The Seattle Star Newspaper, April 14, 1920, Page 15

NLU CONVENTIONALITY TO MEET Seattle Style | | a ry 4 r . a 10. 52——_The Star’ . , tiv : ». 52 he § 4 sho bs * MAN WHO IS NOW HER HUSBAND | 0. 52—The Star's snapshots of attractively : BY CYNTHLA GREY dressed women on Seattle streets “q How many nice girls out earning their bread end butter 4 tn the business world, and thus hampered socially, meet the} ng men who appeal to them? | " Three business girls put this problem up before the world A. fm my columns a few days ago. | have received numerous 4 @nswers from readers of their letter. | ie Following are some of the letters: | * Dear Miss Grey: Here is one who!thing else on yourself; don't save * thoroly appreciates the altuation of maney for some fellow to enjoy fs it “Three Girls," and. I am going to/a rule they do not), but make your | rT tell of a little experience that | self attractive, the world demands It. brought me untold happiness and men all these years have lost) I was the youngest of five girls,|their hearts to well-dressed womer Our father was a clergyman, but | Willing to take a@ chance on their @ied when I was but 4 years o| sunt of brains, which are usually ~ Mother brought us up as carefully | tken for granted, in the art of a E as possible with all the comforts of |choosing their clothes & refined home, having been left I amn only sorry I didn’t start my| ‘fairly well fixed. The older cule. 1 morning” long ago, however, were quite able to take n i married | had seen Lcare of themaeives by teaching Many times, at least five yours be Music and teaching school, and we » marrying hin DONNA N received a high schoo! educatior older sisters married, but rather! Dear Miss Grey: It was with very im life, their vocations, no doubt, | great interest that I read your col Pgameoins them from meeting the man umn in toni paperson “How do > BM their choice earlier (because there nice girle meet ¢ able me fs no doubt that a business gir! has) The subject appealed to me because r & far better chance for marriage than | the reverse question, “How do nice re @ny other. men meet nice girls? has always| Mother insisted on making a music inte e “teacher of me, but this did not appeal I do not wse the term a to mo in the least. I give myself r tb . » that al credit for being broad-minded enough n one point} ly to realize that circumstances were trem on t @gainst our meeting any real men be nice > (which, I take it, are business men nd men of ability), and I also re way te . ‘alized that these would only be found he paint can be decided. The in the business world, so did not iste you aus May, "Abana want a Yocation that would make It t any girl he wants to, if he; 3 ‘my harder than postibie. ingenuity at all.” Perhaps After finishing high school, I took | they will pardon me if [ differ with} @ business course, and later secured | them. Their statement that all of them have had the opportunity to make change acquaintances, but te | fused, is proof of the fact that unless & man is properly introduced and sponsored, according to the conven | tions, he has his trouble for his pains, be he ever so nice and desir | able. I mean, of course, when he aspires to the acquaintance of girls Uke these. I grant that, if a man wishes to meet a girl with whom he hag friends in common, the matter is simple. Now, Miss Grey, let us suppose that a young man of good family, presentable appearance, capable of Mecting nice people on an equal footing. but an absolute stranger, wishes to meet nice girls, such as you have mentioned. Suppose he has gone to church, where he was permitted to attend services, lsten to p sermon, contribute his mite, take & position in a large manufacturing concern, where I had occasion to meet many different clanses of men, ‘@mong them, many traveling men Tt ts true that the most admirable ef the lot were the men in better Positions, and in miost cases there fen were married. Among the trav @ing men there were some mighty fine fellows, but, for. the most part, Were very fickle and uninteresting who was ‘naturally 4 cated, and who loved a home, and knowing that my earty training had been the best, I felt deserving @f a worthy life mate, and would not} be satisfied until I found him. How ger, he did not exist in any of my @ecalled business associates, so 1 de termined to find him elsewhere, but how, where. and what was to be done: After —Photo by Cress-Dale. Over a trim blue suit this young lady is wearing an ex- ceedingly dressy fur coat. It is made of nutria (which is a soft brown fur),-and fashioned along the ever popular and youthful three-quarter