Omaha Daily Bee Newspaper, July 20, 1915, Page 9

THE BEE: OMAHA, TI lm\'lh\\. .ll’l.\ 20, 1915, Republished by Special Armngment with Harper's Baszar. :@ e e e | 1oves. has loved or | expects Holding a Man by forgotten until before five years had passed even the wedding day was not re- membered. The husband became absorbed in business and romance was & sealed to love some man. Man has a horror af being loved with & mercenary mo- tive. So great is this horror today that it amounts to morbid expectancy. Nine ‘young men out of ten speak of a wifo as & posses sion only to be pur- chased. But If a man had never bean niggardly would never have bacome mercenary | By BEATRICE FAIRFAA. Caiminess Is the result of long and patient effort in welf-control. It indioates & right understanding of cause and effect women | And | Supreme Beauty of Serenity * Love By KLLA WHEELER WILOOX. (& corespondent case If husbands were chapter in his book of life. 4 | wiser. The wife who stated these facts might (Copyright, 1915, by Star Co.) | At the same timeé many & woman is | have read the explanation had she stidied 2 | mourning over the loss of romance In| her own face in the mirro I . { A cymical Frenchman has eaid. “Tbe | ner wedded life, il unconseicua that the| some, it was cold as g wi’(‘:\‘:-\:'r‘ | Woman whom wo love is only dangerous. | fault lles in herself. A girl, noted for| lines abowt the mouth and eyes, A spolled [ but the woman who loves us is terrible,” | her beauty, Was won by & wealthy sultor | beauty, she iives with the thought that to which a greater cynic added, “Fortun-| Who was madly Infatuated with her | everything is due her; that she should Sielh Y. Bevet charms. For the firat two years the recelve, not give. One who studies her Pratipid young husband sent his wife bouquets| can readily understand how quickly she A W shore and jewels and other gifts on every an-| would exhaust the romantic reservoir in B ol il ity niversary & man's nature and fail to supply 1t witi for vy Wiloan After that the ocoasions were frequently | new waters of love and sentiment, In ninety cases out of 10 the develop- ment of the romantic tendencies in the masculine nature le wholly with the woman control and equanimity would have told us to wait—but a wild impatience of unbalanced emotion drives i all to hurry « the adjustment of clrcumstances. An unhappy and lonely girl unce sald mefoenary women are few and cures all tendency to fuss and fume | o me. "I ose all. of my friends sooner Men are far mdre ‘stereotoyped In mind | and worry and grieve. As soon as you [ or later. Some little dlsagreement arisey than women. Therefore their idoas re-| have learned to be calm you have at-|and instead of waiting stubbornly for it garding the grand passion are more uni- | tained the wonderful gift of poise and | to blow over I write a letter—put my form. your soul is on s way to asteadfast | Whole soul on paper and still | lose my While almost every womah likes a dra- | serenity. triends. Why ' matic element tn a man's love for her,| The calm soul has learned how to| Who ever knew that a letter would le the normal man has a dread of the dra- matioally disposed woman, especially in the role of a wife. This ia the reason’we find so many phiegmiatic’ women who are wives. Intensity worelos a man un- less 1t 18 kept well under check, and the tragic he finds insupportable in dally life. Less romantic than wemen by nature Sovern itseif-and so can adapt itself to others. People reverence and revere those who are masters of themselves. And whether a man remains tranquil and un- ruffied in emersency and acts with judg- mont, or be serene and calm in facing the petty annoyances of life, he still gaina admiration for the wise sanity that read in the same spirit in which It was written? Who ever, In the grip of emo tion, could put into a letter the humility and simple love, proud and unafraid which they felt? One wrong word—writ ten and imperishably set on memory—and & tiny quarrel grows to the breach of misunderstanding. An unusual blouse for $8 made to individ- ual measurement. This attractive blouse re- quires two and a half yards of white batiste ($1.25), a half yard of colored batiste for vest and buttons (25 cents), and linen but- tons and moulds (11 cents). A colored cording of batiste may outline the collar, eaulettes and cuffs of this ba- tiste blouse costing $8. For it are required two and a half yards of batiste ($1.26), half a yard of colored batiste (26 cents), and but- tons (10 cents). The Goddess st gt ™. =5 = Read It Here—See It at the Movies - : A blouse of striped handkerchief linen made to individual measurements ocosts $8. It requires two ‘and a half yards of striped material ($2.13), one yard of plain linen for collar, cuffs, tie and bands (75 cents) and one- eighth of a yard of batiste (15 oents) for vest. and with less Idealism, yet' somewiere in his heart every man hides a .dream of that earthly trinity fathér.»mother and child--in which he imagines himself the chief element Sooner or later, to greater or less de- gree, every man passes through the ro- mantie - phase. Fate and Ciroumstance twisted and Unfortunately for women, his idea of a| Warped lives out of shape, at least there sweetheart is essentially different: from | would be. something awe-inspiring and his requirements for a wite. magnificent about the tragedy. But|oversupply of excitability of the sort thit The average young bachelor is attracted [ Qulck tempers, hastly spoken words, rash | does not make its powseRsor “wesar well' by the girl whom others admire. He|deeds, irrevooably lead to most of the|in any human relation. Iikes to carry off the belle of the season | bitter changes that cut lives off from| Strong, calm people aré always toved before the eyes of rivals.” Hp is amused | happineas. and revered. < A sweet-tefpered, weill- i by her caprices, flattered by her jealous| Humanity surges with uncontrolled |balanced ndifvidual 18 no ‘comfortablé to exactions, and grateful for the least ex.|passion, lLife s tumultuous with un-|know thit he or'she Is sure to vin !fm- pression of her regard for hiw,! He is|@overned grief. Anxiety and doubt Blow |and to Weep them. lavish with compliments and praise, Byt us all about—and carry some of us upon| Serenity and tranquility are the nltunl sentiment in man springs wholly from [uncharted reefs. And it Is all so un- |dower of some thrice-blessed’ souls, but unappeased appetites. The coveted, but|necessary. To me that is the ultimate|most of us must work end “strugmle unposseased womin can manifest her love | bitterneas of most tragedy—it need never | through effort and falluré to attain the prevents him from wasting himself with- out self«ontrol or judgment. It Is & sad question whether the most of the unhappy people we meet have not ruined their own lives and marred and defaced their happiness by nothing more unavoidable than a lack of control, If ‘The ®irl who lost her friends through * her propenaity to write emotional letters probably exaggerated her sorrows to hit- ter grievances and frightened off 'her friends by exactions of cloying onnmu- mentality. No calm, serene woman would put her whole woul on paper over somie “lttle Alsagreement.” That procéeding ‘presups Poses a lack of sweet tranquility—and an | sentry, ‘“he’d be so clear that I wouldn't | have to try. I couldn’t miss him." | An; I'm dead certain of one thing. yhody who thinks he's safe in that fenses began just inside. For twenty fost the ground was pitted like a sieve, in each else does. By Gouverneur Morris 1 for him 4n almost uny: manner, and it h-vo hapflened—-we did it ourselves—a |mental polse thut bri these flowering and pit a pointed stake had been planted,| “And he might be a deaf man who | ve will be making u.Kreat: b mis- | Ly o o gresable and pleasthy: ttle patience and the storm would have | to life. mmwl;nt:wm “moqiir- apright. Within this ring of mischance | didn't hear