The Seattle Star Newspaper, December 12, 1911, Page 5

ee RAR RAE RH Dear Miss Gr Santa Claus? ‘at the Christmas season. ebitdr ehild to but to & me one less fortunate, +teeeeeeeee * REAR ARARARE EEE CAN THE “FRIENDS” LAWFULLY , NEWS O Cynthia Grey’s Letters Is it right to tell a lttle ohfld there is a A —1t w not deceiving a child to tell him that Santa is the spirit of good will abroad throughout the land aepectally Personally, I do not belteve in bribing 2 to be good In order to get presents, aught the blessedness of giving—not just to tte friends, rosents this spirit of good will in no way lessens the fun ee af Claus It is better for the To know that Santa Claus rep- Seeeeeeeeene® ee ee ee ee PERFORM MARRIAGE CEREMONIES? Dear Miss Grey: In the their ministers A--Have you looked up the wo are “to institute, The elders of the not “ordain Friends” select ceremony? to establish,” “to invest with ministerial functions.” Friends’ church they do not ordain Can they lawfully perform a marriage ceremony? What will take coffee stains Out of a datk blue flannel? ALA rd “ordain”? A few of its mountuge their mintster, and while’they may as that word is usually applied, they do tnvest him with ministerial functions, which give him the right to perform tho*marriage | For the coffee stain, first wash with water, followed by sulphuric acld or hydrogen peroxide, itd spirit and soap. AN UNCONVENTIONAL MAN. Dear Miss Grey--1 have & Mttle Dome of my own, but feel lonesome with just the kiddens, and 1 would ke to get a life partner, 1am orer 49, sober, home-loving, econo gical and with some savings. I do not believe in conventional conduct, actions or marriage, but go in for pare, natural life, mating for love /don't take out citixén papers, will/ opposed to} my children be American citizens? | give and receive), sd ean by laws. Shall f stay Gione all my life, or make love ac cording to conventional customs? “a Lap OME JOHN. A--You, Lonesome John, are, swith some others, crying out against the marriage Inw. It is Ike @ per. gon who berates the world when he imself is out of harmony. I do ‘pot believe there will come a time when we will have a more beautiful qarriage ceremony. The trouble ts got with the law, bat with the peo- ple who disregard the most sacred fav in creation, the people simply use it as a means to a seb fish end, and with the people who enter the marriage relation care lessly. When two people live up to thelr promises set forth In that law they do not take the stand fo the divorce courts. When a man eats his wife Instead of “cherish ing” her, or denies her the affee tion Implied in that word “cherish: ed”; when a woman who has prom feed to honor her husband, dis honors him, how can a harmonious Rome result? The people are dis satisfied, ‘and, as is human, seck something to blame thelr dissatis faction on. Our forefathers gave the best In them toward conven- tions, and while they may be car tied too far, one can never go very far wrong in following them. The main thing is to know ourselves, to know where our own strength oF ‘weakness ties, and then we can bet- ter judge how another's character will ft in. If you want to marry Decause you are lonesome and want ® mother for your children, don’t tell a woman you love her and al ways will love her, aud so on. Be honest with her. Tell her she seems to suit you, and you think she will make a good mother. She will at east respect you for your honesty if days eome when you don’t agree. Personally, Ihave much more faith In’ com radeship marriage, from which often the deepest kind of grows, than in all the wishy-washy- cloud-foating ones that ever took place. CYNTHIA SAID SO. Dear Mise Grey—~I have read your column for some time and I've ab ‘Ways stood up for you, but | don't see how I can after this, Time and again you have sald that in this Sdvanced era difference in age ts counted by disposition and charac- ter rather than by years. Now, when I write you and ask your ad Vice about marrying a woman 16 years older than myself, you tell me it would he utter folly. The poor Woman's heart is broken, and I am uphappy all through your saying first one thing and then another. TWENTY.ON A—Usually it relieves such na tures as yours to “blow off,” so I hope you are comvalescing by this time. In the heat of your im petuous youth you have done what $0 many others more experienced have been guilty of. In quoting my remarks on this subject you have told the truth, but not the whole truth. Throw enough ‘rubbish out of your mental garret to see if you don't remember a little phrase