The Seattle Star Newspaper, December 28, 1912, Page 5

ART NOW Leare Millimery taught, thor- ough and re! Spring sea- gon earlier. Apply MODEL MILLINERY People’s i: | Insurance 4} When lend money estate, you pursue? Do you require some- body's that the Bouse will not burn? Or @o you insist on having a you your on improved real which method do opinion fire insurance policy? Are content with somebody s the title will never be at- | tacked? Or do you re- ee quire our title policy? sof : The average cost is the you opinion that > same, but we make you Washington Title Insurance ren | Wi ite with twelve den: wu C an ‘118 First Ave-—Union Block, al Tele- rath uli or house collar and cuffs of white Swiss lawn, navy blue embroidered squares trimmed with Val. | enctenes Ince. About the waist there te a strip of | Valenciennes drawn a navy bive velvet ribben. One thing about sult ber. either the “head” or the “f her to be either a slave or a parasite. independent comrade and companion. She would have to support If she did not, she would be a parasite, and I would know she married me for support and not for love. herself. should be | an? how ta he going to be capable of giving an ft Is absolutely dangerous for a woman to place herself completely in man’s hands, her own husband's, even if he is a Christian man, if he is ignorant of certain laws, these men? have “eyes and see not, and ears and hear not.” with with gown, ores style. gown, It ta of dark red sic through which there insertion, kimono would be much too tnformal. As you are inviting disenssion of will give you my view of It. I hardly expect to marry because I have never yet foun ‘oman who suited me, and if I did, the chances are | would But if I should marry, | would not want Of course, | agree with you, Miss Grey, that a wife taking the head of, the ithout the power to think deeply and reason earnestly. Some women are superior to men ia some things; For the wom: Simplicity and comfort mark this dainty bedroom | nothing could be more appropriate than this one-piece Tt is made of diagonal worsted In semi-prin-| round neck and this same silk forms rather wide un- dersiveves that are trimmed with black buttons, the head of the family” question, a a not my wife to be * of the family, or I would not wot I would want her to be an care of a home and several children ix doing her share. That is, with the present methods of management; from modern industry and apply scientific methods to home manage- but when people take a lesson ment most of the drudgery will be done away with, especially in cities, BIG FOOT. The person who argues that a woman Is superior to man and “amily is andoubtedly a woman, as usual, but if all the men in creation were formed into one large man, and all the women in creation were formed into one large woman, that large man would be superior to that large woman in every respect, and if they were married and had a family, the man would be boss, you bet. “TAKE iT FROM ME.” Don't’ you think "A. B. Who Thinks’ In short, the home should be a place where peace and good and “A Bachelor Maid” are a bit narrow in their views as to who should be the head of the family? I do not believe im either the man or the woman being boss; bat all things concerning the family should be open for dis- cussion, and due consideration given to each other's opinions, and the welfare of the home should be uppermost in the minds of both, rather than the pleasure of the individual. reigns, instead of a place for the so-called head of the family to show his or her authority. A BACHELOR LOGGER, Concerning the “head of the house” discussion, ft Is my conten- tion that {t should be the result of the blending of two heads. Matrimony should be a mutual cooperative alliance for the good of the Institution and the parties most concerned. Husband and wife should be business partners, chums, pals and lovers. They should A STU If men were all just, and honorable, and kind, tt would not | #0 dangerous for a woman to blindly obey; would be violating but even then that maxim: “To thine own self be true. pool their abilities and facalties with a view of obtaining a barmoni- ous whole and each should forget self in their efforts to guard