Omaha Daily Bee Newspaper, July 29, 1916, Page 8

R B LY RO 57 WA Mo A, X o nH N BTN = S = N Ice Coffee in Glasses By CONSTANCE CLARKE. water while the coffee is drawing; then pour off and mix with it half a! cup of sugar and one cup of cream; when cold put it into the freezer and freeze it into a semi-frozen state; then pile it up in tall glasses and garnish the top with whipped cream, Serve Ice coffee in glasses is a refreshing ummer drink, suitable for a dessert or for porch or tennis parties, and ‘made as follows: Take four large tablespoonsfuls of [§ freshly ground coffee, put it into a dry _coffee rot and pour over it two cups | the of boiling .water; allow the got to | with any sweet wafers. | stand in a4 pan containing boiling| Tuesday—Fish in Scallop Shells. e e . CEPTIONAL, indeed, for EX Yoa s S, Lo ne does—an: ce Cream with its bountiful nourishment By BEATRICE FAIRFAX. “Why do so many marriages go on the rocks?” said my friend, the doc- tor. And then he answered his own question very wisely. “Because they are not based on anything more last- ing than—love; and love is generally a beautiful dream.” Everybody knows that a sunset is beautiful—but nobody expects it to last forever. We all gasp at the ex- quisit: beauty of a rainbow—but we I know it will fade. So as I listened to the doctor I thought of the transi- tory nature of most beauty and ad- justed mwyself to his viewpoint. “Love is-for most people of cob- web ‘illusion. It is a desperate at- traction formed of a desire for kisses and caresses and thrills. But no sub- aad Cream - The' Special Ice Cream for Tomorrow, Sunday, will be CHERRY NUT e Hundreds of md dulo’n ready to lluppl;.'. % A Carload of Enamelware on Special Sale Tomorrow at the - UNION OUTFITTING COMPANY PR 16th and Jackson Streets - Onyx Turquoise Blue Gray An immense purchase, bought at an extra heavy discount just previous to the big advance In the price of tals, enables us to put the entire shipment on Special Sale for this one day only at prices that are positively than wholesale, Come to this big sale expecting to find extraordinary valu ind you will not be disap. i ted, and, as always, YOU MAKE YOUR OWN TERMS. Extremely 'Low Prices Our Inexpensive loca- tion, combined with our immense buying power enables us to make the lower prices. Teakettles,...31c Take advantage of this opportunity and supply your present as well as your future needs now. g Seventeen-Qt. Dish Pan -3le Come early, while th rtments on you. Pots : R » While the asso ‘at thelr best. | ] ) .'m 0 p -1176 Jufi across the street from the Hotel Rome, y ) by AND JACKSON STREETS T AT white dotted Swiss, with the simplicity of design sel- dom found in ready-made clothes, The flutings are white batiste and the waist is lined with white net. b The Love That Lasts the price is this frock of stantial dinner ever was made of des- sert alone. And no real love consists of an emotional froth. Marriages go to smash all about us and all the time, and when they do everybody ex- claims, “but that started out as a love match!” “Well, of course it did,” went on the doctor, smiling tolerantly. “But it didn't start as anything else. A marriage that lasts has to be ‘based on congenialty. And that’s the only kind of marriage that ever will last.” I remember a line I had read some- where which went like this: “I some- times think true friendship consists more in liking the same things than in liking each other.” Well, true love has to consist in liking each other and respecting each other, too. It must build on a basis of enjoying many things in common and accepting and tolerating the points of difference. A husband and wife may have the jolliest time in the world playing golf together of a Saturday and yet differ entirely in their tastes in music. 1f she likes grand opera and he pre- fers burlesque shows, and they are su&e enough to smile at each other an | widely divergent tastes, they can get a tremendous lot of fun out of their ermit each other to gratify their | THE BEE: OMAHA, SATURDAY, JULY 29, 1916. - SHIRT-WAIST dress of pure linen for her who de- | mands many summer dresses and so must have them cheap in price, but sturdy in material. tan or white, with colored collar and cuffs, Blue, rose, set-on flounces form the white taffeta. Health Hints -:- Fashions -:- Woman’s Work -:- Household Topics ARTICULARLY charming for the woman of faultless taste is this gown of white Georgette crepe. Wide original trimmings. The belt is | mutual toleration and appreciation of their points of difference. Good chums and comrades have a wonderful time in sharing certain amusements and in listening to an ac- count of those they cannot share or in just smiling serenely and accept- ing the fact that a wise providence has varied the human species infinitely. No one has a right to demand that everybody else conform to his own standards. Emotion might be ex- travagant enough to do that. Sane love based on a griendly understanding and a quiet mutuality of respect won't do that. Yielding to a physical attraction or i an emotional stimulation and imagin- ing that either one constitutes real love, is just about the same as it would be to imagine that you can ! spend all your life driving forty miles an hour in an automobile because you like the exhilaration of occasional speeding! : Physical attraction and emotional stimulation fit in beautifully in a love affair where there is liking and ad- miration, too. But they are fairly cer- | tait to wear out after a while, and the thing that lasts is the basic com- radeship which made it a safe and sane ;‘hing or two people to unite their Ives. e Extra special! Late arrivals of Laird & Schober’s Ladies’ $8.00 Ivory, White and Gray (Ching Cing) Pumps, on $4.75 saleab. (. oiiieseen Choice of ten hig\ grade makes « of Ladies’ $4.50 Patent and Kid Pumps, some with $2.85 straps, now MacDonald’s & Kiley's $6.50 tan Russia and gun metal $ 4‘7 5 oxfords for men, now L B S R Howard & Foster’s Men's $5.00 Tan Russia Calf and g, e, S 3,45 Low Out Prices on Low Cut Footwear FOR WOMEN AND MEN Fry’s Clean-Up Sale Laird & Schober’s Ladies’ $6.50 Hand Made Delta Pumps in Pat- ent and Dull welt $4.75 and turn sole Your choice of nine other. lines of Ladies’ fine Kid, Patent and Dull Pumps and Oxfords, values to $4.00, in this : 32.45 ) PR TR R Wright & Peters’ regular ladies’ $5 mps, in patent, kid and dull leathers, with Louis Cuban Bargains in Men'’s Oxfords FRY SHOE heels. Clearance $3 .7 5 Pelee. vl isosng Ten lines of Men’s $4 Oxfords, tan and gun metal, now at... *2.85 Men’s “8.;,!2!.