Omaha Daily Bee Newspaper, May 11, 1916, Page 8

i ¥ e THE BEE: OMAHA, THURSDAY, MAY 11, 1916 Hled‘lth Hints - Fashions -- Woman's Work -- Household Tgpz'ce Uarried dappine: \Proper Ettiquette for the ’W(' Should Teach | Club Hidden Temple of 20,000 Buddhas Sweet Sixteen \Ban on | Poor Son-tn-Law ., . S . v ; - v By BEATRICYH FAIRFAN, ] y m ” 4mbltll)/lb (rirl ()HT (711[(17‘()71 Garrett P. Serviss Writes Concerning the Amazing Pyramid Structure in el SR ,;(l AFW /.S/(l/\(' Ty A MAN Etiquetts (s too often considersd as a | Central Java, Lost to Sight for Centuries mothara—and one father—have responded By DOROTHY DIX The ambitious gir it ahe would pre Systet of -good manners to B ‘““'mmm’\ —— {0 Y tention @ 1 sweet pix | Probabl th mur:v unpleasant quarter R Sipeun 3 One of thote WhO |... eniy sfter & person Has reschad the | L e ' e #1A1 Lo Have So.miich evidence that, | of wp ndur that & man ever spends is would avold matrimony. There is b ] i ries of five rectangular ter ah ful well hidden away, whe 18{ w0 (0 which he faces a cold and unro & 10 bo sald fisgainst he paclty for'|Age when he or she miay appear ir | 1 , bordered with massive stone ;ln”l‘ I with vs Meveral of the.girle have| b father and axks him for his ving, which donbtless 4 not inferior oAt dances or at dinners, in the recep 4 Be gecte @b B s ,\ frequent. In- |, guad for wugaestions an to how to start daughter's hand | nage, Of course Ay other womarfa. But her mind fs wet lyon wonry o in the partor, Etiquette has | / z ckobe sl Bt b '",“' i n Eweot Bixtoen cluf It there are extenuating efreumatances o novelty of mairinge wears off, ambi- | " : ; ; “h o hi Bbls & mathe: M1 oy : I mather thipks it o offer the girl & country place and bn reasserts itself, a5 an important, per- | fined parents will not wait until their ! ‘I" NG 4 '”'“”"‘ 'Y R CUFIOUR | vo nice for ma to sinrt u Bweet Bixteen tomobiles—the situstion in robhed of aps, the main tor in her scheme of | children become youths before they in po By STRRINSG. DN ih 1t would ndyino us how o run peh of fta terre and the parental Kistence, when, of course, husband and | s inte ther he clementary priu P Sl o o5y ';h . I o - " by u fartha L Wil be very | ylausing ts a foregone conclusion yme suffer ciples of politeness o8 M‘n’?‘i J m.‘, - ..,‘ I ,“,‘ much plsased If you will ;give o fo o | I, howeve he is sn Impecunfous A man s, or pretends to be, pleassd | ¥ ; N s o s e # wenttbne na 10 how would have u ith with nothing to give his wife but fth & woman's miphition~when he |x | There is po doubt that the early train i DN U8 TR SA0R O 18 WAL, (NGNS | gy and wear our hair, et the love of hix heart, and the work of Br lover; at that fime he w even | ing of children, small children, in fre % ' "' . ""“" -yl ”M\‘\ 1 hope that she and il the other girls | nis he would face & Katling §9 bomise that his strong arm shall put | quantly neglected in this respect, Thera /] PRSI T D sy | WHO wrote for auggestions nbout Kweet | with leas trepldution than tne old man's brih fts utmost strength to help her up | can ha no question that » great deal oo ’ hone Sgosad it Loy arad With's | siwan ciibs Wil really Beop thelr In- | stern inmut Young man, ecan de hill to fame. But wfter marringe the | mueh overindulgence has hecome the 1 o iha pain | 1476 I the fden and form hes ul support my daughter in the styla she ife seldom, If ever, Tinds in her hu fashion, with the result that often relie wurroinaiy 1t_oukht to be n ver simple matier 108 hean acelistomed to live and such a helpmate, She finds instend |gees familles where the overspolled and B o pe e m‘,jh’m‘y, Firat of all, why doewiv't the 1h:yenr-old "” eourse, & ‘father {4 doing no more Ant If he does not comoel her 1o aban- | adored Nttle dariings rule the household i onms from Buddha's 1ife and. from the | 871 &6t her slders tha axample of than his duty, and Is strictly within h o0 her cherlshed dreams stralkht away, | hoth parents smiling wigh foollsh delfght B cosbration of the mysterien of his ya. | O I dresul