the | weak spots and present an invulnerable front to the many that will beset them. roblems ENT. be If man {s not able to control himself, and take his own coun- “counsel” It would be worse than the “blind leading the blind.” to a wom- And The woman does not suffer the nces alone, but the innocent children that follow are the conneque' victims, as well. Woman's inatinct (when normal) and Intuition are greatly su- He may protect her from i he protect her from himself? T have been in a position to learn and to know of the most helpless wom whom our great civilization These women, poor creatures, were they not leg: These blind, submissive for it was all “God's will.” This damnable doctrine of “obedience,” this false creed, Uniess women demand the human race itterly degenerate. Thank God, we are beginning to wake uw; ‘ery other evil; A BACHELOR GIRL. pertor to man's cold reasoning, therefore man has no right to be woman's dictator. but atro- cious erimes committed by good (7) Christian men, Bible students, ete,, against the poor, submissive, called wife. they These women in question were some ahout to become mothers, and others were mothers of infante a few days old. And these men were respected citizens, loyal to their church and their country. God have merey on ly married to Had they not promised to “obey”? Did not the Bible say so-and-so upheld the theory that it is man’s privilege to use woman to suit his sweet will? did not dare to rebel, creatures has made such crimes possible and it ts responsible for half the misery in this world today. freedom and ownership of their own bodies, absolute personal will WOMAN'S FRIEND. The ignorant, tyrannieal, laims, They will twist the truth to suit their own cases, for But the Miss penly. No light waa “beating around the bush, er shed upon these vital SAY YOU SAW IT IN THE STAR. narrow-minded and selfish men are always looking for the proofs in the Bible to substant! they close student of life can learn the most important lessons from the great book of life, and the book of nature. Grey, the foregoing is 4 plain statement of facts; but this is a serious question and should be discussed frankly and subjects by and being prudish and mock modest. The masses are in need of yoy pee along these fines. Mr. Bach, please read the “Age of Reason,” by a Payne. MAI Both the front and back panels go to the} neck, but the side gores and the sides of the bodice and the sleeves are cut is) kimono fashion. The trimming consists of bands of | | Persian lamb and black buttons and loops of black this model that will prove pleasing to some women is / allk cord. There is « band of dark red silk about the that it may be worn a# a house gown at times when MARRY BUCH A GIRL? Dear Mias Grey; 1 man of 36 and have been In con stant company with a young lady of 17. We seem to be very much in terented in each othar Lately the interest has overrip ened and closer developments were expécted; but, Miss Grey, 1 hent tate, and apply to you for your opinion, My future lfemate has been rather sickly for the last yoar or #o and has often complained of heart trouble, and that har obscured my future prospects, and I am very much worried as how to solve thi problem. Shall I take the girl an be in constant worry, or refuse and disappoint her? A MAN. A. 1 cannot # One half the “heart” trouble is not organic. If you would be the considerate hus band you should, the girl might be come perfectly well, and she prob ably will anyway, for she is very young acd has not gotten her growth. You should not think of marry ing until abo ts at least 20 years of age, better still, 25. You will both be more fully developed mentally and physically by that time. A POINT WHERE GIRLS | ARE OFTEN TO BLAME, | Dear Miss Grey lam @ young man of 17 and have beon going }with a girl of 16 for the past your.) Sho has always paid a good deal of attention to me, until about a Wook ago I took her to a party, and she turned me down and said mean things about me, and went home with another young man. samt} A few days later I met her on the atreet and she didn't speak to me Do you think she is tired of me? Would you drop her If you were me? Do you think that is the proper way for her to do? I think she has given me the cold shoulder all right AL. A. If you are at fauit beg her) pardon; If not, let her go. ~ 7 v ™ GRIF &COLDS A girl should not accept a young! ‘|man's company to a place of amuse Tell about “Seventy-seven,” telffment, and drop him for another, un ron lame he has been insaiting. Then,) your frends, tell your nelghbors.