The Seattle Star Newspaper, January 4, 1913, Page 5

° fo) ° O° 1o} 9 08 o¢ 00 © © THE STAR—SATURDAY, JANUARY 4, 1913. ty QO WH@’S HEAD OF THE FAMILY ° I have been much Intefested in “Why Are Bachelors, Ditto Spin stera?” and now in the “Head of tb ily” digguesion If | am not too seve 1 would the abness and cowardice shown in the answers is amazing. Mher maidnor man can know except by experten As to the head @ the family, why not one try considering the other a8 @ partner; life and happiness are a business, As to the “iffers’ and “butters,” who are afraid, let the men remember it was a woman who sald, “Entreat me not to leave thee orto cease from following after thee; whither thou goest I will go; t people ehall be my people, and thy God my God,” and the girls nay @emember it was a man who said, “The value of a good wif@ js far above rubles.” % "i es ae a. a PETE My wife and I marrie@ without any scie have never had mle than $20 a wee®, thr all, with the usual concomitants, @ebt and sickness; have two ghildren to rear, and would not change our life for the bare possession of wealth, without each other. We are only average people with tempers, etc. as usual Let me recommend the partner and companion idea Partners discuss and companions share, One may as wel) havé no partner as one who has no ideas different to his or her; and no companion is one who is not a contrast to you, 1 am no speculator, but in this matter I would take some You make or mar your own happiness INTERE tifie reason, 16 years agof or four times nothing at % oS ax, a banges. TED, I have been both edifled and amused, in reading your column; and indignant, when one bachelor gave as his reason for remaining in that state, that God made him the head of the family and he had not found 4 woman who was willing he should retain that position. Jt is fortunate he did not find such a one. Had he succeeded he would certainly very soon ha divorce courts another job, or have made a veritable slave of his wie It would not bevefit soctety to have any more of his species propa- gated. By reading the first three chapters of Genesis he will learn } that God did not give Adam any contro! until after he had created 6. | And He gave THEM dominion over the creatures, It was Adam he ogra nag yl erare | @ commanded not to eat of the forbidden fruit, and Adam told Eve; but ae Grey L have been a constant reader of your wnswera we have no evidence that he used his protective power to prevent her a ania" Son have abeux ails eheit wlliee te sane taking ft; nor did he refuse the portion she offered him; but when have They eught to take heed while they are youna: for questioned by God, put all the blame on the woman, as many of bis Vastoned to ouch | would have been a differeut woman today; Here fs a reproduction of a letter sent me by one of my readers : cons have been prone to do ever since : t Bde! won't Iteten till it's t and they have gotten so far) Knowing that it is a world-old question, one that has been discussed it was Adam sione wh was drives out of the Ganten of Méea. many | Eve may have gone along, as loving wives are willing to bear the shame | rather than desert ir husbands when trouble comes to them. Woman | Was not commanded to work; yet she does it e given the oo late the wrong line it ie bard to rive egeia. Ob, if they could only back end forth, pro and con, for centurl and without setuement, I they would listen, wer to the ministers of this city, and the readers of The Star. ‘once had as good @ mother and (lber as anyl are a few terse sentences on the subject by ministers inter wut I did not fetes and now, I would give my ail to be back again. || viewed today ; | 0) MRS. L. C. seem loud, dat etl! you please publish it and the REV. F. J. VAN HORN of the Plymouth Uongregetional church: | : (< —-—— j % i ae vend it may Neten and beware, for the ome we thiak/ “I have never bothered myself about Cain's wife; have had my hande | God said, “Ye are bone of one bona and flesh