Lakeland Evening Telegram Newspaper, May 30, 1912, Page 3

Otice Number .... Kesidence Number ... ..... iicated to the Society Editor ] written notices to the Socie o ol B o B B BB 5, paired. TELEPHONE NUMBERS—SOCIEI‘I EDITOB SPECIAL NOTICE—Notices for the Social Deparument can be com- +ices of social functions, club meetings, church gatherings and er items of social interest should be telephoned to this depart- 1t as soon as they occur in order that their rews value is not o EGDPHDGFSIDDPO D | by either of the above telepnones. ty Editor, care Evening Telegram. TRAMPS, fevl 0 summer’s in your the rain and the pleas- weather— tix the time to call up your and go on the road to- urt bread and cheese for maybe a flute for bit o and aring o0, if you like a smoke, and ad, stout heart for straying. < like it! But shun all the \s» where the feet of men oW weary, (v behind you the toil and t of the vcities old and s where the wood-folk love to vour flute's soft mnotes mming, silver sun-rays sloping on the golden grass v the dappled shadows i, mmering and glancing, the green leaves overheud wood-elves blithely " aitering through the green- wi elides, and whistling soft cheerly— there's naught like a wping life, for tramps that t dearly?! end is come, and 1 reach hourne where all God's folk s over, o the Master of “Dear Lord, Life and I'm just a pilgrim lik2 . they were never made for uing ven will never Heaven be, We¢ may go a-roaming! pluck a reed to make “ot tnnes for Heaven's play- souls me up my little dog once more where Thy dogs are stray- v and alway, in the rain/| pleasant weather, that tramps and an- we'll go on the road the oy KNow, r MQueen, in June Lippin- ! . for Band Concert me Tonight. Musician March......Miller ¢ 3chool March..Louis Rich ‘verture—Yankee Hash Miller d\ Among the Gold Danks 15 minutes, “ite Valmond Rockwell Rag Time Band...Berlin 5 \~,,, Waltz. .Ellis Brooks _Y P March... Edward Beyer Janowski, I.eader I-ad.h Who Will Look After L Wms of Children's Home. 5 OWing is the committee of * %40 will Jook after the inter- ldren’s Home Society 4 surroundings: Mrs. i {‘hairman), Mrs. R. L. « M. Futch, Miss M. B. ¥ graciously prom- society by giving an ' of some kind once or its benefit, and in N2 the work before one wishing to ould apply to these one knowing of a ieeding the help ! Same to these also accept any ! ¥. though not c—x-l only as they feel| forward to the 1 that she wasE ing the s,vm-i se ladies in the | Children’s Home| to thank the il ¥ manner in which ived © Bartow, IXf»ok to self-training She left Tuesday |stand by it. ht husband material ge g the r to work upon.” Mr. [Hammond, accounted :ln atesi of the world's mining engi- once enjoined ten dont’s uponu nee of young men interes With marvelous re: n s wife recalled these and pit- {ted Ler own marriage “dont’s” - saiesi them., Hammond said: ~“Don't ‘v into mining property be nd has been fortunate in “Don't marry @ man for money, “If he has made is probably old. If In s youns he has inherited it, and is toiul'y developed. In either cas retorted his wite Himso!r he {you have poor pickings.” “Don't Ly afraid to marry a mal { because e has been in love betor The capaci'y for areat love is a gift, and if a person who is 40 or mor: says he hasn't been in love 1 shouid n'towant to moarry him, for he won e a person without affection. Of irse, b odidi’t have 1o solve tha ';pznhl»-m I cauzhit mine so young {5 Don't Tot s ' | - 4 | ont let any other woman in memns Club M"‘-“S Hience v judzement in choice With Mrs. Guy Wilson. Choose for you Hl‘fl Woman's Club s _h"“h“b' PS1 “Don't aceept any gifts except regulay “"‘"‘“— ”": -‘"\I“""‘- Vicandy, books and flowers and a the houy- of Mrs. Guy Wilson, u‘n-m:m\ heartwhole affection until the South Kentucky avenue At this meeting it is expected to complete plans for the club’'s work during the summer Baptist Sunday School Enjoying Picnic at Auburndale Today. Two coaches, laden to their fullest capacity with a happy picnic band, were attached to train No. 84, leav-) z h at 7:50 this morning, bear- the Baptist Sunday schoo] pu- pils and their friends to Auburndale where they spending a delight- ful day, the occazion being their an- nueal picnic attached for the accommodation of the pivnim-rs.! and, judaing from the number and e of the hampers and boxes with ich it wa sladen, enongh tude there will fragments to feed a multi- even after the pienic appetites have been satisfled, Mrs. Hammond's Ten i Den't for Marriage. “Don't marry “hHon't bhe because he “hon't thuence aoman oy afraid to marry monoy.y A man his been in lov, wny betor:, | let other woman in- Jjudgement in yourself.” vour Choose for “Don't candy, heart-whole & hoice chioie acceprt any o gifts except and a man’s fection until the wed-| ding day, or near it’ “Don’t marry a man for a alone, for stock runs out’ hooks or tlowers, “Don’t marry u foreigner. It re- cuires a sacrifice of individuality.” “Don’t marry because of propin- quity.” “Don’t marry without advice of a physician.” “Don’t marry unless the man is honest and competent in the affalrs of life.” “Don’t abandon all common sense in your choice.” “Don’t try to marry without first getting your licenses.” getting the Mrs. John Hays Hammond, the wife of the man who earns the larg- salary in the world—half a million a year —said in an interview here: “My head husband's recipe siccess is ‘Do Team Work.' “That I've always tried to do, and probably because nothing is hard that is done for my husband and children.” “What is your own recipe for bringing up a sucessful husband?’ Mrs. Hammond was asked. “You should know, for you have helped to bring him up.” “l suppose I have,” she asserted. “We were married very young—he at twenty-six and I at eighteen. There is one rule that sums up all others. 1 have believed the best of him at all times. 