Omaha Daily Bee Newspaper, September 22, 1915, Page 9

THE BEE: OMAHRA, WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 22, 1915, . [ LThe Bees Home Magazine Page Parents Seldom A Honeymoon!"” 3% By NELL BRINKLEY Justified in In- terfering with Paris Autumn Styles ¥ lmmerban @ oo Copyright, 1915, Internl News Service ’n"n Only When Character of Boy or Girl is Weak or Bad Should Father or Mother Try to Prevent { Marriage— iy DOROTHY DIX. | The question of how far parents ars Justified in interfering in their children's matrimonial affairs 1s one upon which youth and age will never agree All mothers and fathers think that their years, their wisdom and experi- ence in lite make ) them the best [Y judges of what sort of women and men their sons and daughters should tharry. And fin proof of their con- tention they point out that in the intries where fathers and moth érs do arrange ) their children's . marriages there is g rhuch less: divorce than there is in ? 4 America, where i h young folks manage the matter for them. | e aelves. This view of the matter 's one in which irdependent young America will never acquiesce, In this country marriage is not entered into primarily as an estab lishment for the perpetuation of the family. It §s an experiment in individual happiness. We want to pick out our own husbands and wives, and at least have the pleasure and excitement of making our own mistakes To my mind there are three cases, and | three only, in which parents are justified | in interfering in their children's love af-| fairs and breaking off a match If they can. If parents know that a man is im- moral, or a drunkard, or lasy and shift- less, they are right to,move heaven and earth to prevent thelr daughter from marrying “im, and thus bringing certain misery upon her own head. | Or it parents know a girl to be care less in morals, of shrewish temper and extravagant and slovenly, they do no jnore than their duty in trying to save their son from wrecking his life by marrying her, [ In each case it is a matter of the char-| noter of the individual to which the parent has a right to object. Nothing flse counts, and the father and mother | far nxceed their privileges when they object to their son or daughter choosing # wife or husband because she or he bappens not to be of the same religious faith, or shade of politics, or have the| pecullar colored hair that they admire. | Reiiglous bigotry should have no piace in this country where people come be- Gause It guarantees them. freedom to | worship God according to the dictates of | <onsclence, yet just mow I know of a heart-broken young woman who has | been parted from the man she loved be- | ¢ause her mother does not believed in ‘'mixed marriages.” The young man is | all that one cquld desire in a son-la-law | éxcept his faiin, which doesn’t please the girl's mother—and which is none of the ald lady's business In such a case a young couple are As In the gown to the left, Callot be- A touch of fur is requisite even on the Heves in the future of the luce frock. | oo™ ol " uoa suit A band of Two very full and flaring flounces ripple over a foundation skirt of plaited tulle, | 9041 beads the turned-back hem of this and a deep cape of the lace ads beauty | Smoke gray velveteen sult, matching the to the back of the plaited bodice. shawl collar and cuffs of the same fur. i By GARRETT P, SERVISS, | “With the growth of the larva it bo- (cracks and begin their forbidden feast. comes necessary from time to time to en- | The best way to protect garments is to largo the case both in length and cir- [begin in April or May and beat and | " n% | cumference, and this is accomplished in [brush them thoroughly every few days i:)';";;zl'"':: s ;:."";:_‘“‘:.f:;‘m:;.'l a very Interesting way. Without leav- |before'they are put away in tightly closed i i B by |ings ita case the larva makes a slit half |receptacles, with camphor, tobacco, naph- . | way down ome side and inserts a trian- |thaline, cedar sprigs, or some of the other |gular gore of new material. A similar | “repellants” commonly used. But if any nsertion Is made on the opposite side, |ekss have been left in the garments they and the larva