| a. has all the right in the world| who works in a downtown office, re cut off at the waist line tell everybody you meet whatli aiiow a decent man to take her “Beventy-seven” has done for you.\home. Otherwise, sho should keep iow her o#- We don't sek this as -« favor,|*?, appointment and allo to the onter her home. If | were & young man, end not guilty of misdemeanor, would cer tainly not allow a girl to drop me more than once, nor for our sake, but as a duty to your fellow man. If you have used “Seventy seveq” property,’ you know that if it ft») taken at the beginning of @ cold,! at the firet ohill or shiver, will|\pe A MAN FO: on break up a cold. SAKE OF PRINCIPLE You know if you wait titi you be.| Dear Miss Grey: I'am writing of your good advice sin to cough and sneeze It may| 70" for some take longer. Why not share your | Which has been of the beat to many | others. x ic al atam l To start, I was ® fool, but woke A small vial of pleasant pellets/Up too late. For the last three fits the vest pocket. gist’s, 260, or mailed. Humphrey's Homeo, Medicine Co, 156 William St, New York —Adv. WR. ANDERSON'S DRINKING |yeara [ had been keeping company an eee ae lwith « lady, {f ever there was one, but as my work was in different cities I could not be with ber, and) was treating her selfishly, as she fa iike all others, haman, and likes littio amusement now and then, | which i¢ was my place to give. But instead I was a trifier, trying to) be a good fMllow, spending my! money on others, when if | would) have been a man I would have had & happy home to spend this Christ- mas and many ethers, for she did jall in her power to have me settle) down and be 4 man. 1 would be only too giad to do} so now if she would return her love to me; but she is afraid to trast} me, as her heart ts cold. If | can regain her love I shall be a man if there ever was one who tried. So if you do not mind, would Iike| you to publish an answer for others stopped his drinking completely in|to see and wake up before it Is too their own little home, easily and/ late. DISCOURAGED, A.: Your resolution is good, but might be better. You have played the fool once; She Will Teli You How She Bd it F REE WRITE TO HER Through the offer of Mra. Mar- garet Anderson, of Hillburn, N. Y., whose husband was a confirmed drunkard for over 20 years, every man and woman who has a dear one who drinks can learn how she am a young | man | sain her love. She cannot trust al|young people? may be a who f# being one simply for | free night school in connection with her sake, and not from principle. |the public school, Gall up the #u perintendent and ask 18 IT PROPER WITH BOY I'VE NOT SEEN? | Dear Mies Grey Do you think AN ELEGY « boy I bave never seen? He writes very nice and interesting | WHAT ON ERAIN Have letters. Iam 16 years of age, and) You ettn come? wwr to judge, I think he is about 18 or 19. RED WING A: If the letters are such as silly, and have your mother’s con sent, this particular case may be all right. Dut it is usually « risky thing to do. A GRAIN OF COMFORT TO DESPAIRING MEN the letters published dally for some time. 1 note several bachelors who despair their fate in not finding ideal Ife partners. To these | have 8 «rain of comfort from my own| experience. ried a girl of my own age. time I but thought | was getting “stung, as lous. RHolent. | without berning it, tions, largely due to a fond mother daughter, enough to defy parents and under i ito me every day, By applying don’t jump from the frying pan into the fire and do It again, Be) & man without any “ifs” attached. | Bananas should be eaten ripe” for one to get the full benefit | of their natural flavor and nutritive food value. Here are a few reasons) why we and our children should eat them | Because nature has provided a) | germ-proot covering for the ban-) nana, Because analysis shows the ba nana to be more