tack ed onto Cynthia's assertion, 1 will refresh your memory. Here {t ts “Up to a certain limit.” Only com mon sense, which you will acquire with years, can determine this limit for you. As for this woman of 36 breaking her heart over you, it but proves “the utter folly of it.” It she !s fool enongh to do such # thing she is too young to marry; if you are fool enough to believe it, you are too young—so there you are Two such infants have not the proper stamina to furnish even one ¢itizen to our future race. Go in for hard work and study, my boy, until you are old enough to think sensibly on these things. Regard this “spell” as an “overflow” meet tng of youthful emotion and senti Mentality. It Is an affliction com mon to boys of your age, #0 don't take {t too seriously Dear Miss Grey—-The answers and advice you give are beautiful You show us so plainly just where we stand with our characters. My letter is not on love, but t# from the heart. 1 have been employed where { am working for two years. Now we have a new manager, and 1 a woman who wants to live right, | must make % change, | am 1%, and the only support of my family, and I cannot pay to learn a profession or go to business col- lege. My father is a drunkard, but he ts my father, and is usually in poor health. I have a mother, and & brother who cannot live long. Can you tell me of any place where J could advance? Forgive me if my letter t# long, but It relieves the burden to pour ont a little of it, and Ike many others, I bring it to you. SUNRISE. A.—Will any of my renders give this alfp of a girl, bravely bearing @ wife and/ love | colors are fast; if not, use methylated | man's burden, a chance to live right, and still live? Direct letter to “Sun rine,” care Cynthia Grey, And, Sunrise, send me your correct name and address at once. | think I can tell you a way to cure your father } Dear Miss Grey: I am a young }man and am just married, and am j® foreigner, I have lived here 10 years, and | want to know if I WORRIED. | Ac-Yen. when they live to be 21 | Years of age thoy will be Amerioan citizens whether or not you take! out your papers, provided you are) eligible, which means that you do not belong to a race to whom pw pers are denied. | Dear Miss Grey: answered so many questions, Now I shall test you myself. Tell me the report true that fourtedh im fants’ bodies were found in Beacon who | Hill reservotr when cleaned a few! days past, and that three infants’ bodies were found in Volunteer ree ervoir? AAs tar as we have been able to ascertain there is absolutely no truth in the rumor you speak of | Dear Mise Grey; garnishee a man's wages so long as be makes a payment on the bill once fn three or four months? If #0, how much can they get ench month? OAC | A—Yes, but you are exempt to jthe amount of $100 a month, and they cannot garnishee a man who | sete less than $100 a month. [seek eee ater * * |® “NAUGHTY MINDS . SEE © |* HARM IN SKIRTLESS & i* ATHING COSTUME,” «| |® SAYS GIRL SWIMMER, * nd * |e kt eer nett eee = MISS DOROTHY TAYLOR NEW YORK, Dec. 11.—-Skirts on bathing suits are only in the way |thinks Miss Dorothy Taylor, the |young New York society woman | whose abbreviated costume on Hu |ropean bathing ches last enm |mer shocked many American visit- ors, Trousers’ or trunks are less jelumsy. “Only prudish, silly peo- |ple, with nangh inds, see the jharm in a skirtless bathing suit,” jwhe says. “When 1 go swimming, | go into the water, and I wear silk trousers, or trunks, and ja long silk Jersey, which reaches ab | most to my kne ‘Makes a Gough Vanish ‘Quickly--or Money Back The Quickest, Surest Cough Rem- edy You Ever Used. Family Sup- ply for 500. 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Pinex has often been imitated, but never successfully, for nothing ele» will roduce the same results. ‘The genuine fe guaranteed to give absolute anthy faction, or money refunded. Certificate of guarantee is wrapped in each pack age. Your druggist bas Pinex or will fadly get it for you, If not, send to The Pinex Co., Pt. Wayne, Ind. ox ts fully guavantesd by Bar tel Drug Co. Cdisteibuters), Seattle You have) Cau a doctor! of the best | Hurrah for Princess Eulalie! She Defies ety, | Princess Infanta Bulalie has written & book advocating divorce. King Alfonso of Spain, on hearing jot it, inetantiy telegraphed the princess, ble aunt “l order you to suspend publication until 1 have taken cognizance of the contents and give my permission to pub- oo CER SN = THE STAR—TUESDAY, the King of Spain, lish.” ‘The princess wired back that “I consider myself, so far as