If whe t combina Kl when he 08 to. proteet:: hia B will, by his coldness and indifference | an r tiresome and objectionahle | o Koo kense and good taste and modest hter from grinding poverty, but Adeavor to atarve her smbition slowly | faults and sowing the seads of many a 4 E she will hiardly nesd ma to suggest that | when he goes further than that and ot ut surely 4o dea bitter harvest d B PR INCER Boe e e ”f” W 10w aut blouren ana ver eor materinl | jocta to a worthy man simply becauss ha No doubt 1t In often through jealousy | Such Indulgence in a great mistake. To § |aree figure hosonlBiesit nO LN | and akirie peant, where they ough can't offer a girl @l the luxuries to Wt the husband has this contempt for | most young mothers a little child i a ? e A Tornaathd & | ¢ulli 'and whaurdly short (it ah 08 the | which she han boen accustomed he | Us wife's plans, for, as w mule, the am- | yery precious charge, worthy 1o he Z Atues slons number\ i, Perhaps 0o | wpush a2 o ‘woman aven while she s & | g too far Itlous woman marries a mart exactly the | wrapped in fondest love and surrounded gy R R it hotooo MY | ithie &irl) are partioulasly out of keep is demanding that tha young man intithests of herseif-—n man who, having [ by all that can contribute 16 ita happ) RitTesanee Snd loncred The) MaBies I (nb with. ‘ewhe) Rixiaen At In where ha s lesving off, -1t he o exalted drosms Iz own 1o convert | negw, Hut it should be realized that the 4 g na Jo grown up so very long taken him many years of hard work to sto realities, fa to understand hers, | paifishneas of love sometimes prodices s e torrnin ittt waite, | Uttle air) for sueh n whort time that the be able (o give his family the hury r 0 who decidedly objects 1o hix wite | grave consequences and one of them may et thens contain | @y of plling youth's halr on top ot it | which they now Ifve, and it {a absura #ing & more important pereon that Wim- | he selfish children, Parents shouid, if ower and Iarger of thess comtalns | nead and having 1t droused to ipe age(to expect any young man (o have A0t in the works At all posaible, personally teach thelr very f (hirty-tvo, the naxt (wenty-four, 8 the | (s.x vary pathetio one, indeed ashiaved . Cugt MUkl sNacees Lindor theso clrcumstances how' ean the | young children, and as soon as a ehild e e rioted i Sopam | Than. give vour akin a chance, girin.| It the youn man has a bank account Ife bo happy? At almont the commence- | can understand it should be taught con e and roofed With flane | Don't covan Jt with commetion and clog to match the giri's futher, he ia hound bent of her wedded Jifo wlie In face to | gideratipn for others, This is, In fact JUTERS woking through which the | up 1he pores, which tairly tond trink | to have inherited It. He hasn't had timr Mo with two crossronds of chadce. To | thy eynote of all good ving. The bo o i rantn ¢Atih shrine: | In sunshine and freah air. Don't pile your | to make 1t for himaelf, Looking at the i NG G Rt B flgure of Buddhn, Crowning the whole | halr on top of your hend, but lenye it matier from a business point of view Ml have to fight her way unalded alone | jnyariably Kind and good to his wifs ] Ia i gleantieangobn, rasembling a cupola, | down in a hraid or loop 14 do Ita healthy #nd with reference to the girl’s hresd DAL lonely rond, slipping-with every | hut who i 1o & ve him hix first lessons (0 feet in cireumfarence, Thin, It has bsen | growing jn air and sunlight, Be just as | And hutier, It Is n strange thing that it tep she wina-further ani farther away |jn solf-govegnment? Hix méther, of thought, was the most Important part of | natural as ever you can doesn’'t oftener strike fathers that the som the man whom she had aworn i the atructure, In ita conter 1o an empty | 1U's n good habit to get Into, and” you young man who has successtully held e, Monor and ohe Obedience (s an absolite necessity, and hamber, ten fest desp, which sesms to | will look much prettier than wher o the same place In an office or a store Mer only