than a relish, It} o ba Mre. ret Anderson, af tr; ing In every iF that she could think of to eu im, finally gave hor hustmnd a simple little remedy, . Mt complet He has e. wondering if this remedy | really was @ cure for drunkenness! she tried it on her brother and » gral, nolghbors who were tinrdlig a food. | ‘ghe now wishon every man and| Because it is highly nutritious, | woman who has dear one who know what this remedy in 6 feels that it would when eaten ripe. | Because it tastes good to every on, drinker without his| Because it takes the place of meat ired, 0 . cot she will y of og anawer every olved frown those who are Interested in atop- ping friend or relative from not even necessary to wr er to her, If you prefer y he y send your name and ad ital card. She will un. it ts that you denir and will reply at ane Ly a 54 e publ! vio your affairs, AS ‘in has Rotning” to sell, do not send her money. Just be careful to write our Name and address Re by Finally, because the banana fur Nishes a combination of purity, nu- trition and cheapness fn this day of ».| high-cost living. » Recipes which will aid in varying the monotony of always eating the fryit raw: Banana Pancakes, Mash three bananas fine with a fork. in a bowl; add two and one ae tablespoons of sugar, one-half spoon of baking powder, and sift in one cup of flour; add one-half cup of milk and stir continuously ee you have a smooth paste, then rop by spoonfuls into frying pan with lard or drippings, When fried home |t a Tich golden brown, whisk over ay. | with lemon juice and sprinkle - lightly with suga time, and the wife thinks Ife dull MAR MISS GREY: I have been much interested in your advice to other troubled ones so am coming to you my- |{f she hasn't a silk waist, or dress, wolf, IT am a mining engineer, 26. 1 am in love with a jand ff they give no thought but to young lady two years my Junior and I believe that she has | self-gratification, caring little what the kindest of feclings towards me. kind of children they produce, and Now, this is how I am placed, ! have accepted a position as | allow them to come in rapid sue directing engineer under a three year contract with a comyany | cession, causing weakness In their having mines in the Pachuca district of Peru, This requires my | offspring and themselves, then they presence on the ground at all times, I dearly love the young lady | need the income of millionaires, I have mentioned, and desire to do only that which is best for her. = - ‘Have I the right to ask her to marry me, knowing I will be absent | DON’T SEEM TO for at least three years? Is it fair for me to ask her to give up the |GET ACQUAINTED pleasures which she may now enjoy at the hands of other men and Dear Miss Grey I am a young remain true to one who may never return from th fever-stricken, |boy, 19, and I have been working malaria-ridden country of savage Indians? Is she were to love me |for myself for five years, and have now, would it not be easier for her to forget her grief should I fail | gone through lots of difficulties, al to return if she bad not expressed her love? Miss Gre | though I havé my first cigar to take aa & gentioman and a man of honor, what sb I do? F » |and have never touched a drop of print your answer as soon as possible, as my time is short liquor, I want to know some way her and I want to do what is best for her. WANDERLUS' to find amusement, I never go to A--You are not warthy the girl's. love if you cannot truat on or any tough places, I don't her in other men's company during your absence, If you ever ox 1K to any church, and that way pect to be happy with any woman, you must get over the idea that |I don't seem to ge yainted with engagement, or even marriage, makes her your property the young folks, Miss Grey, please If the girl loves you she will be true, although she accepted | advise mo as soon as covventent, I the attention of # mi and if she loves you, you will both | long for an‘answer, LONESOME feel better during yo ratton for knowing it A.