Omaha Daily Bee Newspaper, July 19, 1915, Page 8

MONDAY, Jubx 19, The Bees Home Ma Wash-Day i By NELL BRINKLEY ————— e S L] Copyright, 1915, Intern'l News Service. By Virginia Terhune Van de Water, Copyright, 1915, by the Star Company. So much is sald and written nowadays on the training of the young that It scems almost presumptuous for any one o attempt to add to the mass of advice to parents—to the suggestions as to how and when one should punish, if at all to the counsel as to varfous models of restraining the child, of making an obedient creature of him or allowing him to “exercise his own individuality.” ‘We all recail the paraphrase of Solo- i mon's directions: “Chain up a child and away he will go.” Though it is supposed to be only a humorous paraphrase, it sometimes proves sadly true. The fact rematns that parents have Hved to Mttle purpose it they are not more capable of gulding the youngsters than are the youngsters themselves. 8till the unending and everburning question, is how to do it? It is, of pourse, useleas to attempt to make any one rule to fit every case. In e w— { ! to decide what course to pursue in each case, (s the by no means easy task laid ) » g B Q Soee A& osd e SERANIANT, T { L o o % | L o oA Lol b vr A - ’ \\J-, 1), 3 RO Rl s e e Jent temper which punishments o various kinds falled to wul ¥ “ S trol. The loving mother prayed abou i~ thought about it, asked advice of family, co-operated swith his efforts to find. - little one that she: must not ito a rage and kick and soream. ‘when almost dlscouraged, the mother hit upon a the happy ides of asking the ot -~ e the girl hermelf. They don't like their necks washed, or behind their ©Ars, any more put the kettle on, 'till it simmers gently, and the lady who came out of and down he goes, black hair and goldy, untfl his eyes are tight shutten -"' than other babies do. And all week long they’re in deep, dark mischief, the sea, the mother of all the little Loves that ever were, “who has so and his body glistens and the dust of the wayside is worn off, and he ‘ o 4 through the streets of the splendid, the streets of the ‘weary, the streets many children she doesn’t know what to do,” Venus of the white arms screams aloud that he is dying and has no more ekin on 'im—and then of the drab-colored, the lanes of the lucky in the country—and so their and the amber hair, she souses 'em in one by one with a sound like a mother puts it off until Saturday-—‘“country style!” And then they shoe full of rain water—plopsh! in. And sh-h-h? out again! And up Read It Here—See It at the Movi thi she hangs them up to dry by their once more heavenly white wings, So goes Saturday in Love-Land!—NELL BRINKLEY. b : t i Learning How to Talk By BEATRICE FAIRFAX, The right word in the right place will | “Fine and dandy!” when asked how you come, through good reading, to have a [feel. But don't go into a alinfcal and meaning all its owh to you. Don’t read |medical mass of detall. Save your symp- Some folks think conversation comes |to quote—don't read to talk with “high- [toms for the doctor. You will pay him by the grace of heaven—but nothing is | falutin’ " and literary elegance. Read to |to listen to the story thereof, further from the truth. One might as |see how words can be molded into & | And finally—to talk well, broaden your well say playing the violin comes by na- | living mass to express just the mean- horizon. Everything in the world about ture. No human being-no matter how | ing in the modeller's mind. you—be it a crying baby in the subway musical—could play & simple lullaby on | After you have read a bit don't get to[or the latest war bulletin—has possibill. the violin without first learning. Of | thinking you are all wise—the field of il o 2 fe £ £ i | E | l ; | j %5 ! l ;! ; : ! ! i H ! §e : % E! 1 i | i 1 men when they attack the stookade. him once. Now they had sent Celestia Sets the mine owners busy to get %0 thwart him agadn, By Gouverneur Morris : | A ties interest rest| - i ':"-11- O et ot | e e et with pollteness. | course a masetro might play by ear with- | classic lore in Just the English languase | ties, * Ommer: oo derestiog possibile- | wolng to the best. miners to lynch him: Coloatia. smves thin | oo, 00 her that he was glad she had | it jessons—but not without practice. |1s wide indeed. Don't bo pedantic about | tuem Yoor seind 'tn 6 Peuvesit. Lok ex- . of this fault. & bady from the mob, but turns from him and | “OM® 4 5 And most mortals neod all the ald good | what you know—don't try to make It | pansively offer It to the world, ror s _ you were me in §0es to seo Kehr, Tm giad you've come, Lagion” ‘llf ¥, :"; instruction can give them. seem overwhelming. Be overwhelmed |preusions, And them cxchange opinions ~ this work to do i R SO, zu;vl.k':w your L?;o:lhc:.':-‘ 'ox: :‘:' Well, by the seme token of practical [ Yourself by all there is left for you to |with the people you meet. <o :'v -.