lines. A brown silk braid crown is the feature of the “Mickey” shaped hat. DAISY HENRY. If the lady pictured here will cali at The Star's editorial rooms, she will receive two tickets to the Orpheum vaudeville show, a¢ the Moore. | connected with the being M day's, Mis firm for several years, this condition up hie hat and go his way, without Nell Morrison, 409 Cedar st st] existed, so I feit I ought to'a single Christian soul maying Meet men out of that particular “tfello,” “Good morning.” “How do SOIC comme cte anmaarmearir-— ammenities I had gone with several! you do?” or even ‘How did you get Maine men from our church, but in ibe. seca | pe pper are tender, much Jess introduce him and/ make him feel at home. Suppose he in a member of a lodge where he hax lacked that “big business” abil that I sm much desired in one. ions of a Bri T determined to go about It In my little oppertunity to meet youns | . On going to and from ladies. And suppose his work does| 20, erprise, Association, the street car I would see not bring him in contact with the . by The Neuspaper Ent ») ee that apparently were sort of man I would like, also noticed different ones pass from time to time who) girls he would Uke to make friends! with. Can you, then, tell me how he may meet nice gtris? Perhaps I am/| sadly deficient in ingenuity, bat I CHRYS’ ADVENTURE gS LIKE A DREAM OF CHILDHOOD COME TRUE cannot. More than once I've «aid| very morning when I awaken I) Without some wuch imaginative at» | th tescweaiately Goctded |biost me end. received, tne enme| mse ™y Singers lightiy, close my|sbations I might have grewn, guise piast me, 0 ame| morbid, because I had not ful I recetved the least treatment that the ghost gave him,|¢7** S@ain, and think quietly before | oo ai ts the house of Larimer by | encouragement from a man that I would nod ” or bow a “How you do?” And, girl, [ did meet/| gome wonderful men. They, too, were im the sme position, business keeping them from meeting and in a year | war to the second one I had said to, who is a pros) I spring out af bed. I plan, before | providing the o! I ft my head from my pillow, Just} At last came a cable from Chrys how I am going to dispose of the| announcing her arrival at Hon jalulu; soon her letters began to ar. minutes of the coming day. 1 68D) 1... Letters from Daddy were added pose the habit comes from a certain to the collection, and, taken alto training prescribed by my father, | gether, these misaives provided one who took time from his busy life|of the most faecinating chapters in as @ college profeasor to raise mo,| te annals of the clan his motherless little girl, in the way pr one little mament the fate of altho I was only somewhat lonely, and had the best intentions in the world. I am not writing you as an ad venturer, nor to solve the problem off hand, but to ask you to let these| young ladies know that there are| men in much the same predicament | as they, and for the same reasons. Also, if I may, I would suggest to son with an hetr. e of conversa | whether they are worth while, It is : rene -gplronnitsn The importamt thing with the | quite true that “All is not gold that ane Nauite apenas are es cae ale girl Is to keep her conversation clean | gitters,” but pure gold is found out | MY take pains y ap. | and inteMigent. If the world were of the beaten paths, none the leas. It was literally a map which I/ more sociable there would be more) wor my own part, I havé a great) Yualized joing 4 ee — I | happier marriages. There are too faith in womankind, and 4 kind, | Considered the hazards of the Lort : | many conventional rules governing|too, ao nome day 1 will mest a girl,| mers along with my personal prob i} 3 = — this old woyd, and we are living in|and so she be a nice girl, 1 am like|!™* Part of my morning vision) { a different era than ever before (the| the famous Benedict, the color of her | invariably took the form af two lit or Cherry Patrons era), and if you don't do aome of | hair and eves may be as God gave | U@ ships sailing a blue ocean toward | “~~~ the little’ things your own way, her. E. C. G, | Honolulu, one from the Horn and CHERRY CHAT as mhe pun sense!” her eulja beard non (To Be Continued) ¥ " gomeone else is going to do them hisy a -_ jone from San Francisco. And théy If price are ‘ took the form of some ¥ Ry, 284 sot the best sf you. 1}, Sunflower seeds make fine food for | wn" ye ita played with ne a high, an some i p Porn yg Sage s3 (altho 1) tivestock; its off Is equal to the best | cirt, may, at least dimost everything. First, see that|/inseed oll, and its stalks are as good) In my father’s