reverses itself without wil hatch, and the larva will promptly leaving the case and makes correspond- 'sct to work. The surest protection fs cold ing slits and additions In the other half. storage, the temperature never being al- The case is lengthened by successive lowed to rise above 4 degrees Fahren- additions to elther end. Exteriorly the | helt. case appears to be & matted mass of smail particles of wool; interfoly it is lined with soft whitish silk. By trans- forring the larva from time to time to fabrics of different colors the oase may be made to assume as varied a pattern l | Ome of man's oldest companions on th \lonesome, moon-chased earth Is the silent, ! ghost-white wings of these fluttering creatures of the twilight have haunted human { U f ‘I I I ’ [ iy s ; habitations from | i ’,,’ L ) I st : ~ e i N Catsl v VA &3 The patriarch - S ” . Job, who was & great wool raiser, knew only too well their ravages when he compared him- self to ‘‘a garment that moth e/ en:-n .ll is prob- larva usually attaches its case to th able that they Insinuated themselves into | ™Ment on which it has been feeding, but th ky caverns of the prehistoric cave |SOmetimes carries it elsewhero to be at- | dwellors. "and uxurinted in the firet fur |tached. About three weeks later the | People all over America testify to the - | tranaformation Is finished, and the moth remarkdble values of diamonds pur- DIAMONDS as the experimenter desire: When {t feels its end drawing near the ar garments. | " “The fondneas they exnibit nowadays ©Mmerses, ready to lay egga for the pro o Chased from us, and are unanimous in thelr praises of our Easy Credit Terma. for tallor-made suits and other expen-| Juction of & new generation. ¥OU can be one to Profit by our extraor- slve products of the loom,” says C. L.| The eggsare lald in April, May, of | dinary va'ues. Do not hesitate to ask Marlatt of the United States Bureau of | JUhe, according to the latitude, us to trust you, for we want the ac- Entomology, “is simply an fllustration |Se'tain warmth is required, and u count of every honest person. I \ | fopliah to let the prejudices of a narrow- | minded parent wreck their happiness. | i She belongs to the days of religious in- | tolerance and persecution, the rack and | thumb-screw, when people thought it plous ang pleasing to God to torture | other people into thelr way of think- | ing. The young people belong to a broader and saner and more tolerant ¢ra of human thought, and if each is willing that the other should seek }Heaven in his or her own way they $hould refuse to be parted by an old woman's fanaticlsm. If there’s nothing {o object to in a man except the church e goes to he is certainly a matrimonial prize that any girl should grab without stopping to argue It out with her mother. Another stumbling block In the path | | of true love is the family tree. Fathers und mothers, and particularly mothers, f feel that they have a perfect right to | - = ? of their abllity to keep pace with man in|they are deposited directly on the gar- break off a match if their son or daugh 4 ; - . his development.” ment that Is to serve as the foraging ! ter is going to marry some girl or bo)" | Like the etill more cbjectionable, im. |fleld for the larva. The eggs are scur- Who tan't in their particular litue soclal | pudent snd dangerous uanger-on, ",,‘:}uy \m.m: to :ha naked eve. Sometimes Pet: This la ridiculous’ in ‘demecratio | What is a honeymoon? “A honeymoon is & the tenderest and cholcest fades the fastest. That |NoUs fly, the clothes-moth doga man's| 06 06 debosfied n crevices of trunka Amésica, where every man makes his | . footsteps wherever he goes, embarks with ANd boxes, In which garments have been lown place in the world, and is con- | lo0ely, frail swing of silvery gold hung in the sky, is the way of the world. But there will be 10ts of | him on his voyages of trade or discov-| !a/d away, and as soon as they are born tinually changing it, so that .mxe..