—You are to be commended for I appreciate your h desire to want to do what ia right [your abstinence from intoxicants, by her; but you will never know what real love is until you are |and I take {t you are an ambitious entirely rid of every spark of jealousy, and understand what a |boy, but your letter, before I cor. true woman's love means, and you cannot know without perfect | rected it, showed that you should trust, be in school. Why not attend night . school, improve yourself and at th WHAT SENSIBLE MAN WOULD | Be a man whether or not you re-|same tha get acquainted with ni T is proper to receive letters from you wayld be willing for the whole world to see, and you don't get Dear Miss Grey: 1 have read! Bix years ago, when 26, 1 mar-| At the loved this girl very well; my bride then appeared frivo- vain, concelted, lazy and tn. She couldn't boll water and ber first pancakes put me under a doctor's care, Bat in spite of these condi who thought that nobody but a mil- Honaire was good enough for her) wo loved each other TWO SISTERS—ONE RIGHT, THE OTHER WRONG take life together. We sized up living conditions, put our beads together, and where | we found each other's shortcom- ings we cradicated the faults the! beat we could and made improve | ments. Pretty soon we found By | samen a" or shows during) improving things In general, prof- iting by experience, ete, Ife really BB: agent A hte BR tw ideal. mother can no more than scold you Now my wife ta « first-class Cook, | when you return home; or gu to see a! housekeeper, and looks better! one of my girl friend party night and go with her, and mother wih not know anything about it, as she i entirely unsuspicious. Now, Miss Grey, I am on'y 16, but 1 know this is not right, and what shall I tell my sister to convince her itisn't? Thanking you, ETTIB. A.—Your duty fs not to convince your sister, but to do what you know to be right toward your moth- er. Your example wil! do more for your sister than anything you can Dear Mins Grey: We are two sis- ters, I am the younger of the two, My mother does not care to have ttle education and common sense | to my business, I have materially Increased cur Income. To these despairing bachelors 1) would say that the girl who at first sight appeara to be a poor marrylag proposition is almost cer- tain to develop Into an ideal wife it placed tm the proper environ- and the man himeelf is the gay. A girl who Hes to her mother | (which deceiving really is) hurts | her own character. Your mother is your best earthly friend. * ® swered In the paper, and many # ® are without name or address. & *% A stamped, self-addressed on- & ® velope always brings a All ietters cannot be an ® NORTH YAKIMA.-F. H. Kresi- | ion’ = ®/man of St. Louls is in North Yaki-| * reply. CYNTHIA @) ma for a few days to look after his * * | fruit ranch. SEER EEE EEE EE EEE HOW LONG TIME? HOW LARGE SALARY? Dear Mise Gray: How long should a couple be engaged before they get married? NORTH SEATTLE LUMBER Yard and Office, Lamber, Lath and Shingles, W. niah ing Dr. &. m. Viark, D. D. S, When a patient will write to us and say our work gave perfect sat- isfaction, there is nothing more to be added. We can show you a number of such letters of testimony. The work is painless, and as to price—well, we have cut our com- petitors’ prices in two. Regular $10 Gold Crowns $4.00 Regular $10 Pilates Dr Clark personally oversees all work tur out of office, and for this reason we are able to give you @ gua e that is bona fide, Regal Dental Offices Or. L. R. Clark, D. D. 8. (Manager) 1405 Third Ave. N. W. Cor. Union NOTE—Gring this Ad with you <r] PURCELL SAFE CO. Bxclusive Agent for the GENUINE MALL'S SAVs Phone Main 667. 806 ara Ave. Seattle. Matthews will unday morn- Rev. M A preach « sermon § ing entitle E MATHEMATICS OF CHRISTIANITY” This will be in the nature of a fifth anniversary review of the congregation since entering the new church. ‘The sermon Sunday evening at 7:20 will dincuas the subject, “THE CLOSING ACT OF A GHEAT DRAMA” This sermon Will reves! many of the acts of 1912, the steps of progress made by the city and the city effort to abolish the viee forces that have tried to control it for many years. Presbyterian ‘é Chen, Fiest Corner CAFE TANNHAUSER 2d and Pike Instrumental and Vocal Entertainment Afternoons and Evenings. MEALS AT ALL HOURS a la Carte. Phone Kenwood 208. Oo-gitee Green = ag Yara” 4B. Green Lake Biv