The Seattle Star Newspaper, June 24, 1920, Page 11

i courtship. Dear Miss Grey: " at { ZF e who consi: in our life. the beaten (oF anothe: ' meet and “one” And people makes us the more @p-| ried Couple.” and “A Happy Wife of Fifteen Comments Mie Gry: RITER CLAIMS MARRIAGE fs EVOLUTION, D THOSE WHO SEEK TO STAY ANY HASE OF IT WILL COME TO GRIEF BY CYNTHIA GREY ~ Numbers of good letters, many of them founded upon tt life experiences, have been sent in the discussion on I have regarded most of them as tip- the scales a little too far one way or the other to be as a hard and fast example by the ninety-nine out of hundred. But today brought a letter which I consider the ideal an- to those faddists who assert that husband and wife live in separate homes in order to find perpetual hap- s, and that this theory will solve the divorce question. fou will find much good, sound sense and sane reasoning the letter which is printed below: This “eternal courtship” discussion d be amusing were it not for the fact that many young he themselves advanced thinkers are likely led astray by the theories advanced by people like Fan-| lurst, the writer, and “Uncle Tom,” your correspondent started the ee ert ge , 7 zght years ago ow the idea ap; tome I was pend Gis tie masedines ol te ter I was more or less discontented for various rea- one of which was that I fancied continued familiarity | fould put an end to courtship, or rather, to the thrills of But now I know that marriage 4 evolution, the same as everything We do not stand still at any Spring-time al- passes and we who stand look Dackward bemoaning its passing, fe likely to lose the joys of the and find our harvest very ty when the autumn days come, that store of experience and | ested in the Perpetual Courtship dis- that should furnish food| cussion. The letters are exception: warmth for the winter of life} ally good, still there are a few little afraid that poor old spring-time things that count in married life that of thrills that by bot house, or cold-storage methods, last at least part ithe fifteen years that we lived to i be pretty poor) gether pot ene quarrel marred our that we play the other a little more than haif way. a@ccording to the rules, and) happiest who follow the ‘ ashen ate devia | make ter happiness—not a smali one must. PAY ONC | dervtanding -at are more tha® | woman knows the value of money in mManylence has taught me that very few tho it sometimes requires the | men can save, unless they are mis- x depth of love to overcome jor 4 woman with a business head ated, for any other reason Feal love, or whose love is shai- -than their self.interest (these ‘emotional folk are usually are likely to come run out around the | ¥*fe invariably spent at home awhile and consider ether theories, for in the last| that some food woman will some bring us tack to the|day cofivince him that his theories starting point of the ideal | are unsound. I have been fot- Bring Your columns closely for the French pastry and hard rolls. teh about three years! Wi AT do YOU think? Write - thia Grey, care of Seattle Star. Past few nights, I am deeply inter. have not been touched upon. My wife ts dead now; but during happiness—we always met each Here is one of the things that Have a perfect financial un- the start. If mate) she should be the treasurer—expert- who imay be thrifty and economical and at the same time not stingy, Just careful. Another thing that breeds discon- tent is too much visiting and too many (riends—our pleasant evenings Uncle Tom is all wrong, and I hope Really good women are like really | good men, few and far between, still a map ls better off alone than with any other kind. It makes me heartsick to read let- * | ters like these from “A Young Mar- “|and Mother"—they bring beck so vividly the dsys when I wes happy —when my boise was a homa WIDOWER. a With a pleated brown and lady is wearing a nifty little D acts fos } be half enough The Facts contained in the following two letters shoala prove of benefit to many women: to stand up, and it hurt me to walk or go up or down stairs, I was doctor without any re 00 my stomach Liver Pills velleved thet"—-Mrm, BS Fargo Avenus, Lydia E. vegetable Compound |e .UNW a as S = a = ——y PAL ET) ¢ All American women know of the great success of Lydia E, Pinkham’s Vegetable Compound in restor- g to health women who suffered from ailments pe- rto their sex, yet thereare