alternative abandon her {4 whould itly bt -flrmiy . taught nve heen dntanded Lo contaln som graat | aré an absurd 1ittie painted imitation of | for four five yearn ane saved up n herithed droamy, he and plans; and {0 with the smacks that bring tears Into nd oreclous relic A rather ordinary type of woman thousand or two dolinrs while “clerking aitle down to the commonplace dutle the Mittle mife's eves, but with kindness All the work upon this wonderful strue Ko much for the appearsnce of the girl It n thousand times hetter mal B et Wike )WI e ture fa of the most alnborata kind. Tte | Who Is sweet sixteen and proud 1o show | for any girl than the youth neve Ber convee Se antioe e il i PRIPRICE AT N peteht to the cupoln in 115 feet, The four | it enrned n roin fe ho know I trtot be. chosen: no hall mass: (1) Lo Darents ens. bevshowll aven orlon of stalrways which lead from base | Now about a club, At your age 1 pe. nelther how to make money nor to sve ren will meet the exigonclen of the came {1 tirst. dawn ot Intailigance. As soon to summit pass, as niready sald, Mhrough |1onged o two One wan called the | It. and whose one star performance in L1f she docides to climb upward and J % bables are able to st at the table they doorways In the successiva tarrace wally, | JUhlor Mualeale, There were sixteen giria | 1116 conwlats In having heen born the son inward alone, n world of suffering I ] o e A0 R e nands Whils # and aach doorway t« spanned with a step- |10 I, and we met st one another's | of & #ch man ors, Indeed. Vor I deprived of all | poos iy waid and not anatch at things ped arch whose keystane {a ornamented holses on Baturdny afternoons, None of | Only too often, however, the well-to-d e old idealn of love, and she has had | RTAEE 8 SR BRE T AR dn With & grotesqua mask, Ainong the seenes | U8 Were “artistes,” but each one of us |MAn turns a cold and unfriendly eye o b #ive up il the plana for the new Jite § SOBTREL THE B8 (R 008 em ot represented in the innumerable bas-reliefs | covld play a little or sing a bit, or per- | the sultor for his danghter who tells hin hat were made under the Influence of § N Are processlons, sea fights and batties, | DAPE mANAKS & tune on (he banjo oy | that he has nothing but a good sltuatio) ourtship's glamor, And In thesn efp- | 19110 YOy il g Lt un well ae religlous ceromonien mandolir with a chance of doing = belts umatances it {n hardly to be wondered | “*1/'er the hatler ; ¢ The edifics han besn much damaged | We studied the Ifves of the composers | Father sternly remarks that when he I'here 16 no doubt that very great harm i RSN SOVPite vhoum dn. her Htacd T wouns childran. by the. fool § by earthquakes, which are fraquent in And taukht ourselves to nppreciate good | married le was able to support hi Rt A ke & hard bud. unfesling { L kel of teasing, n the first plase Java, but It has managed 1o survive fn | MUMC And on hollduys wo used (o go |In the atyle in which she had been a yoman, the fallure of her marringe hav- | Wh DAV of toasing A i AT srprising complotenass, The Kedoa val. |10 hospihla and give snteriainments for | customed to 1ive g stunted the better and higher in-{' s B T Bl A g i siek ehll@ren, - At our home parties we Ha forgeis that he took his bride B vinaxtiood conuideratlon for the feelings of others R —— had simple refrashments, and when we |n cottage or a humble fiat while he ex £0n the other hand, to give up her am- | ond children who are laughed at and went out weo gave simple entertainments, | pocta hik son-in-law to fnstall hix Asug Mt will not mend matters; the | chaffed on every oceaston are apt to be mpilcity s ol ANRLY 484w Thances are thut whe will grow equally | come shy and awkward. Foys, then, g el B L O Bard, Wor that moment, If it 1s worthy [#hould be taught early to treat their happy lims, oo Studying muslo earn The name of ambition at all, Is part of |mothers and sisters courteously; to do o1y didn't Joave us mioh’time for run rhelf, and its sovernuce from her lifa [#1l that in asked of them promptly