--. impractical they are in the face of an |OMMon sense, although a favored few | read. Soon glggling and idle chatter will be | 3 : sk i P oo ST SRR poe-corgmtiirva ey bor and | t&lk glibly and even pleassntly by in- | Shakespeare and Goethe will prove in- | us unnatural as dumbness. You wil have ! stinct, even they do not get far without |teresting after you have accustomed |acquired for yourself the supreme wifc P e e o, "t ' | study, without practice and without tak- | yourseit to school of reading In Which, |of charm—that of being ‘6 pleasant and W""’" ing infinite pains. “Said she languidly” and “He exclaimed |interesting conversationist. “Why, yes” sald Celestia, “when they | Of course the obvious way to improve | With flashing eyes” do not make up for get 50 they understand each other. But |in conversation is to talk—provided one |niceness—for exactness In modeling & day will come when there won't be any [talks as well as one ls able. But 4t | Words into @ breathing expression of s ™ would be hard to force any man or [thought. H - woman to take a tenth as much pains to | It is obvious that all knowledge will | oo e s iyt sarn |iearn the game of conversation as to |help yeu In conversation. A ttle anec- | o wend master the latest fox trot step or to |dote about your washerwoman's boy may and then bexin to holler murder and set learn the game of golf. And yet conver- |lighten a dull moment. It is well to [ jynam/ Just dow ;’“':“ h.':: ::',Ln'& you ,': o nut. |sation is a game that can never go out |Keep up with the times. The editorlal ’ :mu, the history of the last few years|Of Stvle and that will be important as |pages of the newspapers in themselves % present situation, | 1018 a8 mortals have ears and tongues. | offer a training for interesting talk, e xh“xo::-‘:.m laborer myselt | Here are a few rules of practice for | whether you agree or intelligently differ sh w“ Rul l To :""‘ Likopar, learning the gentle art of conversation: | With what you have read. If you have Itk Lydia E. molu::h ralsed her hand in protest. Talk as well as possible to all sorts of |read good book reviews and criticisms of ydn Klve Celestia every chance to settle the Alner: [atrike, and to hinder her in mothing, he ] was still determined to bring about his own kind of a settlement if possible. Close-fisted and narrew. he was never- |ia. e | theloss & man with beilefs and principles At the |for which he was not only willing to sac- into the | rifice his fortune, but his life If necessary. W% 1To Kehr a man who agreed to work certain hours for certaln wages and then went back on his agreement was no more to be considered or treated with than a mad dog. To his finger tips he was cap- italtstio and belleved in property, At his finger tips he had tnnumerable examples of contented laborers who had become o i iz i | i ] 3 il if ) affluent and of dlscontented laborers who | oo of the quar- |People. Adapt yourself to meods, to |popular plays you can talk about the Pinkham’s Vegetable had finished up in jail. ”“.:."“.;.":;“..m": iheirs. When | charecter and to varying ages. originals with those who have first-hand Cony “TOnoe." he would say, “labor @14 the | your heart is very hard against a man, | Make it your business to say what you | kKnowledge. _L"md- most work possible for the least possible pay, but nowadays labor wishes to do th und | least amount of work possible (and the worst kind of work), and to receive there- fore so much pay that there can be no return on the capital which employs Iabor. Where are we drifting to? If an B, vantage eight-hour day with a raise, why not six stia’'s, but Tom the best way to soften it ia to say all | want to convey 8o you shall be thoroughly | There are two olassics about boredom Lackawanna, N. Y.—"Af_m my first the favorable things you can think of | understood by the individual you address. | which you must avold if you want to be | ehild was born I felt very miserable and about him. Pd like you to tell me all | Be clear and simple. known as a good conversationalist. A - could not stand on the good things you oan think of about | When you are thrown with an unutter- | bore has been defined as “a person who | my feet. My sister- l Gunsdort and then I shall go to him and | ably dull person who seems almost dumb |talks about himself.” Don't let yourself | in-law wished me to ask him to tell me all the good things | pride yourself on finding out something [be so defined. Talk about the other try Lydia E. Pink~ Be can think of about you. Bbout which he can talk. Any one can |chap; let him fall into the category. of | > ham’s Vegetabla “From neither of us,” sald Kehr grimly; | talk about something. Even an utter | bores, but avold that slough of despond, C L ad m s | Mith & raise? Why not four? Two! None? | “will you hear any good of the other.’ | {00l can tell you about himeelf. Get into | for your own soclal reputation. | rves becam flrm,’ o L e hige TIUT oruers | My men want to breakfast in bed and | “Them" sald Celestia, smiling gently; [,the habit of drawing out the silent and| Then a bore has been called “a per- Lens ki e -'x"':..”.“?::“u.?‘v K, ’.‘!e.‘-" he pl recelve their puy envelopes at the same | *I shall have to do the talking for you | taciturn. As they expand into conversa- | son who, when you ask him how he appetite good, step [t Bellovue tal, wi time, I wasn't like that. I went to work | both.” tion you will got a sort of perspective on | feels—tells you!" Don't, don't, as you elastic, and I lost n proven by the aul s | for wames that a dog could hardly have | “You oan change me into & breakfast- | your own lesser difficulties in finding |value your friendly place in the minds | 7 &5/ that weak, tired “ oniiny reaches Hellevue just food as easily as you can change Guns- | conversational material. of men, tell them all about your last | f(/ /4 feeling. That was IR \iter's departure, lived on. But 1 saved and walted. and I | Tommy s first wiin whs to get Celeatia | worked s hard as I could without com- fto & human betag."” The very best achool for conversation | headache, nor how you can't sleep in | six years ago and I fvay from Stilliter. After they leave | deek day you and Gunsdort will ghake | 18, Of course, gvod reading. The classical | hot weather, nor how you have all the have had three fine platning. And now look 1 B3V iy umabie e hande and youll both admit that you | novels will accustom you to English used | symptoms of appendicitis. Rather than healthy children since. For female trou= edtin in owing “Any healthy-minded, able-bodled lw‘-:n.iu z.::v 11‘1:: wn.n " o can get rich in less th were both Wwrong." with charm and certalnty and exactness. | that, use even the stupid old expression, | £ el bles I always take Lydia E. Pinkham’s to the taxi he nn? M“uu no time If he will work as hard as he “You admit that he's 'rvn.‘?" | Vegetable Compound and it works like taoe aad ot 13 Wre i aart gt “Yes, Mr, Kehr, and you too. | acharm, Ido allmy own work.'—Mrs, lly by the name of Do there in the town 1 won't be responsible The success of Lydia E. Pinkham’s ‘ - a secures work in & large gar tor the Rt bt Fairfax | Vegetable Compound, made from roots :nl factory, Where a great many girls 8he rose and smiled upon him. — — y A #0n Freddie returns b o (m i l: “I am to come and go as I please?’ | | Adlsrll; 1‘}574 Electric Avenue, B T e 5 v it e oo o (| A 4 oine to Lovel o By Beatrice || e 1. Y. ward that he hoped to Conditiony { vice to velorn @ “But I've been among them already. herbs, is unparalleled. It may be :-r. "::““'i'" l.rhn(:n:: mp:u They were going to hang & man, \-ul' ! used with perfect confidence by women companions. By her talks to the they listened to reason.” You DM Wrong. '-ol_!-h to risk an irreparable hurt to .| ‘who mfl'r!mmdhpl ents, in! E e Sy "oi0 8 _threstened *What men? Dear Miss Fairfax. Last week 1 met a | Sirl's reputation. ncony flam o ) l':" . A vision of Mre. Gunadort's face floated ‘oun‘ hog“ by flirtation. He was going TR | mation, ulceration, tumors, irregularities, through Celostia’s mind, and caueed aer | b¥ b & buggy and asksd me t go for He is Probably Seltish. periodic pains, backache, bearing-down | " aceepted. 1 have met him & | Doyr iy Fair 1 n ¢ | Teeling, flatulency, indigestion, dizziness, eyes to narrow a little, and look quite :»‘(;":‘; ::,:“?.&::an;': asked me to s . n“.:‘ l"?k-l_n s ‘E’:‘l‘"‘, e un;\?.‘ | or nervous r-ostration. Lydia E. Pink- loney. R o ears my sei or tl our yeal h.ml “"A men of no importance” she sald BLUE BYES. | ;' nover takes me. to any places of | s Vegetable Compound is the stan- ligh “But I shan't o back to the | To accept such an invitation was worse | Amusement. but whenever he meets me | dard remedy for female ills. el Wit 1o (o “eats wore ™ | tnan miman: 4t was, Sesguves. Tou for et he, {akes me home MY.sle | Women who suffer from those dis- e out. Do you think | should allow him | tressing ills peculiar to their sex should to take me home if he dossn't take me be convinced of the ability of Lydia E. T i i E ! Se ol vhind out- 1 love him very much veLyn r. | Pinkbam's Vegetable Com) to re- d o ey In these days of moving picsures and | SOFe their health by the many genuine hed inexpensive means of amusement. there | 8nd truthful testimonials we are con- He oould, he was one good crack -~ is no reason why the man for whom you | stantly publishing in the newspapers. \ ovs his plans, were care should not show you some slight at- " t speci, write \ sl ...:‘ -‘-.L'h -::t:: tention. He is probably seltiah and p:o—i ],,u.’: ;::5.- .:‘m(“‘“. t y to order fers to spend his money on his own en- | demtial) Lynn, Mass. Your letter will Joyments and to escort you home as an be opened, read and auswered - inexpensive means of showing his inter- woman and held In strict trip and it would be very |est iz H - 4