The Bismarck Tribune Newspaper, June 25, 1934, Page 7

HOMOCONTTUTCTMRR TINT AASALOANeNAecvenenattaanneUaneaenntanyenenaetittetae- ; OT TUITTUUILULUUIUD LMU TULL ous -onfMEMIUTUNUCENDACEAUAEAOELOEAUNNNEARUNNEDERRENEEERTUONRTOCUU NETO TUTTO What Every June Bride and Groom Should Know--- EiGuT R y? LARRIAGE 1—Yield on little points. 2—Be as fair to your spouse f as you would to your business gartner. 38—Be sure you both have ommon interests and then york together for common urposes. : 4—Don’t conceal financial vorries or financial successes. 5—Avoid letting your fam- ily or your friends influence you against your mate. 6—Be moderate in work and play. 7—Respect the privacy of |4 ) your spouse and suppress your § curiosity. ile oH NOM oA ul IHU em i | THINK everyone will agree with me that in our era where there are so many varied interests available to all, a husband and a wife should share a few and agree on a common purpoee. “If the husband is intensely interested in politics, I think his wife should cultivate an interest in the same field. If the wife is anx- ious to help in making a success out of a home for crippled children, I think she should con- sult her husband for advice as to the practical angles. “But it is even more important for a hus band and wife to arrive at a clear appraisal of what they expect to get out of life so they can keep a common goal in view thus work toward it in unison. z< i ht L ir Fe if = Hid fetlirl FR LGE domestic peace and keep marriage out of the both parents sacrifice their individual sel! courts, Regina Clark declares that the little aims for the common good of the family. points upon which husbands and wives refused . “Often I have personal prejudices to yield often appeared completely humorous, have been stored up for years in even ridiculous, to the outsider; yet they man- _ families of the couple come aged to create genuine distress. “A husband may dislike the way his wife serves his cereal in the morning,” says Miss Clark. “He may detest the smell of winter- q ] “green, which she persists in using. He may be Biggs the other r hand. annoyed at the way in which she tears her let- seem to at women in gen- ters open. eral are unfair in their demands. ; “The wife, on the other hand, may disap- They do not stop to think tha: prove of the way in which her husband holds = api pep or: be his little er lifting a cup a err She ue to a of lerstanding may criticize his driving in of friends. by the wife of the husband's : She may be initated by the sound ber husband struggles and obligations. | feel : makes when he indulges in his favorite pastime certain that, feminine nature be : of cracking hazelnuts. She may insist on din- ing what it is, where under ner at six in spite of the fact that he is often conten - sympathy 1 : detained in his office until that hour. to follow. ‘ lt is this very understanding *6XTONE of these points invplve serious with ity resultant tolerance that : ideals or points of conscience. is 20 difficult to achieve. Once “All of them are capable of being settled it is secured, it becomes the amicably if only both sides will be willing to bridge upon which the married yield and give up the practices which irritate couple can meet across the rive: the otker. But too often these small irritations result in a nervous tension that comes from ap unwillingness to compromise even in such truly minor matters, stones, trees and houses, without ’ “What I mean by the second rule is that the being able to get together on basis of a business ip i i a sedi I have heard this Miss wna Clark, the Philadelphia lawyer who has devised eight rules to prevent disaster in marriage. peettt teeth : eri r p-ejite i 4 idi q L Hiprtt ile vets i i : i i ij F283 ; : E i i Ee i F fl uF li A f zt ié GF t # page 5 RE Hith i pei lepdt sports, “Besides, a business ip is sonal prejudices and petty differences are in- the desire for co-operatior? by all the evitably dragged in. there are no privileged persons who “Occasionally there :s a reconciliation, but catered to by all the others. Thus, in mar. that is always based on the advice of the judge. riage, where there are two partners, who sees the truth on both sides and gets then, them must realize the necessity for sincere both to yield and effect a compromise. The genuine co-operation. judge supplies the understanding which. the “Connected with this is the wisdom of the husband and wife have failed to find when left husband telling his wife everything about his to themselves.” Gnancial status. Often the wife knows noth- In elaborating on the eight rules to preserve ing of the husband's true income. (Copyright, 1934, by EveryWeek Magasine.) avg cs +H ‘ r MMM ' Et Hy 2. STU TIT TTI und TT TT laa Te PTT TOTO LT OVATION OSPR UATCLUACANELECUUUENE AGE NLUACc CAA AACULELUOUUMLUALL-