[ far away from everybody, where nobody can hear, other honeymoons after this one!" ery, crosses oceans with him, and offi-|'he larvae creep in through the minute Thus it appears that clothes-moths Th‘ F lk Wh w ld awhile, swinging their feet over chasms that they upon it that makes the bride grow carnation pink |came over with the pligrim fathers or In roiks 0 ou | ess—Ladtes' Ring, mother has the gift of prophecy she | where nobody matters at all, and in the honey- | What's in the honeymoon besides the man and | C/&!ly helps him to inhabit any new lands A bitter old maid of my acquaintance, never could cross with thelr feet on the earth, when she catches it with her enchgnted eye; bon- some of the early white settlers on this| wolid Loftis mount| never knows where the poor boy she moon, drifting, uncaring, lost to the world for the bride? *Oh, new baggage with a few mame | nar oY, find | Weigh [ Who ekes out a bare Iiving as a type- | snuggle the bride and the man she's gone with net boxes, railroad folders, rice a-leakin' out; °°ntinent, for Mr. Marlatt speaks of their | ncrease elg t keeps her daughter from marrying is going to end. early introduction into the United Stateh, ki ’ pookly oy 7 vy i e which seems to carry the implication| SIMPLE DIRECTIONS BASY TO “’”“"‘m'";‘: ol ‘““:‘d :h:n .h: :‘ » Why s a honeymoon there in the sky for only for a little bungalow, a treasure chest full of that they were not here orixinally. But.| ' ppin men and weimce Mhat big, hea oy s e vas a | . = rty i | alittle while? Why does it go so soon, like a sand memories not very old and dreams ahead i n It so, they multiplied with aston'shing | liing dinner you a e last night. What | &trl, and whom she loves to this day. | o i pelbey BLO tho | sttty as 008 88 fhey ot a foothold, | beedie of ol Vo R h = ¢ men. it contained ou ha a | licre, soila ‘:M ¥ m;hy'"m““ "','" "‘]‘:db‘":"“"nm welght one ounce. That food pis wold black en- | error in the village of Philadelphia bYlf om your body like umburned coal | amel fine | NELL BRINKLEY, | thelr destruction of woolens and furs. |through an open writer, often points out to me the name for good! That is a honeymoon! white ribbons, roses and worn shoes, the blueprints But her mother broke off the engage- | 1y in the sun? “Because,” says Love, “because no future and & sigh and tproduciig nour sh ment because she kiss or two! Enough!" n't consider that a moon lasts, does it? And the honeymoon is the rar- ‘And I sit,” says Love, “here upon by taery stool, ( Carpenter's son was fit to marry into | est of the moon blossoms. Nothing endures—and | swinging her august family 1104 — Men' Flat Pelche R 14k solid | It te not, by the way, the moths them- |t ere, Lut your a t work and |reed peari wold, rarge -'.'-‘nmn Dia- 52 8 ick’ and the plain’ truth is you hardly | 15-im = - e Igeives that undermine the hair of Your| et Sndueh noufl ment from yaur me's | shamc. S19 | Eorh e L costly oat, plough winding chan- | fo pay for the cost of cooking. This is true | §1.80 & Mbmth, 9685 & Month nels through the surface of worsted gar-|f f:m‘:'l‘:- t,h-u world Gt X f———— \ . ments and eat holes off the pile of ex- | g T¥40%, YOUT functions of assimila- * By Beatrice pensive garments, but It s thelr off- |cona.ruciion. - O Sour and necy re F.irfgx spring, the larvae, or caterpillars. These| If every '-'(ou‘v- tried to put on wiight has falled try these simp'e dirg: are of & dull white color and hardly|i,.5" Cut out everything but the meals s’"_. Other Nutri- three-elghths of an Inch long, with a|you are eating now and eat with every | See Her Mother. card from him, which I answered. Since|ts such e to e co brownish white head. They are odd-look- ) (Re of those & sinz e Bargol tablet. In tious Foods Dear Miss Fairfax: I am 24 and in| then I have not heard from him. | ing ana ‘J:“. N i 24 W oty it love with & girl six years my junlor, How asn'l koop Rls trienqebipt ~ _ | (08 By v VAN What they obaln )| 2" it they carvied their ‘unrecipresated hidven should be given meat only in | She loves me dearly, but 1 have found MIVIER 7. .| Y90 TRty foundness for human soclety to the point | ' oderate quantities. 