my private life is concerned, free |to act as I deem ft,” and to her friends sho declares she will seli her property and leave Spain for. ever rather than suppress the pub- jMeation of her book. "I will not — = i For the benefit of any of ite readers who may need expert and | trustworthy m table Seattic phys medicine, NO QUE NLY THE RINTEO. Dear Doctor: | have been to two doctors; ohe says that catarrh can be cured, the other says it can't, and, being affiicted with catarrh, I hav ied several remedies with. out any success, Will you please jgive me your opinion? J. P. Many cases of catarrh, with prop or treatment, can be cured, but some cannot, thia depending on the severity of the case. Dear Doctor: Will you please tell me what makes my skin so yellow? I am weak and have head laehes at times. I oat and sleep | quite well, but don’t feel like work | LL. M. ‘The yellowness of the skin may be due to either liver disease or j blood disease. In liver trouble the white of the eye is usually yellow | In disease of the blood the color of | the eyes may be normal, The other |symptoms may belong to either disease. In either case. it is neces- sary to consult your physician | pi Dear Doctor: My boy is now 7 years old and always has trouble with his throat in the winter time with what the doctor calis tonsil itis, His throat swells up and gets |sore, and the doctor wants to cut jout his tonsils, Do you think it | would help him, or would medicine jeure him? The doctor says he will | never get well until they are taken jout. Please tell me what to do, and |if you think they should be cut out? C. 8. Yes; {t is the proper thing to have the boy's tonsils removed, (Verse and paper cutting iflus- tration by a child of 6. Your boy or girl can do as well.) Here stands @ jolly snowman, Grinning in the snow Whon the spring sunshine comes He will surely go, | A CHRISTMAS WORK-BOX ical advice, The Star has arranged with @ repu- pertaining to health end NLE THE NAME AND ADDRESS OF THE WRITER ARE GIVEN, HOWEVE INITIALS OF THE WAITER'S NAME WILL BI j Medicine will only give temporary relief, but will not prevent other | attacks, and I believe the doctor tv right when he says the boy will never be permanently cured until his tonsils are taken out. Dear Doctor: You have given j}Kood advice to others—I would ike to ask you to advise me a little, if you would be so kind. I am trow bled with a alight attack of plodrisy on my right side. I have a porous plaster on now, but still feel sharp pains at times. I was operated on for pleuriay 14 years ago, and ft fy in the same place again. Do you think the plaster will help? MRS. F. G. You; plasters are good porous or mustard plasters. ar@ good to relleve the pain, later strap: ping the chest with adhesive plaws| tor, Dear Doctor: I have bad bolls | breaking out on my neck for the past three months: when some)get well others will begin, and [ am not able to get rid of them. What ds the cause of them, and what can I do for them? JACK M. A-—Serles of bolls are usually due to a rundown condition of the system, and sometimes a local in- fection in the skin, The local treatment consists of poultices of flax meal, which should contain sweet off and Iaudanum. A com. press of alcohol and camphor in the early stages 1s good, aud when ‘pus forms, open and drain, =} eas) Here is a pretty gift which n child of 6 or 7, with some guidance, can make very satisfactorily The cardboard foundation ts cov ered with smooth Japanese crepe, chambray, figured chintz, or any firm, thin material easy to handle. It is lined with heavy paper of harmonizing color. The bottom is four inches |square; the sides are three inches high, three and a half inches wide at lower edge and five across the top. The cloth is an inch larger than the cardboardeand the pabor, |lining a trifle smaller than ‘thé |foundation e cloth ts stretched smoothly over the cardboard and pasted on the wrong side with white paste. The paper ts pasted on over the edges of cloth, Use paste only on the HDGES of etotir or paper, never all over. The sides of, the box are laced together with ribbon, ‘The bottom being larger than the sidos will stay in place if put in from the top after the sides are laced together, The box illustrated was decorated with a eriyon design DECEMBER 12, 1911 most frequent cause and the pain # then accompanied by nausea and gastric symptoms, Another type is loften met with In persons of a nervous temperament, due to pro: }Honged mental strain, combined {with lack of sleep and recreation in which an inadequate supply of blood {s sent