woman case, of course. A man might have shot Ives from the woman's | wing of the bathhouse, A man could have got into the place in disguise. | Somebody whose wife or sweetheart | had been intrigued by Ives. Or the wife who made the mistake and ruined her home might have killed ber lover.” | “If so, it was some simple tittle! woman,” Morrison continued. “Some ange Nobo but an unsophisticated girl would have run away leaving @ yellow satin bathing | suit and a gun in the same box.” Suddenly my faith in truth and franknons as the best guides to con- duct returned to ma. “Please come home with me, Mr. | Morrison,” I said, “Don't ask me questions, It inn’t to see daddy. Be fore I tell you what I know, I'll have to have the poor girl's permis- | gone wrong. Columbia Colo in better —Adv. —Photo by Cress-Dale, REPAIRED vExpeRTs TME Pwowe £izrorr/$2 LIGHTHOUSE 418-420Un/0N ST. IMC The coral) DAISY HENRY. | A Permanent Hair Wave HAVE US WAVE IT NOW and PAY FOR IT LATER At your own convenience IN SMALL PAYMENTS Our credit plan is the very best guarantee in the world that you will be satisfied with the results obtained. 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You will find prices moderate for any work you need, Good advice, if followed, always leads to good results. Painless Parker Dentist using the E. R. PARKER SYSTEM 1619 Westlake Avenue Phone Elliott 5494 THE BOOK OF ANN I FIND A FRIEND IN MORRISON, WHO WAS) N MEXICO mon,” I explained. Morrison chatted about our Mext- can experiences all the way home ii the car. “But gouh! cane,” he concluded tries, too. bons turned it over to me.” AS We entered the front door of the new wide Colonial ball of Ann's I'm glad I'm on thin! “Ll ought to| be somewhere in Mexico, but I had a touch of fever down there. Sort of lost my hankering for foreign coun- Labor Patty Running NEW YORK, July 6.—"Five feet ot pep” is the way her adherents in| the labor party of this state describe who has of that Mins Rose Schneiderman, reoetved the party for United States senator But her friends flatter Minn Schneiderman, She ts « fraction of | an inch under five feet in beight | “I expect to get lots of fun out of my campaign,” she says, “Even if | 1 am not elected, it will have a real sducational value.” VERY EMPHATIC tk OPINIONS Miss Schneiderman | phatic In her opinions. nomination fn very em- She saya whe \ present congress should be returned ‘Toe. he workingman and the work | cap factory | this proved impractical. “Five Feet of Pep” for Senate $7 a week sal in the store ert. 4 went to work in & here I averaged only about $9 a week, because there were strikes and long periods of slack work, but at least I felt that I waw earning more than I could have im the store.” Mise Schneiderman says she began |her work as organizer after factory hours, and first organized the girls in the factory in which she worked, in 1903, She devoted five years to such work, holding various offices in her local union, then becoming inter+ ested in the Woman's Trade Union league. She was asked to take @ part-time job as an organizer, with salary of $41 a month and the um Then this happened. The} Hoijeven not a single member of the | derstanding that she could devote the rest of her time to study. She ha@ the ambition to enter college, but ~ In 1910 #he house, I saw @ small figure slip oUt | ingwoman,” she continues, “must be| became a full-time organizer and © of the rear door, Morrison saw, too He shook his head madly. “Poor little mouse!’ leave us. “God! e exclaimed | That in the funda’ after I had motioned the servant to the slogan ‘Help y shown that they have no friends at| | all in either of the two old parties. a) fallacy of | r friends defeat | Inter was made president of the or ganization —_—$——$ Columbia Colo, the new American — How I hate this! your enemies.’ It results in working | peer—Adv. Job sometimes! There's no sport in| people splitting their votes between ef see trapping—a—a baby mouner* He mopped his forehead and then turned to me: “Don't worry hert Don't get her fNurried! She can’t get away, Mrx. Lorimer. ‘The place has been sur rounded for 24 hours?’ (To Be Continued) WORKING AT 102 LONDON, July 6—Thornage, a Ut “0 near Holt, has a resident who celebrated her 1024 birthday re Ue vii cently or reading pies an well as ever. | the twe parties and neutralizing each other's efforts, “We are going to show laboring men and women that they have no | better friends than themselves, and | that so-called ‘friends of labor’ whone campaign funds are raised by the old parties do not deserve labor's sup: port.” PRESIDENT OF WOMAN'S | TRADE UNION LEAGUE | Miss Schneiderman in president of | the Woman's Trade Union | Mrs. Key, this centenarian,|and has been active in the labor! rpends her time doing fancy work | She han no falne teeth and is able to eat crusts and raw ap- | movement since 1903, Telling some: thing of her own life, she said: “I went to work as a cash girl tn a department store at the generous salary of $2.50 a week. When I was} Temper ts a good thing to have, | raised to $2.75 I was expected to sell but a bad thing to lone i merchandise and take the place of league | | This Makes the Curl Stay in Your Hair popular just now, according to druggists. This ls largely warm weather and because wom are now spending #0 muc time out of doors. This simple metl od not only produc he loveli ratural looking eur 4 waves, «the hair in curl natt how ot or how moist the day, how hard the wind blows. ‘All one need do is to wet @ eles toothbrush with liquid silme: draw this through the hair befor Going it up, and the hair will dry Just the sweetest waves crinkles. This will also kee! hair beautifully soft, silky am trous. A few ounces of liquid merine will last for months. ‘The silmerine method ts unu: na SER- PATERSON Co. Special Price Basement A July Clearance At Striking Reductions Women’s and Misses’ Apparel —Grouped in special lots for quick disposal at sharp reductions from the regular prices. And regular Special Price Basement prices are al- ways remarkably low. Women’s and Misses’ Suits For July Clearance at $19.75 —Suits regularly priced —40 All-wool Serge Suits in navy. —13 All-wool Jersey Suits in heather mixtures, 25.00, $35.00 and $45.00 —22 All-wool Velour Checked Suits in several shades. —All sizes, 36 to 46, AC learance of le 300 Waists and Overblouses At $5.00 —Overblouses of fine tricolette and Georgette—waists of beautiful beaded, braided and lace-trimmed Georgette in both long and short sleeve styles. —tThe colors include flesh, white, gold, rose, jade, bisque, taupe, tan, navy, black. —aAlmost all sizes, 36 to 44. els. Sizes 16 to 42. colors and sizes. year’s dresses. Women’s and Misses’ Coats Reduced to $12.50 —Formerly priced at $15.00, $19.75 and-$22.50. —Sport Coats of polo cloth, in tan and gray. Some with brushed wool collar and cuffs; others in Tuxedo styles; and some smart belted mod- Dresses Reduced to $21.50 —Formerly $29.50 and $35.00, —Beaded and embroidered Georgettes, novelty taffetas and sport tricolette frocks, —Dresses for party, afternoon and business wear. All sizes, and a color range from white and flesh to navy and black. Dresses Reduced to $16.50 —Formerly priced at $19.75 to $25.00. —Dresses of taffeta, Georgette, and the two materials combined. Large range of Dresses in a Clearance at $12.75 —A group of the last ‘of several lots that have been priced decidedly higher. Taf- fetas, satins, serges and jerseys. All sizes and desirable colors represented. —These dresses are, of course, all smart styles of the season, We have no last T saw no future