of one flesh.” Thon friend is sometimes our worst enemy full taking care of my own. It all depends on whether one believes how can man alone be the head. It takes both to form » head capable ONE WHO KNOWS. |there was one or more families on earth at the time phew I Sig gf tlle syne Hohn geal Dasara is te eae po ye DAT thank you for this letter to the yours people. In your innate| DR. J, D, 0. POWERS of the Unitarian church: “No one on tae eae ee ee re tne Same eee ‘and endeavor not to make it “loud,” you bave made no| arth knows who Cain's wifo was.” vga v7 Sigg oma: a the thther fe enter that the cbildrell ms statement: but I can read betdees the lines and I want to nay OR. M. A. MATTHEWS of the First Presbyterian church: “Cain | © the mother obeying the father Jn order that the children may have an example of obedience. Would a 20th century husband think of commanding his wife? Would he not prefer the more wanly habit of jasking her to accede to his wishes? The word “obey” is seldom used in a marriage ceremony in this age. ' c. comfort that while it may seem very hard to rise, it is abso-| was about 100 years of age when he married, and that part of the si INEVER too late. If you bad pot so much good in you, you would country had become well populated. He evidently married a distant & Fieel your mistakes so deeply: amt | am going to believe that you cousin before he went to the Land of Nod a start with the New Year, and that even if you stumble one RABBI SAMUEL KOCH of the Congregational Temple De Hirsh you are going to get up again aad go bravely om, and if you|“Your reader evidently takes this part of the scripture literally, I > Seseraeee ad TT ete Te Ce Tee eee eae ad. ‘Write me now and then, | will be honored more thaa if wealth| regard it as legendary, and therefore unimportant, One commeata- SALEM, OR—Little Helen West, Mery were poured out for me. | tor #tates that Cain very likely married his sister, Taking « scientific |NOTICE TO READERS Aengnter ct the eotstsde Ge There ts good in everybody and everything, snd ff we will just) view, the word ‘Cain’ means not one man, but the tribe of Kenites, « \* All letters cannot be an- * recovering from a fall of 15 feet keep our minds open to It, we will receive it, and the more we) pastural people, and he probably married a wife from the tribe. ® swered in the paper, and many * through @ trap door in the quarters the bigger we will crow until finally a smeer or a cutting re | ~ ae 2 | |® are without name or address. *| oF the jaintor in the capitol building. Se will not hurt, but make us want to help the ome who makes it to people do, but | want to do right. [| | A stamped, self-addressed en- |” ia e . am in sehoot and expect to be for/| SAYS AMERICAN % velope always brings a prompt * PEERS 0% several years, but I am gotng with * reply CYNTHIA GREY. * DANCING “4 EVED BECAUSE let us quit owF quarreling and get|a young boy of 29 or rather a young || WOMEN CAN BRING : | * HIPPODROME 1 Foam D WITH OTHERS together and establish « man. | PEACE TO WORLD J FO tt i ke! i DANCED young government by which all ea: He went home about two weeks | | Grey: 1 am a young/s 4 pear Miss ‘oing|& home, Thea there will be no|ago to spend Christmas, and while PORTLAND, OR Japanese | nd bave been going | : ot io 8 of 18. bachelors, no prisons and no di-|there he sent me a beautiful Christ Consul M. Ida‘ heartily approves of MH 8 youns speagrontte I danced | voree court. REUBEN mas present, .How shall I return the fining of M. Shir M. { night, one ane aon. > hates | the compliment, as I love him and ; Tanaka $10 each for participating eeemererel OBAS The ot WHY WILL NOT SOME WOMEN | have ow been acquainted for some |in @ mutiny on the Oriental liner ; Snery tow can 1 regain bis | REALIZE THEIR SMALLNESS? | (ime. | Manshu Maru. -4 4 flow acct think me foolish, Dear Miss Grey: 1 am @ I don’t think I would think so Biiheaeg eremap nn gi ear! widow of 56. Some few years | muck of him, but he has