to the brain blood vou sels, | Hysteria, or nervous headache, prevalent among women, The \\Panic by Woman’s F SPECIAL INTEREST TO WOMEN READERS sxx || day pain is more or less persistent over # certain area or becomes general, affecting the eyen, ears and muscles of the face and neck, Nervous headaches are influenced by the in- dividual disposition, emotional lemperament, occupation «nad gen: oral hygiene. Last year thi ongngod died to love another young woman, cannot got myself tarry me, though I sure be happy. Would it be wrong to set jo the first lover Rd P. You cannot quite set aside the memory of the first love, as your present seraple proves. But you for reasons quite different those for which you loved the first. Happiness is its own best excuse for being, and the world holds not so much t anyone should re- fuse to take bis scanty portion. ing for two yen: T cannot tell water e ¥ a sn long Mees Hihoge plac 0 mpenk of Not yours. You may Itke to think that you are very brave and honest, and very much up to date if you bring up this subject, but you will find that a woman who ventures to take the Initiative in a love affair will be very sorry afterward. 80 = be perfectly conventional—anad wait. Have deen going with » young man for s long time, and he does not pro- Done, though he will pot hear of ore with other men. ail right to ask him to understanding? © M. The man may be timid. or he may bo merely selfish, With a timid man, femininity has its own way of dealing. The selfish man is not worth considering. You must class- ify the man, and tolerate him or dismiss him, according to your own Judgment. Sour Cream as Dressing When your cream turns sour, don't throw {t away, Instead put a cuptul of it In a bowl and set away until cold. When ready to serve oat with an exe beater for a few minutes; If it is cold as it should be it will beat up into a stiff, white foam. Now add to the cream 1 tea- spoontul of salt, a little cayenne, the juice of a small lemon, 2 or 3 teaspoonfuls vinegar, and beat two or three minutes longer. This is a nice dressing for vegetables. Hardens Fast The most careful cook cannot prevent grease falling to the floor now and then. But If she will pour cold water on the spot at once it will harden and prevent tho grease soaking Into the wood or where it has been spilled. | It can then be removed with a } with hot water and soap. ee ee ee ee 2 2 ol Women Offer List of “20 Greatest” CHICAGO, Dec. 12.—IIlinols women, members of the State Equal Rights association, to- day announced a list of “the world’s 20 gr which they offer to compare with liste of men recently se- lected, The women are: Carrie Chapman Catt, Mary Baker Eddy, Franc Wil lard, Harriet Beecher Stowe, Jane Addams, Ella Flagg Young, Emmeline Pankhurst, Florence _Nighting Clara Barton, Elizabeth Cady Stan- ton, Susan B, Anthony, Lucre tia Mott, George Eliot, Eliza. beth Browning, Charlotte Bronte, Margaret Fuller, Sarah Bernhardt, Mrs. Raymond Rob- This picture was snapped on a Washington boulevard. Hoke Smith, Georgia, now wtate. land's cabinet KKH RRR jn ry Poser ee ee eee ee ee ee ets Ts to r bird a # ocutor without bond yles claims | . BEAUTY HINT. %|the will was lost, Mra. Edna Doyle| * noe witestified that she gave him the * Liver Spots. w|keys to the safety deposit vault * Liver spots occur on neck &|where the will was located # and hands as well as face, & * They are indicative of a dis. #] * ordered liver, the remedy for | Would Label * which should be prescribed *| | 55S celal aett'in soesomaenh: © the Bad Eggs) # ed in beauty parlors; alx or &| Cold storage eggs are due for a} * eight oranges per day hetp the #{hot session in th uncil, as some | * cure wot the dealers plan to make a fight | * A bleaching lotion consists w|against the ordinance introduced | # of 8 grains of corrosive sub- &|by request by Councilman Haas. % limate, which is a potson; 1 *|He wants the 8 pro} labeled | * dram of tincture of benzoin, #|a8 cold sto uit, and he wants | % and distilled water enough to %|those who sell such without let * make eight ounces. *|ting the purchaser know they're} * *\cold store nples subject to a ko aR Rw ee ee HK maximuM imprisonment of 30 days | - or a fine of $100, or both | A wor! the God war he ins, the Rev. Anna Howard Shaw, Mme. Curie. floor of the a pla religious services Sundays, and to- accessories to the BRAND NEW SENA- TOR, HOKE SMITH OF GEORGIA, SAH! well as a workhouse, fs pro- posed by Councilman Wardall, and the council yesterday vot ed Wardall's ord the board of public construct the ald of pris where