and pnk after hoys and worrybis about S paintul as If it were n limb pleanantly y should not have one Aastes And (nouied ‘ £ A man docs not realize this. Tecauss | manner for home and another for their The other club to which I belonged nt Nis wife does not rall and storm he [friend's home. The same sukgestions s & Wundsy Afterncon Walking hinks she has given herself up to the | may apply to girls, but In u different b, s wire obiy | sin Sommonplaces of domesticity, ‘and con- | way. In thelr case the early Inculen us, and each In turn acted as host yrnlulnlu himself that he has knocked | thin of habits of gentieness, 'm\n—nmlun‘ planning a five-mile walk and bringing SIL the “ampbjtious nonsense” out of her. |and unselfishness (s most desirable | er five friends home for a simplo tea : A cooking club seems to me n partien Tar) worthy institution for Bweet Nix teen (o consider, A reading club with a mapped out coursa of classical study, or n sewing club elther for charity or with b .t o # charitable Intent to learn mending and Ba y Bl es Fh‘ (o take some of the burden off her's : shoulders would do splandid) too, aythlngs Tt wauld be very easy for the wehool Kirl of 16 to Interest me kindly teacher g i in her profect And get concrete : nuggestions from her. The girl of 15 whe brRAS maching seon, Ten than form n walking elub or a mood ih Rt B er B reading elub, But whatever your plan peeping through the rosy re to have wame definite thing around with Which to ecenter your inte ast, and he mure to have your program the time-—above all Hmpie and: unpratentions others —when his stomach s : B S ———————— sensitive to the tinlest shock, This is the time when the wrong food will bring on fevers and wakeful Jnights, Byt he will come through the teething time without trouble if his food is right, Nurse your baby if you can. 1f you can't, make his teething natural and easy by giving him the mearest thing to mother's milk — These Ave Two of the Rectangularly Framed Sculptures of the Buddha, in High Relief | There Are Thousands in All on the Walls of the Temple at Boro-Boedver, in Java [ Adv Fach Sculpture Tells a Chapter of the Story of Buddha. The Picture Above Is One of the Typical, Ornate, Stepped Arches of the Temple. Falrfax By GARRETT P, SERVISS, rounded by four ancient ea TN in which It lles, presents one of the solidified lava form the material from seautiful tropleal scenss Dear 3iss 0 el RE . : peautiful troplenl scenes in the , 1 The recent supposed diacovery of the | whioh ‘the atone blacks of the femple [ world, 1t must have been & vast center | i, Mis son ane ..rfi‘; of |,u-|rmk.v ’«l..AH‘.H w|-.] : 7Y irsstar - 6 the | e rimage n the days of the glory of |have known eact religlous syvatem ¢ 1ddhism, which has | o ¢ Nhortl ter o § E ep-pyramids of Egypt. 1 A [the great pyramid-temple, and that | vy (A Complete Food —Not a Milk Modifier) 3 #pread so far over the easthrn world, | uunvo bane which mensures 12 foet on | ah s d l‘ b nflf it | aBov of told i Don't force your baby to struggle Cow's milk, purified, from cloan dels ‘;“;“I o “‘ , }“ X - A alde. About ten feet above the hase |turles 5 a striking confirmation hap i through his hardest time on raw ['*% 18 the basis of Nesti€'a~with the uddha," Boro Budor, or Boro Boedoor, | inare s a broad platforn 8 | Charles . Johnsoh's line: “Susely the | 1. Tecent) ow' ™ A tough curd modified, with the baby's pyramid temple, In the central part the first ster Above t} Roodh ki cows milk, Don't try'to force his neads added. It comas 1o you in & pows the Island of Java. It {s the finest mon- | o s s iegs 1 owna of this world are past |sproad t i little stomach (o struggle with the der-packed in air-tight cans. No hand -t ession, each diminishi mfey \ lination ¢ indigestible curd of cow's milk |u..nv--'n’ You add only fresh water ument of I architecture In ox Bon't o > and boll, 1t ean't spoil Istence, and though partly ruined L Xpose your babyo typhoid “gend the coupon now for sample can, stil very impressi and consumption