your challenge. I don‘t think k-e. 8 ‘Whether she is shy, shrinking, coq m—but we munst fly out to defy the | ing tham is to cultivate the' habit, of ‘smil- Charles W. Goddard were viciovt entangiements of barbed |yowd shoot him, would you? Wouldn't| ‘But why?. A-bullet, can’t Ko threush | ian or piayful, demonstrative of Ughtning and o be drenched by the rain |ing at small annoyarices and 6f facing: g by wire. you just shoot homewhere near him 1o |a atome wall or & big tree.” his, imagination will .Ym:mfl we atupldly forgot, | ones With the philosophicat’ AT In' Mv. Kehr's plan of defonse the | trighten him?" DO you ktow whit & blastiis?* every eharm. A min's i A e L 1] “Now, what call T do mm Ooottghi, 1018, Wthr Oimpins. ' | stockude "wonld be surrendered mfter a| Sho loked than man steadiiy in the fAca.| I think so.” the flower of his passions, Whon those passions are calmed, the flower fades, Once let him possess the object of his de- sire, and his ideas become entirely ohanged. He grows oritical ' and dis- thing? Or nothing? 1f something—t) something wise. If mlu—mu MN‘ , to see how ‘the thing “M ¥ Koep your hand on the helm. - Steer mera show of resistance, the wirikers swarming over the top would become en- tangled among the staked pits and the barbed wire, like files in a spider's web, “"Wouldn't you?" ‘Well, suppose the strikers oocupled “I've got no business talking to any-|that grove in number and began to fire one, when I'm on duty.” Jon us. Suppose just then every tree in “Wouldn't you?’ {the grove blew (o pleces and fell on In-Shoots The political boss Trecognizes no ability { Synopsia of Pevious Chapters. the traglc deatn of John Aues: your boat uuletly and as efficiently ak pury. s prostiated wife, ote oL Amer: |and then Kehr could meke thom Sorry| The man made a snuffling noise. |eni, and the stone wall saflad up in the | oriminating ‘and - truly mascaltne in his that.cennot dellver the votes. possible. Feel that you are your own u‘-.tnbnuu'- of the interests |that they had ever been bom. He had| “jf | hear you fire,' said Celestin, "I|uj. and fell on 'em, and the éarth they |ideas of how he wishes.to .be loved. No..onhe dares fur political recognition | salling master and w mw w& m 3-year-old “}: two machine guns placea on an eminence | gng)l know that you didn't shoot to Jill, |gi00d on opewed up and swallowed ‘em, | We all know the story of the man Who f e o' 1o no"in the form of & laxy job. | one If you Ehooss. Y ,,uf., ¢ el bfl"" e D ke ahe | from which they conld sweep the whole | gnap'¢ 17 and -hmqu mouth on 'em afterward [compared his courtship to a mad race and shorten sall in, W \'ml n y angels who lnl\nlct her lor inner ring of the stockade. ‘Ho had plenty | qmq gentry, an elert young feliow 10 and wouldwt/let ‘em out?” after a rallroad train, and his married | g joys of \gnorance are apt o ba | make an umm conaering life to a calm possession of a seat With|yore enjoyable than those of knowledige. ' your own flightyand excitably te the morning paper at hand. He no longer and of matnii. the' beanty ‘aid; polse of shouted and gesticulated, but he enjoyed | The older we grow the safer and saner | o, squable l?‘munmnt‘” what he had won none the less for that. [ we become on the Fourth of July observ- | Ditficuities faced. cdlmiy..sMnk awas. of rifles, plenty of ammunition, and what was more important he had plenty of men who could be relied on to shoot down their fellow men. If by any chance the. stockade and the begin with, seemed mow to have fallen into & kind of trance. “I guess,’ he sald, “I'l do anything you sald, 1t you looked at me while you “ls that what it's for? “I don't know, ma’am. You asked me what it's for, and I don't know. I'm only telling you what it might be for. What eform nudfl-nly thrunt into I.h of ln terests are ttie " " o band wind) way by the sald it it would be for if I was old man Keh: It was & very .quiok-witted hus ance. Quarrels analysed . sowely’ @ repr 2 iy entanglements were sarried, the. assall-| “cojagis gmiled and passed on. She| “How would he make it all blow up?