saved my | i iis yous man Coe, 1] agn | ren around @ good deal; |lifo trom bad people, that ts I HE MARKETS camel eg ar benny ook: ° MISS 16 but the inst few years I have |wowld have been dead were it not T K ag : " antions. . Wholesale and retail. expect| lived @ perfect life and # |for him. Is he not a good boy ; z e ? “4 Soo vae0 pons Christian as near ae possible, Lb M - a 227-235 Lumber Exchange Bid: ghey yone but him, and} sad to try and belp others ts A—You are young, and your wm on my life work {dena unfolding, and I would not enough to do it, and y es dates with no one but you? But a lot of my old lady [lik eyou to think you must aware I must] friends won't speak to me and [return a present with its P : a funny kind of love, 1} Tt tak the . uuu «aond} i nearly breaks my heart, |money value. It takes away ven ‘ ery . ° ee ee wor and is ruining my health, as | joy of giving. So, wait until Baster, ’ , — fing tor fe omplete course taught, thor 4 tad jealous. You woudl I y 20 about tt. mt bute |or his birthday, aad give him 6 ; v h and eeliable, 5 a worry so . f or ’ a) are for strictly firet grades esriler. Apply dances and young men * | my pride. What do you think (small token of remembrance on MODEL MILLINERY “1 fatil you are older. Tought to do? Would you ask |which you have put thought and } Meer—Muving Price ne eee = some of thom what fs the mat- | work. To embrofder bis initial tn w : j Reales ° : ; eae SACHELOR ter? I must rectify things |a handkerchief or to hemstitch a And Cain went out from the presen Frult—selling Price 1S ANOTHE! Being an Ota} Some way, as I can't stand It | half dozen for him would be appre dwelt in the Land of Nod, on the East o- stg Lo pe FF like to have} much longer. ciated “And Cain knew his wife; and she Di ~ i208 127 7 ‘ 4 64D WOMAN. aptads Enoch——’ Genesis Dressed Mente—Selling Price i 4 an old Some women are very cruel : a erie semen 0 ts not|to their own sex, aad will reap| THE —* na iPhad atl r : : i a HY Why not fit yourself for one — H what they sow OF LEGAL S& DON’ EA Ol LOTHES \< i ud [11% of the good positions constant! ; gh (The oat ae if I were you. {| would say noth- Grey: T have been in N'T WEAR D, SAD C r itt offered, by tue big electrioat 4 aekee heed) 1s | 108 to them. 1 would continne my| Dear Miss Gre igh WHEN THE STORK IS EXPECTED “ify |] corporations? 2 Michelor’s head.) The irl) vay, treating them kindly, feeling| terested in your letters for some ; hei BY ‘ Rood 48 God could make (0/19 they know better they would do|time and have found you always eset pick bis mud. tom | better, and watching for an oppor-| five good advice ; is) i real reason is in the ~ em | eunity to help them, for they nead| I was married to a wo man o rd : 03 Pa vhich we get our living. Come, |i noise than you need their ap-|OWN age and wo were happy tc woman is the key Ames a: while, Finally she got tired of b , 1 Move a proval. If I can help you again! ® Ly the nal F write and enclose a stamped en-|me and took to drinking and es | B 4 lvolape anal ei enawer purrately.jother company at my house when| se hee BY : > }T was away, and I left her, Can 1}, 7! igh: tha RB A ye Bo be in and can sh without 8 , 1 _ IT 18 A SERIOUS THING TO marry again, ane 4 1 do| from the outaid | “B | Manav POR AMUSEMENT. ee eee saoais 4 t | America holds the right perspec | ie : | am a |Fight, or wrong? Kindly toll me.| America holds the right perspec | te married man 25 years old and , h ean’ with tel as | 13 A ither can marry without a/this continent, helr ohed M. Selling Pri bd my wife te 35 and we have been | Oo and in this state, six |interest and su havo t 7 jont ero. married two years. restore ri ingag rosea ih my S tettlelarst whe 4 the last twe years she has It you gave her the same ch ane gg vis pall gl EA ees Dried beet 1 t grown very old, and she does after her mistake that you would ~ ae gr es - 1 Poultry, Local—Buying Pri 1 : , 4 Ihave wished had you gone ‘. whe ance of ming ng brotlere ue .16 F not