‘ aoo r:‘-.: Black Oxfords— Corner 16th a and Douglas _ | have no room in their full lives for | If a woman makes a doormat of By DOROTHY DIX. I get a great many pathetic letters from old women complaining bitterly that their children neglect them, and that they are unwelcome inmates in their sons’ or daughters’ homes. Certainly nothing could be more ‘tragical than the fate of the mother who sees the children that she has borne in agony, for whom she has toiled and sacrificed and slaved, turn from her without even an impulse of igratitude,_ and fail her \\_'hen' she I needs their love and cherishing in her helpless age even as they needed her infancy. Nor is there any spectacle so re- voltingly hideous as that of prosper- ous as that of prosperous men and | women who repay a mother's devo- tion with thanklessness, who be- grudge a few.dollars to her who has | given her heart’s blood to them, who | ruthlessly kick down the patient, bent | shoulders on which they have climed to a higher social position, and who the one who bestowed life upon them. | The old mother whom nobody wants is a very common figure, and |one whom we may all pity, yet she | has brought her troubles upon her- Isc:li, and her case is worth consider- |ing by every other mother lest the same thing befall her. | In the first place, every woman’s children treat her just as she teaches them to treat her. This sounds like a cruel and brutal thing to say, but | it is true. Every mother in the world | writes her own price tag, and her | children take her at her own valua- tion. herself her children will use her as a doormat and walk ,over her without one thought of compunction. They will think that that is what she 1s there for. But if she makes of her- self a fine and precious vessel they will admire and revere her as they would any other valuable possession, and handle her delicately and ten- derly. The mother who permits her 3- year-old baby boy to speak to her impudently is deliberately raising up a son who will swear at her when ne is grown. The mother who slaves| and drudges around the house while her children loll about in idleness is going to have to take in boarders to support them when they grow up into loaefrs. The mother who goes ragged and shabby that her children may have silly finery, who never exacts any service from them, who lets them de- ride her opinion, is bringing up sons and daughters who will despise her and have contempt for her and neg- lect her when they start forth on their own careers. She is bringing the curse down on her own head and she deserves what she gets, because she had her children when their minds and characters were plastic. and she might have instilled into them respect for her and chivalry love and cherishing in their helpless; Mother Often to Blame For Children’s Neglect to the mother who bore them. There are other mothers who are shrined like saigts in the hearts of their children, mothers to whom their children can never show enough ten- derness and affection. It's all a mat- ter of teaching, of adopting the right attitude toward one's children. It lies with every woman, when her children are babies, to decide how Ithey shall treat her when they are | grown up. | It is the mother's own fault Iher children neglect her. It is also E(he mother’s own fault, to a large degree, if she is an unwelcome in- | stead of a cherished guest in her ! children’s household. There is many an old woman who is a good woman and a mother who has made heroic sacrifices | for her children but who is so dis- jagreeable to live with that it {would take more than mortal pa- tience to stand her. There is the meddling old wo- man, for instance, who can never go into any household without dis- arranging its whole machinery and trying to run it her way. 1f she goes to her son's house she criticises the way daughter-in- law uses her best china every day, the way the children are being brought up, the size of the bills, the number of card parties daughter-in-law goes to, the price of her dresses. If she goes to her daughter's house she nags her son-in-law to death because he drinks beer, and smokes, and belongs to a club, and plays golf on Sunday. In any house she enters peace packs up its dress suit case and flees for parts un- known. And there is if the querulous and complaining old lady who is a liv- ing edition of the Lamentations of Jeremiah, who is always weeping and mourning and complaining all over the place, and is so sensitive and has her feeling spread around her so far that you have to walk on eggs to keep from hurting her, And there’s the argumentative old woman who can never let any sub- ject pass without disagreeing with everybody on earth, and the tyran- nical old woman who wants to force everybody to do her way and think her thoughts, and the narrow and provincial old lady who is certain that the way she did in some obscure vil- lage fifty years ago is the way life ought to be run in the city today. And there are also fifty other varieties of disagreeable and cantankerous old ladies who are home wreckers. Generally speaking, whenever an old woman is not a welcome guest under any roof it is her own faut, for all of us know. plenty of sweet, wise, gentle forebearing, broad- minded old ladies whose children worship them, whose in-laws adore them, and whom we all welcome with open arms. The moral of all of which is that we are mighty apt to get what is coming to -us, and that it behooves every woman in her youth to begin to make ‘herself the sort of a wo- man that everybody will want toward her and a sense of their duty around them when she is old.