1 have found that an excellent rule. Men like their wives to think well of them. They may fall off the wife-erected pedes- tal now and then but they scramble back. even if it is with skinned Sess ™ oSt for ¥ou alwayrs encouraaged him “Not when I thought he was wrong. | have put out many a fu- tile fire. 1 think that for the hus- tand-training the wife should first She must ;nl live and care for herself as to keep | h health, d-velop her character ard train her intellert, as far as it can be trained : 2 women ares not gifted wuh’ great intellects, but it 3 womana has | a fine, strong character, that will Suppiemwent an average orain 4'¢-r-| tainly it better to have moderate brains and fine character than un- ‘and for their help | usual brains and deficient character. “Then make the right choice and That is a large part of bringing up a successful husband, wedding day or ne Mining rule No buy stock in a mine i 12 Sowas: “Don't because it has produced millions in the past, It is that much poorver.” Ma ge rul No. 5 was: UDon't marey a ma tor ancestry alone, for stock m ot “Don't bhuy st because the mie far off country,” was the nes of mining wisdom. “Don’ A foreigner, it requives a sacrifice of individuality,” was thn gem of marital wisdom “Don’t buy simply becanse i+ ad Joins @ good mine Thus Mr. Han moid recorded his convietion. “thon’ tlished back his wife, 1t is a com [ mon cause of marriage, bt aoioa suflicient one,” “Don'™ buy without an wnegu:li fledly tivorable report by o ponin exnert of intergrity, abiivy an? oy Prerien was commandmoent t o the decalogue of minery Shon’t marey withont gettne of a physician, The ti - will be a novelty | should he seat himself?- | takine PAGL THRER Budget From “Newly Wed.” I am a very interested reader of all | your good advice and suggestions to the many asking aid from you. May 1, too, ask a few questions? Am just | married and moved into our dear lit- | tle bungalow, and look to you for ad- vice. For which foods are finger | bowls used, and does a finger bowl stand fn a glass plate? When are the | finger bowls placed on the table? | When individual salt dishes are placed on the table with salt spoons, is the salt conveyed to the plate with small | spoon? Please give me a recipe for a frult salad containing grapefruit and | one without, also a cabbage salad recipe, if not too much trouble for you. In having cards printed shall I have my husband’'s name on my card, such as “Mrs, H. B. Jones" (or Harry B.)? Is it good taste to have a door plate with name on on our new home?—V. ' G. N. Finger bowls are necessary when fruit is served or corn on the cob, and many hostesses have them brought in with the dessert service or after fit. h bowl rests on a glass plate to match or on a china plate on top of a fine finger howl doily. The salt spoon {s used by the individual to put the salt on his plate. I cannot take the limited space to write out recipes un- less for some very unusual dish that What you wish will be found in any up-to-date cook book. Your cards should be engraved with your hushand's full name. Door plates are scldom used now, From “N. B. D" Will you kindly answer through the paper whether it is proper to bring a box of candy or chocolates when tak ing a lady to the theater? Also which gide chould a gentleman be on (right or left of lady) in escorting her across the ballroom floor, and on which side -N. LD, nothing improper about a box of candy to the theater, but it should be eaten during the in. termissfon and not during the play. Thove 18 | A man walks at the left of a lady and | sits at her left, offering his right arm ome when that will be ohlig 3 sadd - Mes. Hammond, * Also (g vivitual adviser and your ranily “Don't huy a mine unles Yo ar »the directors are houost and ! ceompetent,” brought from th engineer’s wife the counsel: it marry unless the man iz hoves wnd competent in the aifairs of it 7 In one rule, the 10th, there was ahsolute langnaee as all comnon agreement in in idea, “Don’t abandon in your choice.” Gas From Peat. The production of gas from peat having a low water content (up to about 20 per cent.) for use in suction gas (saugyra.) engines has already met with success in Germany, but for a number of vears efforts have been made to utilize peat with a water con- tent as high s 50 to 60 per cent. and thus eliminate the costly process of drying the raw materis « o+ . —— Maybe They're Expensive. “Do you expect to receive an ova- tion when you go down to see your constituents again?” "I do not know,” replied the financlal politician, ab-ent mindedly; “how much do ovations cost?” when occasion requires it Glove Etiquette. 13 1t necessary to remove the glove before shaking hands? Are there cer | tain occasions when this i3 or I8 not necegsary ?—"WAITING.” If a man ulmuhl be working and have on heavy soiled gloves he should remove them before shaking hands, otherwise it 18 not necessary. MADAME MERRI. Ereeze Baskets. The hedroom that I8 redolent of the old fashioned scent of lavender sug: pests refreshment and peace. It 18 not enough to line the wardrobe shelves with lavender sachets, though to do 80 is a step in the right direc- tion. Very pretty are the hanging “breeze” baskets which every breath of alr from the outside encourages to send forth a deliclous scent. The baskets are hung upon ribbon and slung upon the looking glass or upon the handle of an escritoire, out of | sight maybe, but not out of mind, Pretty Decoration for the Handkerchief or Glove Case A white silk glo: with this little bas white with yellow center® and the leaves and ferns in €7 stitch In green. The basket 1= ehade of brown, and the ribto blue, lavender or grees. ~erchlel case may be charmingly decorated colors. zet-m-enots in blue with yellow centers, ihe stems are done In the outllne o worked in the outline stitch in a light s done In the solid satin stitch In pink, Use filo :os; for the embroldery. 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