'In the first piace, | 0ut that her mother dislikes my sister| My advice would be to pay no more at B0 DTN DAL s overheating when eaten to exocss, i | {O0F 0me Teason, and does not care 0| tention to this young man. Evidently he - of imitating their big, two-legged unwiil- | 5!arches W m to and fro e The material was [d | amand, o 'Give Your Children Meat In Moderate Quantities— p two weeks no e your welght. Sarzol dre ing oreatures, for they clothe themesives. | ;06 0" jeeal?’ mike fat, DUt miXInK i h ir food its purpo.e is to heip the di tive organs turn the fats, sugars and you have eaten, into cing h ent fo nd blood—prepare it in an assimilated form—which tfe blood slyv a cept. A gres deal o tul —B rig ment now passes from ‘thin 5eo- | tha be mirm ss s pesdeRk or o o wevir Wat 1x%8 the Olgestion ve: , | have me call. Please tell me what I can Tell Him You're Sorry. ing hosts, by wearing a garment. irom an coonomical standpoiat: thire no |40 in this ca TROUBLIED. || 18 tired of you and will think less o[ el Wim "y | The garment of the moth caterpiliar many other foodstuffs that are just as| Go to the girl's parents and try to find | Y0u if you throw yourself at him. What|, Dear Miss Fairfax: A short time ago 1| he warment of the moth caterplliar v ritious. Y ould 2 2 h 3 * = ‘ 1 - rittous. t1 and allied pro- | 20t WY they oRject to your sister. You would you think of & young man Who|part from the man I love, I love him woven by its own hand. and lned with | iuata: Br. Huthionattiaand ail 8 oA’ | are entitled to know. No doubt you can| Persisted in writing to you if you had|dearly and I am sure that my love b foremost dleUitians, says that “they are |explain the misunderstanding under which | ceased to be interested in him? Seciprocated. Kindly advise me what to phgored ulmost tn thely Shtirety. the mother labors, e | vl eand tha - . { ud to ¢ the el of Paust Bpeshetiiut S Jors Showing Love for a Man. If you are not too proud to make th from Durm wheat, u cereal extremely | Forgee 1 Fich in mulen—goes to enrich the blood wnd bulld up the body. Faust Bpaghett! b very easy to diges pare. And the many ways it can pared 1o tease the pamte is truly| " wW. §urprising. Large packages 10c. Serve W, otten, ~specially o the children. MAULL BROS. 2 do. bodies as waste | is de igned | i old fllled, small popul p the waste and make the fit pro % mickel movement. pendadt. met, bany it puts out & short lensth of its neck and | J0U,ds° of" heaitny flean be wer yand | tach liak 15 detach 35 & bunch of forelexs and drags along, It[+kin and bon riol is non-injurious, TERMS: soft silk, in which it ensconces itself up| Jewelsd "§ contents of the ver: same meals | white or gold dial. ever tak: rleasant, effic'ent and inexpensive, Sher- - never takes off its strange Jacket or|'leasant. etficient ’,d”( o her- | Open Dally TUIEP. M “atarday T1U 9:30 first advances write a note to your Dear Mias Fairfax: Ghould & gitl shoW | rieng” ong toll him you are thoroughly ar Miss Fairfax: 1 am in love with' her love for & man?® If so, when so, and wan two My love if not, why not? PUZZLED, |80rry for your share of the misunder- Teciprocated uni ¥ pmaths 885 | A women may show lier fonducss for | Standing. He will probably think you a corresponded for a month or two & Man by sweetness, consideratifn and |&enerous, high-minded girl and admire and then he stopped without giving me | joy in his companionship, but unless he You all the w any re to the rs, nd when t K vl g b it takes & walk|s LTS eating now evelob pounde and | i aen ke pisted o0 ner comes out of it uniess pulled out by an|"hd' Podse streets: Owl I - d Dod A rug Co., 6o Call or write ior (1l trated Ohtai inquisitive entomologist. Perhaps re-|16th and Harney streets: 1orvnrd o e | Phone: Dougias 104 4o our saicomen wi eai, membering its own dealings with latd-up|mary garments, It keeps its clothes always in | 178l FPharma SUth ond Warmam gieaet other .. {red to sel it in e ‘::?:1‘ o&!‘a‘ Ewm Sulll » for being able to rise use, R AT R TR osks for her love she muat not force It|above your petty feclings and to make | Mr. Marlatt St Louis, U, 8. A About three weeks ago 1 rece.ved a|uPon him, since masculine human naturc |the first attempt & reconciliation son. He came to see his folks has given an interesting 1 A package—on a ahpntes of weleht increase or money back.—Adver- tisement. description of this curious appendage: ' 1 l