some whoare skeptical and do not realize that all that is clainged for it i: absolutely true—if they did, our laboratory would not ' today it is the largest in the country used for the front, white kid gayntlet y Sick Women OWN LIVES AS “Maybe she didn’, shoot Ives” 1) thought ax I brought Ann a giase of water. But could the shock of witnessing the murder account for the terrible condition of her nerve ‘That I couldn't decide, But since it was my duty to take care of Ann, }1 had to have some explanation from Pher. I had to be merectiess. When she was able to hold up ber head | again 1 commanded briefly | “Go on!” } “I was no, frightened that I could scarcely climb to the top of the! pill,” Ann continued. 1 walked into | the shrubbery and sat down on the ground. I heard the whistles of the| | policemen and the clang of the am-| | bulance bell. I didn’t know whether | better try to leave the park or to hide In the shrubbery until after jdark, If anybedy discovered that I |had come to the beach to keep an jengrgement with Ives, Jimmy would be disgraced, I thought, and all the rest of you. Suddenly, 1 decided | that the police would hunt thru the | park for lolterers, after dark. It | was awful, Jane, I knew I must get lout of the place before the crowd scattered. 1 was nearly mad. And | then I saw you on one wide of the |‘hair-pin’ in the road. I knew you'd have to take the other side, 1} rushed across just in time to jump | to supply the demand, ~~ Bacramento, Cailf—"T bed or ganic trouble and had such terrible pain and swelling to the lower part STeay sido that Lesald net stant on on the running board! Jane, you! my feet or even let the bed clothes came just in time to save met” touch my side. my work “I was just too late!” I gaid bit- oe think!) weald not be bis to go back for months. My mother ad- vised me to take Lydia E. Pink: ‘e Vegetable Compound as it had eaved her life at ove time, and it put me in a wonderful condition ia & couple of weeks, 0 I can keep on working. I work to @ dopartwent store have to stand on my feet all day I do not have ore terly. "I went to the park to keep} | you away from Ives and if 1 hadn't | had tire trouble J would have beaten y to the bathh I was too e to save you!” I suppose my} tone was full of suspicion and of | doubt for Ann flared up at once | “You will not beliewe me!" She, seemed bewildered, amazed, like an uninformed child dealing with a sit- | uation she could not quite grasp. | “I belleev that you have a good| | story, I believe that you would bet- | | ter stick to it,” I sald. You don't want to belleve me!” | | Ann's voice was pathetically young, | | but it made no appeal whatever to} my sympathies, I was coldly. re- volving schemes to save Daddy Lorimer from the shock of hearing jany rumors connecting Ann with the | murder case | Pinkham’s | “Whether I believe you or not tsn't now,” I explained | “Avoiding Investigation—keeping you | is what I intend to} do, If it's porsible, You had on a plain blue serge sult. Your dress was not noticeable, for once, Thank ‘out of the thin \EDICING CO, LYNN, MASS, Seattle Style No. 112-—The Star’s snapshots of attractivel ‘dressed women on Seattle Fre “i PEOPLE ARE NOT FREE TO LIVE THEIR | | | —Photo by Cress-Dale. blue — skirt this young dark ‘blue suit jacket which home some ef Boltt's! answers its purpose nicely. A white net lace blouse with a -| tiny Peter Pan collar and several rows of tiny ruffles across gloves and a fetching white sport hat, and a certain destinctiveness to the attire. DAISY HENRY, pons Wf the lady pictared here will call a¢ The Star's editorial reoms she will feceive twe tickets to the Orpheum vaudeville show at the Moore, THEY PLEASE goodness, You wore a simple sailor} hat, and a vell such as dozens of girls wear, Now let's pick up all the clues which lead to you Ann shuddered and huddled up with her feet under her and her head on her knees. She looked like & school girl who had falled in her finals, “As I pee it, the police will pflek up three clues, all of which they will follow, sooner or later—straight to you. And to the Lortmers,” I added, for I couldn't help tntrodue- ing the note of fear of disgrace ever 1 had a chance * “Mother Is mud! And Daddy Lorimer will surely die if he gets too excited about this, You see what one person does in this dife isn't Just his own affair!” 