Omaha Daily Bee Newspaper, July 8, 1916, Page 12

Fealth Hinds When One’s in Love Ask Nothing BY THE JESTER. i tful | 3 it s lsuppoted 1o, be 3, doubtfu 8 out the dealiyou were contemplating |and you woul question when one gets engaged—I don’t necessarily mean that I am gpeaking from personal experience— as to whether it is wiser for either side to give too many little confessions about their their past life (assuming, of course, that one or the other, or both, of them have a past). Though why it should cause such extensive heart-burnings I never can quite un- derstand. ‘' ‘ere love and marriage an ordinary prosaic sort of business arrangement whereby you sat down and carefully weighed up the pros and cons, it would be another matter—quite irre- spective of the fact that if you did so Beautify tne Complexion Nadinola CREAM The Unequaled Beautifier USED AND ENDORSED LY THOUSANDS Bl Guaranteed to remove E0Y tan, freckles, imples, y " liver spots, etc, Extreme 1 cases about twenty days. ‘Rids pores and tissues of Impurities. 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But it is, I believe, the custom among those who marry and give in marriage to be concerned printipally with the fastness of their respective partners, cherishing a beautiful be- ief (where the said partners are al- leged on the highest authority to have exceeded all speed limits in years past with unfailing regularity) that under their own guidance of tuition the age of miracles is not past. s And after all is said and done this seems to be the most reasonable view to take of the situation. Provided always that the promise to keep to the rails in the future is supported by a reasonable amount of probability that this will be carried into effect. I cannot see how it can-possibly benefit or:should be in any way obligatory on the other party to dig up little past skiddings. Of course, this should hold good for both sides or not at all, ?le mischief of it usually lies in the faét that two people of the same cali- ber practically never unite, The type of man who could give Don Juah ninety in a hundred and a beating gen- erally marries an innocent, trusting little 18-year-old thing (always sup- posing that the combination exists nowadays) who knows as much about life as a pig does of a prayer book. Frankly, then, I don't favor the confession idea unless it be what [ call general confession. By which I mean, don't either of you make out that you have been a plaster saint when you have been as torrid as the next letter to K. Nine times dut of ten she won't like you any the better for it, and ninety-nine times out of a hundred she won't believe you. But that is as far as the confession shall go, It is an awful mistake to go into individual cases. 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It's done you more than a week-end in the country! out 8 fan this day from any one of the deal- Try it t of his or her past| | Miller’s Bay Hotel HERE is a space in life and the seasons when they who live only to see and understand and marvel, hear whispers of what is to be! Then they see the rosy beginning of later beauty. The tenderly colored pink and white blossom is each. aps it is the taking shape for a reality. The old.gray rocks wait bloom., And they lament its quick going. _horhely like us you would last until Doomsday!” the; “If you," mourns the grim, rocky-faced man wh and marvel, as he'watches the brief space of peach-blossom time in a t is a whisper and a promise of richer form and color. Per- \ THE BEE: OMAHA, SATURDAY, JULY 8, 1916. so for a good hundred years!” the babyhood of the rose-and-gold day of the spirit of the delicious for the short hour of spring suit- “If you were gray and say. lives but to see while you see it! little maid's life, “if you were hoary and ugly as I am you would go on -- Fashions -- Woman's Work -- Household Topicsy By Nell Brinkley Copyright, 1916, International News Service. In the hurrying, breathless instant when spring comes and is gone almost before we have lboked into her shy eyes, the girl of 14, a slim little branch of a figure, clear-eyed, flower-lipped, spray of peach-blossom and holds it one, with that beauty transparent an C draws down the ainst her face, and the two are fairy-like that is passing even The grim, rocky-faced man, who sees and marvels, grumbles, “A peach is a splendor and a gift of the gods, put I would keep its flower- ing longer with me!”—NELL BRINKLEY, 3 HOTELS AND RESORTS. —Hotel Marie Antoinette Broadway, 66th and 67th Sts. NEW YORK CITY, BITUATED in the moat con. venient location in town. Mod- ern in every detail, absolutely fireproof, within ten minutes of the leading department otores, shops and theaters. Convenient to Pennsylvania and Grand Central Depots. Rooms With Bath, : $2.50 Per Day Up. Suites, $4.00 Per Day Up. ROOMS $1.80 PER DAY UP, Restaurant of Unusual Excellence. H. STANLEY- GREEN}]/ Managing Director. 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This store is prepared to protect a woman from adverse criticism on her Summer footwear—right royally prepared with shoes that the occasion demands. FR WHOE CO. \Household Hints . Wash a potato, wipe dry and put it in your breadpan.’ It wiil keep the bread fresh for days, Always rinse black stockings in blue water, and they will keep a good color right on to the end. To make ironwork proof against rust, heat it until it is almost red hot and then brush it over with linseed ojl. This makes a varnish which, pn- like ordinary paint or enamel, does not chip off. To tighten . cane-bottomed chairs wash the chair in a strong solution of soda and water and let it get thoroughly dry.” When dry it will be found that the cane has shrunk and the seat tightened. 7 To make a good furniture polish scrape two ounces of beeswax into a pot or jar, add as much spirits of tur- pentine as will moisten the whole and the eighth part of an ounce of resin. 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The following recipe is new, and makes a :empln’_ salad: Take three chopped fine, the sliced pulp ne ‘grapefruit, six canned pears, cut intp emall squares, three stalks of celery, half a cup of chopped wal- Jyst What to Do When Man’s Love s Growing Gold It is not until a man realizes that he is tired of a girl, and never real- ly was in love with her, that he also realizes how foolishly he has acted. It amazes him to find that he has gone so far as to be considered the fiancee of the maid, whose whole at- tention has been given him for a long time—for many of these affairs re- sult in an “understanding” that is the equivalent of a proposal. Then, not knowing how to get out of the tangle in which he has become entangled, he falls back upon the unmanly, Then, not knowing how to get out of the tangle in which he has become enmeshed, he falls back upon the un- manly method of neglecting the girl | he has hitherto courted and flattered. True, this is little more foolish than the former recklessness of his con- duct, but it causes a good deal of suf- fering to a woman who has loved in- {nocently and too well, and is de- | serving of better treéatment. = e/ Having got no real reason to give \ for his coldness, except the bold j statement that he has made a mis- take, he shirks the issue. He knows that if he tells the truth' he has to™* . | account for many statements that 1 | seem to prove the contrary. ¢ A man's methods are often coward- |ly in dealing with the woman for whom he has ceased to care. He | tries to force her to break with him | by giving her ample grounds for com- | plaint, but a woman is usually too jgenerous and too loving to take ad- | vantage of liis devices. Her cry is: | “Why are you so changed?” | She cannot understand why the lover who has left her with a fond good-by can go away and put her out of his mind. She writes him frank open letters, the pleading, im- ploring ones, begging all the time that he will tell her what she has done to vex him. He cannot tell her . without putting all'the blame on him- E self, without showing that he has not acted a manly part. But even if he could and is not disposed to, his con- duct should show her that his love is dying. The signs are unmistak- able. Is there a woman who, being thus treated, does not know the truth at the beginning? She does, but sM will not admit it. Yet all the time, ™ 3 from the moment when the first doubt arose in her mind, she has known it " There is only one thing' to do when a man's '],ove is dead and that is to let him go. To “win back his love” is next to an impossibility. It 'is a pathetic sight to see two people, one madly in love with the other, and | the other unable to.reciprocate. And, yet “try to fogget” is the only advice that can be offered. A man shows it plainly enough when he has ceased to love. - Ap- pointments cease to be sacred, he cannot summon up courage to write letters, he is moody and silent, and shows in his manner all that his ton- gue refuses to say. If he can get an excuse to go off somewhere away froni his fiancee; he endeavors to bring her to an under- standing of his views by preserving - a strict silence. Should she not. see things as he wishes her to, she may be angry with him, and he will see this pre- text to bring about a rupture between them. Anything to save him from confess- ing that he has not acted well, Usual+ 1y the disappointments of women are the outcome of man’s infatuation and false promises. Were a woman not so honest and \ so blind in her love, she would seplf & through many_of the protes!ati#’; i of affection made by man, and know his vows for what they are worth. The silliest thing a woman can do is to cling to the man who wants to have done with her, and to try to bring him around to reciprocate her affections. If he is a sentimentalist he may be influenced, and vow that he really does love her just to please her. But this will not alter his affections. He will shirk the marfiage and put it off. Should he go so far as the altar, she is no better off, for doubtless, after marriage, he will state plainly that he does not care for her, and that he only married her because she worried him into it. Certainly men have queer ways and should be brought to took about their misde- meanors. It is not wise to surmise that a man’s love is dead and treat him ac- cordingly. Be sure of it. Bring him to the point of saying so. It will pay you to do this, much as you may regret the parting, for a man in love can be gentleness itself, while he who Froit Salad By CONSTANCE CLARKE, loves not can be cruel as the grave. nut meats. Mix well together, a range in a pilé on platter with thiclg mayonnaise dressing. ressing—Two three-fourths of g {) cup of thick mayonnaise, add two tae bléspoonsful of lemon juice, a spoonful of paprika pepper, :ir;s‘sm hon I!he salad, using a ube wi ain found -pi rate' the tog. il dw«A (Tomorrow—Little Neck Clams) |