the city owns about 200 acres, enough raised to supply all city stitutions. A ui institution may established ment to the needy aa tk | ALLEGES WILL Charging that he appropriated al $50,000 estate to his own us mony was given by purporte of Emma Starbird to the effect that Frank estate, sharp knife and the spot cleaned | Was alleged to have left her estate determined against Kellogg saw in it an inference that | money to subscribe to call a stop on all expenditures of money except that necessary to determine the feasibility of the | project. Silk Trousers' EW Tre YORK, Dy 12 re} The anticipated amicable settle by Ju John P. Hoyt, reteree im be on,” sho nad ne only lor tre } “i ° . Me omen Swine: T* | Corporation credito: » new as truates a rapes wis Aud my work. Ido not attach ny \who rewlly go in the water when | porns Aitors by Jamon A.| oi, Ames as the third member importance to my birth, because Tlihey swimming go, in the opinion|40ere seems to have been swept ~ cannot help it lot Dorothy Taylor, the young #o- juside following meeting of the = tne great of - nat = tume at Biarritz last summer | COUTt Pi repe ne receive 4 e ay, 1893, during the world’® throw some American visitors into|*¢verely criticised the management | Ci C L [peat of \ 1 = es Ses arageanet Miss Taylor was a passenger on tage plan outlined for the tak-| The city council, by a vote of ~_ ae te ct tho Olympla arriving today on 4 + of the Irondale plant bY |6 to 3, voted to instruct the board K rudish, | silly people with|t@ Metropolitan Trust company of ; naughty minds,” she suid, “That|New York, the principal creditor, | Public works to provide = sah \ costume is a awimming costume, As outlined by Frederick Baus ficient number of cars to give , anger pe t I cannot be bothered with clumsy |", attorney for the New York |every passenger a seat on the skirts when | go swimming, so 1|COMPAny which holds a claim of |longed-for municipal car line. The wear silk trousers, or trunks, and [490,000 against the bankrupt con-|three who opposed the resolution Vv CACLACIME|« tong sik jersey which hey |°PB, preferred stock will be paid |introduced by Councilman Bridle almout to my knees. up at 70 cent and common|son were Blaine, Peirce and When you have a headache don't he people who made the fuss|#tock at ber cent. The claims | Wardall. Kellogg, while voting far consider it & disease, bit just @lare people who wear short skirta|°f labor, amounting to $27,000, will|{t, stated that “it may be imprac symptom—a danger signal of ‘and low cut necks and kiek up their|¥@ tAken up soon and paid in full.|ticable to adopt such a polley turele to warn you. Of waewileinenis Ih the aand.” The plans will be put before the |during the first year.” Blaine said serious derangement creditors December 20, The re-|it was nticipating trouble.” Therefore the most important} Church Annex to Ja’ celvers, Sutcliff Baxter and Lester | Wardall said it was “positively dame thing about a headacho is to Ket] 1Og ANGELES, Doc. 12.--Chiet| Met Were discharged yestorday ' ¢ ” rid of it by finding the cause andl o¢ ‘police Sebastian has arranged |j=auaneemmemanmbes " removing the cause to convert Police Judge Frederick A stomach out of order i® th€|kon's court room, on the second elty hall building, into where prisoners may attend sought an organ and pulpit as scheme. NEW PLANS FOR REORGANIZATION | 5 OF THE WESTERN STEEL PLANT For Men, Women and Children Lennon's Is the store that offers Guaranteed Hosiery. Hence @ gift that you can depend upon absolutely. 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Star-| 11, leaving yles Work to Go On | n attempt to stop all further] kK on the Cedar river dam untii | feasibility of the project was | lost out, Councilmen | dard and Hesketh alone voting | postponing the resolution. was being spent without | rant at present, and he refused | to such a sentiment, | The resolution purported said. MONOGRAM DIES TRICK & MURRAY Office and Factory 72 Columbia St. | showing of Smoking Jackets, Lounging Today's Styles Today. Better Clothing on Credit Come here tomorrow ready to make the selections that you need from our splendid dis- play of Men's Clothing—the famous Bradbury Suits, Overcoats and Cravenettes are here in every new shade and mixture. You pay a little down and a little each week—this is the gpportanity we offer in our most liberal credit plan. BRADBURY SUITS AND OVERCOATS $20 to $40 On Liberal Credit. > Men’s ‘ Christmas Gifts The holiday remembrances that men really lke are offered here. 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