*| Who thought of this little simile to ex- nothingness, Fajlure lgnored sinks uhder teen years later Tommy goos to the lants would be confrinted by an. inner|;..gq the whole tour of the stockade, in- | asked Celestia. platn his lack of sentiment, but there ars| Whon the average girl arrives at_the | FoU"inEDoSH. Hatlure e D J fi%"l::‘d&fi t‘fi e v accident he s the first |stockade, higher and stronger, but|ging merciful feslings into the heart ‘By ‘electriclty. He'd have a switoh | fW wives who are satisfied to be consid-| age of 16 she is usually surprised to find | o o= 0 “revious effort. P ] t: m“(‘:tn . de lunubur girl. as 8he | ground. & spring and well not;:e_d’dwn‘); of each sentry that she met. At last, J\:t somewhere that connected up all the "I‘fd h‘:“:l‘l. ‘;:I’hl, foruzh: mjl olh::; out how little her mother knows. Self-control Is strength u)d e‘lvulw The st § proyisions. But the attack, Kepr feit, he moon wes rising and flooding the | detonators in th wite e romantic feelings W 1 P gt "“..;..."“.f‘:.'!“‘" Tomg RERV-LIT e 10 :catts £0-6..head. WA 488 | cond with Haht, whe came back to the| “What to.a swtta s the soul of the aweetheart held, It fa possible for & girl to seat soup (1% :wurmhkmm:‘hm :‘n :::x shall surely fins 1t an SRRT pasaer o e '”nu. 48 |Liogdily &nd inwlorlously in the barbed | pire sentry. .It was easy to see that he A well timed compliment, a tender|STacefully and not be able to make. s | (M G TR & ¥ o Im mm nl;r:-lé'm;u\‘::urlnm" :'Y‘ ursued | wire. Labor would have had a much|o.. siad ghe had come back. He drew a (To Be Continued Tomorrow.) . | caress given unasked, would avert many | palatable article, b “"""“.r“‘ 'y \ by te: uu:e to an isl where | needed lesson, and whatever the ©Ofs |y, hreath and his eyes brightened. rpose conq! they foend the soquénces 1o himself, he would not have| «wny ™ she asked, “have almost all - - - - ot Stilliter, following his In- . X ‘ha " ‘ S " dian reaches the lsland, found |lived in vain the trees been cut down” 4 ; Four feet from the top of the main| g5y we can see tho strikers & long | stookade o the inner side was & shelf- | o' hefore they get to ve” Celestia, who “runs t o {lke walk of heavy planks, lm;n which | vrrhen why bave mw‘,m;; one o::: p, follow: Yy T. | gentries could look out upon the world | crove, mo near the stockade y o gy P and if they had a | takes advantage by | belond. 5 take shelter in that, not only 0*:‘3:;'- DUt Tommy'® | Celestia’s first act of exploration was (small cannon—"" ke cd:“\a.m in time to catch a» |0 cllmb a ladder which gave access to 4"'Bu( they hlwntu } gr "fi: York, he places |this marrow way and stert slong it. Al-| “But they havem't. / 7 e ",,.;“‘,,, - .',',m"",fl' ¥ | most inetantly the white apparition Was | “They ought to have, oughtn't they: ; uu:::- Bellevue just before - | challenged by a sentry. 1f it's to be a fair fight. But there won't : iter's doput Celestia gave gave the pass word and | be any fights will there? Still you ay lm:n guu?'d'& 'R' "y% made th¢ man tell her what his hours | haven't told me why all the trees have PR Bellevue i unsble to get any |and duties were. | been cut down except that one grove— 3 in to her girle she ls able to caim a thres Q"yflu-'lmu\'m!mnud-‘.d It whe said, “that | seq, it's got & fine oM stone wall around | If 1 were the captaim of the strikers— him his busthess, and got no answer, | “It was left standing especial,” said the | that you would try te shoot him sentry, “by Mr. Kehr's orders. And he “If T saw him in this light,” said the |kmows why it's been left, even If nobody “Do yoli really mean,’ shouldcomemflnSummervegehbluandfrmteombmedmtha whole wheat cereal. Cut out the heavy, high-proteid foods. of Winter and give Nature a chance. The ideal Summer diet is hredded Wheat| el o . s a0 wnd llln 0 right a great wrong h-hui Let Your Mother Declde. | mous and sesk a reconcilistion if you 0"3&:::"9-“5:‘".'