care for any owteide amuse- | ha . ; Pa H 4 ments. She = a me to stay |/f you were kind and gentle instead Rs ; nates live a at hore with her and as | love of upbratding, and she still P rais Ps Pita Bor aged Z P. 3 another girl, | san’t stay. 2d fm living that sort of its, you United Stat ; ; is Se, dear Mise Grey, teli me | are not to blame niche Mabenn. Bquabe, dos. 2100 how | cam get away from her ne‘ed peace propag Vegetables—Selling Price age 4 | for life. Fer when | am away |gualt WE GIVE WIDOWS eff ound the you know something of from her | am happy. P , f all war have result electricity you can soon get FROM A WOULD-BE-FREE |CHANCE IN ‘WHY ARE WIDOWS’) ye couterence, & Buro started on the road to the best Don’t think that when HUSBAND. . Dear Miss Grey: We hear from] pean peace movement and later an| opportunities and moet attrac- 7 3 A A man who would think Cyn-| oe bachelors and old maids, Why | international peace propagand tive work that any occupation ¢ Te Pee buy a title policy you thin Grey would teil him how to) ot trom widows? Sarcastic critl-| Baroness Von Suttner will be onc s to offer, i | re himee wmnder such circum-| iim is ours. Unhappy marriaxes|of the principal spea at the three-month practical Bet nothing beyond protec- stances, would age any sensible wo} 1, forced us to earn our OWN I!¥-lHiennial meoting of the General teal course will help you - man in lees than two years, YOulie by hard work, but with small) gederation of Women's clubs in make the start. Costs little. Im Eton. poor, miatulded infant compensation, being less fortanate| gan Francisco, June 25-July 5.:Her vestigate, - ete ae eee OT ite vitae [than our younger giaters (x00d/name also appears in the peace See er off withor pu AM Shem d fine clothes), we are not | ; ence pro rhich is to Nearly as valuable to |branew, but that does not relieve) looks an’ | ies Tee eT ieecd cd tan iahaek bunts Toteprone Q. A. 254 in you of mesponsibility I our experience polsoned 8) tion of the National Pducational . . é Be the fact that you You bring no complaint against] ifiine bachelors? If they would | association in Chicago, July 6-12 Seattie fuginerring Schoo! 7 .- her except that she hag aged, and| WIN (ie Men itty, as courteous | = : i Lp Miele. fo amuse YOU! ould be true happiness. “a ; . Tow te one ghe {a @ good business} °°"'4 * 0 GRASS WIDOW. | Cynthia’s Answers ats : . Fast week Mr. Mans {woman and wants to make a man! » gpa patient bachelors, your| io Many OWestions _mixed ies eee ee —— 7 : of you bg we Wil tun view lots io West Ne laddle, get the idea out| ¥ins* w! ) . Now, my laddie, get the idea ow of your head that you can be happy wy ste vai Setttie, bet raid not [with another woman. You can't bel yg SWEETHEART STEALS int knife and fork are uwed in eat q » and ha a i THER. a club-house saudwic Ba at : A Z theme bie trade because the ire gr sania Mia triton none The time was fot so very long ders, as tight bands are very !n- at . . « Grey: T have been] ‘The Simplon tunnel opened}ago when a woman hid herself, juriow ‘ : jec f ithe | M ipany with a lady 19/through the Alps in 1905 is the}away from every one but her most| Over this make your loose gar ; lawyer vejected the titt cra ates for about two years,|iongest tunnel in the world. It is{ intimate relations when she knew | mest, One that ts half fitting in 4 { a OF . tte} vind out through! 131% miles long 2 she was to become a mother. |the back 1s gathered at the shoul 7 : | Dear Mian G Please setiie ind |12%4 miles long y Whee Mr. Mann bought his argument between my parents! t she has beow stealing | But we are growing moro sensi. ders and belted with ribbons acros#}.y 041 Pind Interesting Features @t the Theatres Listed Relow 4 cae de me wae deees ancenar etait h anether 2 Yo dry clean a white sweater,| le. Expectant mothers go about| the waist and reaches down gn the car adbeaksabtatid Yi 4 Ms lawyer had, properly Det alee & ae ane tee Ramet ake 5 st rue to melruy well with powdered macnosig| the daily hogschold @uties a@ well skirt in a kind of tupic would be : r x P ; 35 0640 years. of age. He|What shall 1 do? Please give me|.ng iny away fur a few dara chen {a8 preparing for the newcomer in ¥ good style just at presgnt ySbeelal” Attraction.