emake a specialty oe High Grade Lumber, How large a salary does a young man need per month in order to} support a wife? I hope you will) answer these questions soon. | JOR. A.: The answer to both ques. tions depends entirely on the two/ people. In the majority of cases | it is best for young people to have known each other well for at least/ midnight, Rupert, “Ss, Leaves Pr a m, Jan year; two years is better. cna ioe If both cre willing to make s Bay, Kineolith, Pt Simpeon, tke home by work and forbearance, if/§ midnight, January 11th and 26th, |the man has not extravagant |f 804 22nd for Mansett and Naden Harbor. ary 13th and 26th, February 9th ideas, and the wife knows some- if Reruge Bay, Skidegate, Cumshow thing of domestic economy, and both are content to start in a very small way, as did our grandfathers, a salary of even $50 a month with « small bank account to fall back upon is sufficient. But if the husband {nsists on doing the buying, and brings hom two or three kinds of meat at a Ikeda, B.C oy: GRAND TRUNK P. 10:00 a, m. for South Hazelton, B. Rupert at 6:00 p. m. GRAND TRUNK BR (Double Tr Chicago to New York Through PULL 4. H. Goodier, ©. Phon Main & Clty Office, ‘Agents aT. A. inst Ave. and or All Trans-A Passenger trains jeave Prince Ru Kffeetive October 27th, 1912. “S. S. PRINCE RUPERT” Leaves Seattle, Wash, Sunday at 12 o'clock, for Victoria, Vancouver and Prince S. PRINCE JOHN” ince Rupert Wednesday at 11:00 uary 8th and 22nd, ruary Sth March Sth and 19th for Granb: ewart, B.C. Friday at i2 o'ck February Sth and 22nd, March th Sunday at 10:00 p. m., Janu- and 28rd, March 9th and 23rd for Pacofl, Lockport, Jedway and ACIFIC RAILWAY rt Wednesday and Saturday at (185 miles), Returning, leave a, C South Hazelton Sunday and Thursday at 10:00 a. m, arriving Prince AULWAY SYSTEM ack Route) and other Atlantic Seaports. MAN STANDARD and TOUI Sleeping Cars. in, General Age er Departmen Yesler Wa tlantle Ste Serve while AT THE PICTURE hot Banana Pie. Mix one cup of sifted banana pulp, one-half cup of sugar, one cracker powdered fine, one-half cup of milk, one-half teaspoon of salt, one-third teaspoon of sugar, one egg and one-third cup of cream, MOVING HOUSES Soult Find Interesting Features at the Theatres Listed Below production Grate rind and juice of one-half ‘ ne great ihe Lomraphic avers lemon or two tablespoonfuls of mo- RNE of the age, “The Star of Bethlehem,” the new version of the birth and life of lasses. Mix well and bake in a pie- Chiat. Louis Dimond at the niano. B. pan lined with pastry, as for squash iward Rees, oloist in sacred tie The cracker may be omitted, | “Home of ' of Glass Curtain suns A. Guin at the organ ther firm ple is prefer- pe opie on the vaw ae + ee or Photopia Horan & Va’ and dan Stone & De: Banana Cake, Cream one-third cup of butter, add one cup of sugar, the beaten yolks of two eggs, add cne and three-quarters cups of flour, sifted with two and one-half level tea- spdonfuls of baking powder, alter- nately, with one-half cup of milk; GRAND 3 dand Cherry CIRCUIT 2d and Madison elty ec Bana “The Law of drama of front "a sil big Lux comed: Fic. the farm to the metropolis, “Diary of a Bad Boy” and “Grateful Guthrie & Ingham, fun galore from “AL On Account of a ppery movie, and 3 other photoplays, the ¥ * @ three-part American fer days, by the K.-B. producers, Henry,” two jes, then the beaten whites of the eags. Bake in two layers, put the layers together with a banana filling and cover the top with sifted confec- tioner’s sugar, mixed to a smooth Odeon Theatr A Modern Moving Picture House, Always good picture Ladies and gentiomen are assured of courteous treatment. 1480 First Ave, nea Pike paste with a tablespoonful of lemon a Juice and botling water. bape, Geseers Union “Theatre Place ripe bananas in a hot oven) ausea ay, at Vaton, near P. 0, with their jackets on; let them bake} __ . 5c--Crown--5¢ for eight or ten minutes, until soft First Av. Bet, Madison and Spring and juicy; remove the jackets and serve with cream and sugar and a little nutmeg. “The Driver of Coach, Western bie Part r en's the ‘Deadwood “Jinx's egact Hograph com ‘Beast at Bay,” Blograph com “A. Stern Papa,” come: Path Weekly. “Love's Messong ody. .