&“' " w‘:fl Déar Mins Fairfax: T have been keeping | fgel that she is worth caring about. ' : ; Toom Ta soon & Masing fufnace: ‘Colestia | company With & JOUNE man thros Years . with fresh fruits and green vegetables—a food that clears the cob-webs from ’ T Ly ruats o ode, Wi | 9 e, Mow e e DUt sny Talk It Over with Her. . . . P T Has Bar e rapted 'In"a Dl Toi '8 | iichas il hovet rs A1 Tl WA | Dear Mise Fairtax. 1 have beon k the brain-box and gives muscular vim and that enable a man or woman cloth. until I really n ng company & young la 'or rAfler rscuing Celestia, from ,"::M cher likea him ',“‘,.'.,.a““"‘,"'\,u?"“.n; laat aix ‘months and ;‘,1;;“°u,,=', I to do things. All the body-building mfiuul in the whole wheat made diges- objects b.uuu he does NOt €T |14 her | st times as though I don't T et teslo p:au:do ty gt | et Obie feto e 2, P St tible by steam-cooking, b otly, er for al o 'S T has 3 funds. RUNNGF| accustomed o I am 8t Am indecided what to do. 1 hate o give | shredding and baking. nd .fnnauu Celestia to him because my father would -|wn.\n her up and still am unha; with E e 2 mieing o, ko seree| bing 5w e I " went amiil by By v Wine”chal Tng teollng il e Being ready-cooked and colllrive. shes, he w off in time” . After being dllnh-m-d Tommy -oulni,m.p. 0 muma good men. Perhaps your uncertain feelings are dus Tk in e onl 5 RIHA " to-serve, ey O el | X ready-to- Shredded fussa'to faten'to them. ) of":"n'.': 9N, | judiced; sometimes fathers are, 80 WhY | tionghip, But vou would be wise to talk Wheat is a boon to the ers to tura a ine gun loom on your mother? If |the matter over with the girl for whom . . men -t.hoy Lht stockade. both of you cannot lrln. your father | you have such uncertain affection Better w lw““km m &m' busy to get rid of The o of the mw' lu&r involves d around to your way of thinking. then do as your mother says. grieve for her a little now than marry her and come to be a cold, unloving hus- band Get mer. the “health Tommy ” ey a7t i Celegia dres 2 : babit” by eating it for urng m an You Were Righ goes to see Kehr, Dear Mins Fairtax: [ have known o Seoret Marriages. breakfast with milk or. L. SEyTYen rl for & long t o Dewr Miss Iairfax: 1 » d TENTH EPISODE. Flookner Tor a dance’at which 1 met | ohr Jiae Kninfex., 1 am, 2 vours ol cream. Then try it for ‘h"- o ’l":_ My who cannot juake both ends meet at t .tll - 4 Kehy must have had & military an-|! ""“ ""';::.’_:';. ve Lo escort | DR g0 P o Pl supper. wi sliced hnt-' cestor from whom he had inherited | "ok aaked home with | T waat to marry' him sseretly wpd keep nas, berries or fresh fruits. et for nakin defeasive warfere aa| e ss she iiied & m«”fl'&‘{hffi- my "'r‘.e‘:'fl“ 10, ante e tx wait Twe pears or ! nasty as pessible. From the sutside his { Instead of .nr-uu in staying out :fln other or blas. stockade surrounding several acres of Lam o peivity decretary and:shiay ny | Kindly dv\nm'mhwumt work. ar T ,,..'7,.. | &round presented no great obetacle 1o justified In escorting era_ home s R N e The Shredded Wheat Company an attack In force. it was not aa bigh| Under the sbove o MW W to 'y Tother the bihet dey | ; as it might have been, nor as thick or | WPAL should I do to resain her ""‘fl'"" | &1 she tnought 4 vary proper. F. 4 stronz. The tops of the logs of which it had been built were not sven pointed. It! did not seem to have been plerced -flla witficiency of holes for rifies Mr, Kehr's stockade was ot ‘so vnueh . @efense ‘as U temptation. FHis reai de- 1 do not Lelieve 'in secrel raarriases } You did everything that was proper and | nor do I think the Joye of & man s worth | considerate both of your girl frien1 and |having it #f will not survive two years | of your sisters. The girl was very petly of waiting. MHowever, if your parents and upwomanly in her attitude—se you do not objeet I hardly tatnk wy opinion can all the better afford to be magnani- ought to sway you, Niagara Falls, N, Y.