library at college i. in tully te ; : r ‘ol Ppp cane are blissfully ig- live RIGHT, then spend every-|as coal for producing heat. ohh yi 7 ds heen norant of the "- nc ere one round ita orbit. It was a magnetic | globe and some ingenious studere | had fitted it out with a marvelous | amortment af metal tmages which it# magnetien would attract and hold. One could set up pyramids in| 1" Feypt, and broken ‘temples in|. To afd to the great advantages of- |Greees, and igioos near the North | fred by Cherry's, one inay buy here Pole; and red men in America; and |" monthly terms that are the great- yellow men in China; and little rail i help, “oe times when cash is lim- | road trains on land; and tiny ships |'#*¢—and there arp very few of us on the seven seas, Every Sunday 1|*N0 don't occasionally have that ex- | was allowed to play with theme fas | Perlence: indeed, the wealthiest peo- cinating tays. And #0 I learned my |P! uve thetr credit most. (Prob psoas | ably that’s the reason they‘re wealthy | Chrys’ adventure fascinated me as|— they know how to conserve their| if It were a dream of my childhood | ™**™) jcame true. Very often I have the| »99 wai etait, orl anaie: exit? \ ullding, Seed venue, 12 to 2 P. M. | sensation of living thru certain con Gvee Pig’ Whietla, Between EVERY THURSDAY sae | long since. Mort people have the| z same queer idea ocensionally. It ia a trick of the subconscious mind, | psychologists aay | When I considered the Argentine Our Big Sanitary Swimming Pool will be open to ladies only on Thursday from 12 to 2 p. m., at which time Professor Vickers will be on hand to assist ladies in the art of swimming. able apparel as reasonably as ever — and cer. tainly styles and quality could not be better, Crystal Pool Free Instruction (Ladies Only) with Daddy Lorimer aboard, and the Blue Bird carrying Chrys and Kath erina, as 1 did every morning upon awakening, I felt I had dreamed the whote situation years and years ago. I never visualized modern yachts, but always two wee metal ships hastening over the nicely rounded surface of a globe toward a com mon port. And from a Siberian harbor was speeding another toy ship; and I could see the three ships, morning after morning, drawing closer and | cloner, carrying strangers from three corners of the globe to share in some | mysterious adventure, And behind the vision followed a prenentiment; the meeting of those ships portended evil! Fut whether it was ovil for the Lorimers, or the success of a wicked consptracy, I could not decide. One obsession was aa wily as another and the pictures I conjured up were probably a desir. able outlet for my tense emotiéns, MARKET between Pike and Liberty Theatre YOU are a moth- er, see the end eG Seattle wa) ©Natatorium Co. ¥ Second and Lenora Elliott 1896 of the road, then tell your daugh- ter what you saw. business man and AN them, thru you, that girls nowadays, nations has hung upon the doings "| ideal husband. Of course, there are expecially business giris, surety, | “hOUld Fo. Jot a Loripert* 1 whir % 5 | ‘ | of e pered to Bob, | . eacoptions to all rule. I am not say-| should be able to distinguish between | 1 simply can't Imagine how |i, 0 Sit Mill | Mitt ee of mail A ing that I didn't find some ct my|the true and the false to the extent | Woman “gets things done” when whe | 420 Arvcyed Gur Pe the de very con | o ch acaqu j faces @ day without a definite pur-| _ e olng + It H ery ist es — to — remy 958 | pose for each hour of it. To enter — is never going ag ogg aA Ite easy to ignore|" The men they may meet will not|® "ew day without a design for| Punt Aucet tO Mee ee vents : were easy tolne all bad A girl lusting It would seem to me like get ye er etc Fh ggies oo ay Je all bad. A girl will 8000 OW et eee mrne city, annoying (Were, determined by my own sister, may bay faahion. | mec Ob. Tier GARDENER SAYS ha en a ema r in the garden which i available, make |} sure that you set out @ few ramp: | berry plants, Tt in m pons ble to Ket firstel ' vf] ae that they spoil qutch Don't depend up catalogued description however but find out from mebody in your own section just what varieties will thrive best in your neighborhood And don't @ Any commercial grower to prejudice you against the St. Regis or ever-bearing || ranpbe While itd berries are not ve big, this variety begins bearing before any other kind and givé* & second bountiful erop in fail Temember, tho, that t whould be grown always in hills and the canes kept down to five $$ KEEP DISH CLOTHS | NICE AND CLEAN While one hates to wash and bol linheloths and tablecloths and nap. king, it is funt as