1 stormed, “I know. I thought that very thing when I looked out from the bath- house window and realized that 1 was going out to meet that man Some of the queer new books I've been reading have made me feel that people have a right to live their own lives as they please—to be ‘in dividual’—to be themselves without considering other human beings Today—I've learned it can't be done Out there—at the beach—I perceived that nobody Is free, can do as he likes Not one person We're all linked up in families, and homes, and if we're selfish about doing aa we please, we are sure to hurt others 1 ran away from Ives when I real- ized all that, I've been trying to tell you.” “I never did think much of o death- be. ntance,” I remarked coldly. “Now put your mind on what I'm going to say. I'm going to nt the clues by which the detect- fves can connect you with the mur der.” REPAIRED byExpeRrs THE Pwowe Ficsorr/$§2 LIGHTHOUSE 918-420 UNI0N ST. IMC. A Bride, Her | Cake and Its Superstitions ble, wedding ring and other similar objects in paratively modern, son who receives the piece of cake containing it will wed. The thimble dooms the reetp lent to an old maid's fate, while a coin portends wealth. foretelis bachelorhood. of the wedding cake ax it will bring| plece of the cake that the |has left on her plate she | married goon. jelrl to carry & piooe cake in her pocket until moon ts over means that # marry before the dress is worn oul.| in piace of the syrup. the famous conservatory of the Duke of Devonshire, been blown up, presenting a stagger ing spectacie as billions of broken glass particies clouded t wide area. To framework of tron, containing 40,000 panes of glam, 150 pounds of explo sives were used. Th: could be heard neven mile conservatory was the largest in the kingdom and had been visited by mil.) } ' ‘The custom of including the thim- wedding cake is com The ring signifies that the per! be the first to The button A bride should cut the firet slice her luck. However, it is unlucky | 7 for her to bake the bridal cake. If any mishap befalls the cake, it: } portends sorrow in the bride's early | married life. If an unmarried woman eats a bride will be diy ~~ w *y For an When there is a wedding in the! famfty for the firet time a piece of! the fruft Is cooked till tender In clear } the bride's cake should be left in) water and canned in sterilized cans) the house until all the daughters in ite own juice Wl are married, otherwise they will re main single, ce a x , |GLASS PALACE |NO MORE LONDON, June 23.—Sold for setap, | at Chatsworth, has alr Gemoliah the we explosions ay. The Everything in the way of waste material known to man. It is in conertvable, the material we can turn into money. We want old clothing, shore, hats, caps, waste tren, chairs, rakes, hoes, shovels, Dewepapers and magazines, Jumble Shop ts being wortertully maimtained by the women of Seat te; they request gifts of a little better quality than the Salvage Department Beattie lost ever 609 men in the war, There are stil! large num. bers incapacitated who must be aawiated, ‘Telephene Fillets 4512 WE CALL | sugar, will | method, a— | to secure the utmost savings, tremendous reductions ‘In sults, frocks, waists and petticoats | make certain that the next few days | Lire event, | nd boys’ suits, | 207 Rialto Midg. (old Frederick & Nek THE OLD GARDENER SAYS If you grow lilacs or rhodo dendronn take paine to remove all the seed pods that form. If you allow them to remain they will take the of the plants, thus the new the num You will tind thododendrons as that on the well as on the mountain laurel the new flowers come from iden teally the fame spot as thin dea son's blossoms. Do not, there fore, remove any of the wood buc simply break them off with the thumb and forefinger 1 TING? BRITT JANNING FRUIT. | VITHOUT SUGAR | Any fruit may be canned without Fruit that is to be uned for and puddings Is really better if jo ite uneweetened its preserve thelr flavor and! re wweeter WU the sugar is omitted ntl the final cooking. When canning by the cold pack plain boiling water is used || Canning the way our mothers did, || Whatever method in uned the prin. || iple is the name, perfect sterilization || nd exclusion of air | LONDON, June While tand || rafning at Chelms silver coin bout the size of ing, dated | was dug up. Queen Elizabeth's 4 is quite distinct on it; also the r rome and inscription. 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