® “Duty and the @ ough, approved the title tle RR te allay Bakr T. W.D. |ghake well, If not clean. repeat|® perfectly open manner. sown in the illustration Was ens Me eek ailty Oana ines © a pss gh irene Rs: aes the young lady her|eeeee.: time wee Don’t wear a loose gown that made for a very wealthy woman, me Sree” eak “Wie Asieal Sraiiee t but Mr. Mann's lawye tie dieaitttal tender mae alchoice betwe ou and the “other|"°"™ MC hangs from the shoulders to thg but the lace under skirt could be| “Home of Glass Curtain” ANY Ait UNI Atinel * ; ‘ Zend home here, but this man told|{ellow” and let it be decisive ‘atid ho Pnited {fet Tt 18 apt tO pull upodn fron®! made of goft figured challle and for} HL, . SIR AUNT A ig i Wasn't the purchaser's | £004 home here, “gy mM ged Sea oh the other man,|_..The populattén of the Vnited | and give you a very awkward ap y day wear with an under wefst ook." Orwat Dines, sonmbbing Gly on x ne he would pay my fare down I rhoome il viwita with you,| States and Islands ft 103 1, | pearance. of challie with long sleeves that feakssa a the @ eet ¥ r Mwyer, and he waén't |Om*isnd, Cat. it wou come, and) and tries to - Gitden file the area 3,756,884 square mile | First make a skirt, putting a would show through the openings es paid Pee see eee ee 4 he” ap) Rags Fe! oe sia ” band on all but the back breadths. of the loose coat, Over this make| 3d and Cherry | ' aaa eee ‘ : is. § anybody's standar@ of au Aor a ts Bt pd sp ° "I shall write to you when he|In thegg put a draw string. Bethe loose coat like the illustration| . th he at, Lot dates ten a Jeomes,"de future tense, and means |sure aR put on the sist some of plain chiffon cloth that matches) IT Duster’s Last Fight,” tn 8 rocis. The ¢ ae » ority . ae et - dachond W I will write after he comes; “I! straps that will go ove: Bhoul-'the ground of the challie, ? gambling and saloon: My par e \ ; ‘aps tha . todrama of perican history « °. —_ think t! Se thats nae russ ear rs all have w sare fet fect, che a ae. | a iene ‘att =| 2d and Madison * ° ° 1 comes” is faturd perfect, and im isa " vi tat Dns ea a att x harm and don't want moto. gb. prarao.pabe [comes I tite fo’ you before he a r 1 — Would I be Going tag oe I imereme from. the | fies 4 will Wri vat ney ‘'T here war a young man in the chair ‘Odeon Theatre adeilodern Moving Ploture, 1rouse have no bad habits. je answer Al ys oe u a | | rentiomen 2 a o* through your columns at once e | freatment. “1420 PRED Hi fo For an ingrown toe-nall, acrape Fi ; Fins? AT PIER ce at : A.—Don't go with the man, The : “2 ine nail down the migaie until it is| Whose voice rove KRir anc hoir | . A nee 3, as ington chance@are he intends no good. If aie, eo cannot | thin, and cut a noted in the center i | ‘ he Shaushtaue, Seeel MOMs he did, -he would consult your. par noes vf the protruding part; next, raise 2 ‘ U t sO cia dwarsa prodwané ents, or advise you to. comsat ull |xontly the ingrown part, and insert! Go high did it eoar, nion eatre Sr detetas Task aercundic ae It e nsurance 9 Riese OF eigenen’ Cohen Lathe t 2 i QPhird Ay. at Unton@bhonr P.O. Sunday, Mond and Tuesday. THE “GIVE AND TAKE” oy Gaby $e | a a A . a "ie a 5 war Will “A Last Resort” and an “Un T could hear it moar, Miia Srey ' RRM RE: ompany r letters for some time, so | am by sending yOu » reply will reach them, and 4 Ne C-- rown-- cial My and Thuraday, Kings of the your letters ame ee 8 Pr y FR Write TODAY sr letter. I can hel . WD, ol 1 in two reels. as’ pnts to you for eye ee PLAPAO TA moRATORIE 4, Block a6 ~ Orta ie THA GREY. 4 A nd’twas found next day in the spate: MM Ss First Ay, Bet, Madison and Spring Bong, U, ¢ Supervision.” am 16, and can see how othe t. Louie, Mo. . hed * arena