essential to have lean water for these humdrum hard worked and stained pieces of linen as for the fme and snowy table| Unens Tt t# a good idea to wash the diab towels all by themselves, A dish towel comes in direct contact with the same spot that our food is served And on the condition of the dish pends the condition of the| towe ais Dinh towels carefully washed tn hot « suds, rinsed and boiled in clear r and dried in moan casily wiped dishes and healthy families | TATES WITH MOST WOMEN VOTERS sanshir When the suffrage amendment ts Fatified, 26,900,000 new voters will Join the ranks extimates based on the } making allowance for ali New York state tn its number of women 2 a age and over, with a firure of 3,033.-/ and cook until onion and When seasoned y Wat ver the em on toast. NEW FROCK CLOTH she “forbidn. which is making some of the love Hest street frocks, an well as indoor gowns. It in as soft as chiffon, and has @ duvetyn finish of finest ook for all @ The right way to wash blankets Use two eablespoonfuls of Lux to a gallon of water. Whisk into a thick lather in very hot water. Add cold wate: until suds are lukewarm, Work your blankets up and down in the suds and squeeze the suds repeat- edly through the soiled spots De not rub, Rinse, the blankers in three lukewarm waters. Pass through a loose wringer or squeeze the water out. Do not twist, Dry in the shade in @ moderate temperature. and radiate the most beautiful color Add one cup tomato pulp, @ bit of | schemes imaginable. Thin gown im the center was im. ported by Gidding for one of New ’s picture was of Mins Hoien Cress, 316 Crary ballding; Tues ; ¥!t butter, malt and pepper pour| York's most popular society giris V'd love to give you her name. but! 7N7 SPORT'S JACKETS It te of aliver cloth, a | delicate summery sort, Duvetyn taffeta la a new material | pier yoke tunic (which is very new) | net, over with tiniest sequin beads that the world drops, prinma of light Why blankets shrink and grow harsh PAGE 18 17 Woltalt can afford to iiss” EIGN 08) OR ILI, EE OO LIF OUR BO? ey "LP OYWF7 o>- THE OLD he NEW YORK EVENING.GOWNS RADIATE .a| LOVELY COLORS AND LIGHT FROM SILVER CLOTH, SA EQUIN 23. Next is Pennsylvania, with OoY 2.325.408 women. Following in order BO0009 Gre Mlinols, with 1,724,340; Ohio, with BY CORA MOORE Florence Shirley wears another of! One sees so many hats with eves bere and Mamsachusetts, wit New York's Fashion Authority | these eneranas Parse lon sees of] ing costumes. It's the thing nowee . Never, never was New York #o|Palescent beads dropping from a). fs MAT BAR = ivinasly eaymand I wish I could|Dlain little white mtin dress that large bate of lace, gold or eormigaiag LUNCHEON DISH eloriously eeyaie, picture of the| could easily bs copied. ‘Thi is|black with crown of taffeta op saft To make 8n af Mg luncheon | \onderful gowns that are to be|#hown at the left straw, or horsehair hate, one color dish serve @ fried on buttered | ven everywhere, morning, after-| At the right i# @ graceful gown| lined with another; small hate, flows) toast and serve wil reole sauce. |) ron and evening, especially in the|f orebid radium, with @ bit of lace|er toques or hats fashiohed of the For w mines two|lvening. “They glitter and sparkle|&n@ @ bunch of Spanish daisies as|gown material. They are | green peppers and one amall onjon. sole trimming. Long gitdie ends|more fetching than head-dresses to and a panel drop of the materia!| which American women do nottake distinguish the gown. fo very kindly, ee GAY COLORS USED |SLIPPER FEATURES ~ Bome of the sports clothes are |r evening sitppers, The straps ame featuring gay-colored and striped |ComPlicated and oddly cut. ‘The: embroidered all| jackets for wear with plain skirts. | buckles are either In the new street suits, checked and | straps cross or at the toc, They ame pleated skirts are worn with plain,/ generally made of French hing) dark blue coata, stones. = with a pan like water - —-! ‘OUR soft new blankets with their blue and white squares! How you dread to have them washed—last season your lavender ones were ruined! Why? Because the minute yor tub soap on woolens they become matted, harsh and shrunken. With Luz there is no rubbing at all! Just sousing in rich, . cleansing lather and. gentle pressing of the suds through the " soiled parts. Your blankets come out soft and fluffy, They ere just like new. You can safely wash them the Lux way as often as you want, Your grocer, druggist or department store has Lux.— Lever Bros. Co., Cambridge, Mass. There is nothing like Lux for washing blankets Metal cloth is the popula> chole pinced where the