and summer com - ‘ PRI RPEP P ; plaint. Raw cow's milk so often arfous dates have been assigned to brings all these, and cow's milk NESTLE'S FOUD COMPANY 18- foundatios of tham golng. bos Ay 00 years, Other estimate nlone does not give him the right 204 Woolwerth Building, New Yerk | % much as DAYY substances to build a strong cut these figures In half. But, at any body. rate, the at temy was ent - The good in cow's milk—the part lost sight and forgotten . ” ) o Food, but the dangers are not, Addrens.. i s i - Tt stands o an elevatl d Ant City . f A beautifub " Wit fo A N By CONSTANCE CLARKE » AVERYONE I8 tamiliar with the | small pleces of butter, then more < usual dish of macaroni and | macaroni, and se on, ustil the dish » choase, but (hIs werlation really | s flled. Pour over the whols, & oup means entire novelty f y | of white sauce. Ourulsh the top of 3 ham is 18 I tranaformed he macaroul with » 't hard Put one pound of macaron! inte & | bolled sgss and grated cheses, Rerve e o lmflkl‘\! in th stew pan contalning: doubis the | with (he following saues In & sauce . Stockinet Covering amoust of waler necessary 1o cover | hoal This heepa in all the rich » macaront, ad ) tahieapoonfy Put Intg t » ) 1 ' Jokes and all the fine flavor ‘: ,.“ ‘.,‘. . .: I.‘,‘ .fl ‘". “.\‘.1: ....-A\: v“..l.’nln‘h::. s :r:. :-l“l:’l’;’ . Star Ham reaches you in the Stock- four cloves, and boll elghienn | toss, twe chopped enlons. & sall k& inet Covering, clean and sweet. As you use it, 16 twenly minute . woll, | apoontul of paprika pepper. the Julee the Stockinet Covering pro- ras TR A layer in | of one lemon, tour tableapoontule of tects what remains. TY.\U last "“o“.u‘°.“~' the bottom A wallbuttered eas | good butter; siir together U1l bafing, .. slice will be as moist and serole ¢ thenware dish. sprinkie | add & pinch of salt, reboll siraln and : : rich-flavored as the first : [FRATT VR e, over (his, some grated cheess. and | use Buy Armour's Swar Bacow The Navional Hrsabiash L e 1) Wilsin b i o S T L 1 To.morrow==Apple Pork Pie ) No a ] A New Dish—Macaroni Italian N i son and 1 ha n 1y fouy oy, Intended 1l boarded monsha wce to Lovelorn By Beatrice Fairfar, other all our live of his I i Mt tenit Chaperan Falr KAR: \e app: ter In n fine manslon. He gnores 1) fact that his wife fn their early doya Ald her own ecooking and made froeks, while hie demands that his davgl ter's husband shall provide her with n retinue of servants and millinery fre her own Parls Of course, In trying to keep his dnug ter from marrying a poor truly aays that he has nothing but he happiness at heart, He belleves that she will be perfectly miserable lving In less style, with fewer clothes and plainer surroundings than thoss to whish she (s pccustomed That depends on the gir! It #he in the kind of a girl who In wtuffed with chiffons and whose & will go to Paris when she d'es, she never he Indiscreet enough to fall in love with a man who fan't strictly elig) from & monetary point of view, She just an fneapabla‘of loving a man without nose ax one without a big bank aceonnt But the girl whose true heart heats Just an falthfully snd warmly under ve vet as it would under homespinm, whose the father nar eyen, unhlindea wealth and fashic | %66 the man and not the positien ana wi I willing to exchangs a 1ittle of the tinsel of moclety for the fine gold of onest love, knows what she 18 about when she pleks out her own particul Tack amA refers him to papa And papn makes the mistake of hin 11 when he refuses hix blessing for ne be ter reason than that the young man ea support the girl tn the style in which 1n mccustomed to live There Is aleo this other point of view that If the girl's father has rafsed wit xurfous tastes that ahe not be py on the income that ordinar esnfil 1 an offer ha fond and foollsh parent to provide ) wit lowry that will offset her dema fe That ne way around the diffieult peet the wn t to hur L ' travagance a wanef the daughte A ' | AN It ¢ avera ! 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